UllrsIshtar
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar A woman who excludes you on her profile has already told you 'no'. Writing her means that you do not take 'no' for an answer, and feel entitled to push her to attempt to change her mind, AFTER she has already told you 'no'. Right. I see nothing wrong with making one polite attempt at changing her mind. When she's already said 'no', in no uncertain terms, the attempt is, by definition, not polite. Polite adjective showing regard for others, in manners, speech, behaviour, etc; courteous By ignoring somebody's request to not be contacted by you, you are showing DISregard for her, in manner, speech and behavior. Ergo, your attempt is by definition impolite, because you're doing the opposite of what it takes to be polite. You're doing the exact same thing as a telemarketer who keeps calling after you've asked to be put on the 'do not call' list, and there isn't a person in the US who would define such behavior as 'polite'. It doesn't really matter if the telemarketer prefaces their call with: "I know you said not to call you again, but I think you're really going to be interested after all", it's still down right rude to insist on bothering somebody who has already told you that they're not interested. You cannot be 'polite' when you mail her to change her mind when she's already told you 'no'. It is literally impossible to do so, by the very definition of what it means to be polite. What you're saying is akin to saying: "I'm always very polite while I'm being rude."
< Message edited by UllrsIshtar -- 3/17/2016 1:53:59 PM >
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