LadyPact
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First: if I spend at least 15 minutes to write a well thought message, I am not worth 5 seconds for a "No thanks"?
Here is a reality check. No, you are not. That makes you no different than any other advertisement or solicitation than all of us see everyday.
Out of curiosity, have you started replying to your spam email yet since you started this thread? No? Why not? If you are not, all of the statements you have made on this thread are hypocritical because you want other people to do something that you are not willing to do, yourself.
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Second: if a lady get 100 messages wich don't interest her, it takes her at most 5 seconds x 100 = about 8 minutes to answer them all with "No thanks". Are all the dommes here such very important persons that 8 minutes would have dramatic consequences on their lifes, while already this thread shows that some of them spend much more time only to spew out bullshit on the forums?
Part one. Your math is flawed. You completely skipped the integer of the amount of time that it took the recipient to read the 100 emails. Instead, you went straight for the amount of time it takes to bang out "no thanks" a hundred times on her keyboard.
But, since you want to take the shortcut to that eight minutes a day, lets do some other math...
Eight minutes each day (bare minimum to type out "no thanks") times 365 days a year. That works out to 2920 minutes, which works out to be 48.666~ hours, or two entire 24 hour days plus change in any given year.
Personally, I've been a member of the forum for nine years, two months, and some odd days. For me, that means 2920 minutes times that nine years, which is (for just the nine years, we'll skip the months) 26,280 minutes total. That works out to 23.94 days that I would be wasting on stuff that I wasn't interested in, in the first place.
Now, to address the part I put in bold. When women reply to these 'why don't people answer emails threads," there are certain things you are not taking into account.
* One, we are not just talking to YOU. We are talking to the thousands of guys just like you.
* Two, it's an interesting topic, which unlike the email that you send, is a conversation in which we want to engage.
* Three, some of us actually want to attempt to help people achieve better success.
As one of the people who doesn't use this site to date, it never ceases to amaze me that I read the research about introductory emails, how to improve the chances of getting a response, and a bunch of other online dating data than most of you. That, right there, should be an indicator at how badly most people approach this.
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Is it because a number of men are assholes, that women should treat all men to be the same?
Kind of, because some of us don't want to treat our email inbox as some form of Russian roulette.
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