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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:25:16 PM

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Thank you for your reply.

The paper said a LOT of young girls are doing it

You keep repeating that like it's the gospel. What is "a lot"? What is the percentage? Because I'm willing to bet the percentage is quite small and then even lower for someone willing to be a paid live in submissive to a guy old enougt to be her grandfather.

What paper was the source? How much are the women being paid for this "arrangement"?

Already did this once.

It broke up when I didn't want to have sex with her anymore.

There is a website that sets these things up ... and the first day on it ... I had 30 offers.

So it is out there. Even if you ladies don't want to hear it.

Lots of young girls are doing it.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:29:17 PM

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What paper was the source? How much are the women being paid for this "arrangement"?

I think this might be the article..

http://www.freep.com/story/life/2016/05/29/students-sugar-daddies-tuition-rent/85128198/

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:30:00 PM

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Eeuwww- you're in for a disappointment. If you were to advertise on Collarspace for a kid to Dom, and found a partner that way, at least she had a choice as to her lifestyle. To proposition a vanilla kid is plain bad manners and so vain of you. If she was my daughter is probably be paying you a visit with a baseball bat.
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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:31:35 PM

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Let's say she agreed when you asked her..

For your own safety, wouldn't you really want to find out a lot about her prior to even considering moving her into your life/home?

Absolutely! And Yes I would.

Then, I would want to know a lot more about her ... it would NOT be more in tomorrow.

Initially, I want to know if she is interested in an arrangement. If she is then ... all the get to know you, run the back ground check, etc could occur.

Yet frankly, I will not harm her, and just want to know she won't harm me.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:32:44 PM

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There is a website that sets these things up ... and the first day on it ... I had 30 offers.

Which is apples and oranges. You're talking about a woman that you don't really know at a bar vs. someone that is already specifially looking for that situation.

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Even if you ladies don't want to hear it.

You're confusing "don't to hear it" with being realistic about the chances of a stranger agreeing to what you want.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:32:45 PM

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What paper was the source? How much are the women being paid for this "arrangement"?

I think this might be the article..

http://www.freep.com/story/life/2016/05/29/students-sugar-daddies-tuition-rent/85128198/

Yep, that is it!

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:33:10 PM

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The paper said a LOT of young girls are doing it

Don't believe everything you read in the paper.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:35:34 PM

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Oh, and I think she told you about her tribulations so you would feel for her situation & give her a bigger than normal tip, nothing more.

VOICE OF EXPERIENCE: Yup, nailed it.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:36:53 PM

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There is a website that sets these things up ... and the first day on it ... I had 30 offers.
Which is apples and oranges. You're talking about a woman that you don't really know at a bar vs. someone that is already specifially looking for that situation.

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Even if you ladies don't want to hear it.
You're confusing "don't to hear it" with being realistic about the chances of a stranger agreeing to what you want.

Said I would ask, very carefully and guardedly. Yet it IS popular among women her age ... so there is a chance.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:37:57 PM

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Appreciate your thoughts; although both of you might be way out of touch with today's reality.

No, I doubt it. I suspect I am actually in closer touch than you, what with being a woman paying for university through being a bartender.

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Today life is .. tic for tat .. no?

No.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:39:03 PM

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and the first day on it ... I had 30 offers.

LOL
And why didn't you take up any of those offers?

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:39:32 PM

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Are you gonna give a update when you've asked her ...lol

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:41:15 PM

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It’s not at all creepy for an old man to be seeking out a much younger submissive, or at least it’s no creepier than any of the other fetishes we should be tolerant of on a site like this. (For instance, it's almost de rigueur in rope performance to see a 60+ yr old guy fondling a 20- yr old girl.) What makes it creepy, not to mention illegal, is the $ for sex quid pro quo part of the equation, and on that point I would warn anybody who embraces the fantasy that living with a hot young woman is intrinsically a good thing to think of all that can go wrong, and most likely will. In fact, this has given me a good idea for a horror movie that I’ll be writing tonight…!

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:41:39 PM

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Yet it IS popular among women her age ... so there is a chance.

What's the percentage?

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:43:48 PM

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You want to pay for a girl to have sex with you?
She is going to extract a large price out of you.

If you are prepared to pay you will be like every other married guy.
You will have a contract.
You give her money for sex.
She gives you sex for money.

Fair and square.

Normanlly she can get that from any guy and nmormally she picks a guy somewhat around her age.
So you are out of her normal range.

But hey they all do it.
So go for it.

Just remember what I said.
She extracts her price and there is a contract which will eventuelly be broken in 90% of the situations.

So be prepaired for the price when the contract is broken.
Which for married guys is basically half of what you own today.

Diveide that by the number of times you had sex and it comes out to many thouusands of dollars per sex act.

Then think about how cheap a hooker findomme is by way of comparison.
No contract!

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:48:18 PM

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Yet it IS popular among women her age

Not according to the article you claim as your source.

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"Sugar Daddy" arrangements have existed for ages, and it's unclear if they are becoming more common because the phenomenon is not well studied.

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It's difficult to pin down exactly how many students are involved in such situations, because they are private transactions. And it's a niche rarely studied by academics

Now the article does say

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SeekingArrangement.com says student users on the site jumped from 79,400 worldwide in 2010 to 1.9 million this year

However, please note that it says "worldwide". How many of those worldwide "students" are Ukrainian or Romanian scams?
Also, just take a look at this site, how many thousands of members are defunct and no longer active? How many just gave up and yet their profile remains, to boost the website's "membership" numbers.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:49:51 PM

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I am single, NOT married

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:53:06 PM

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Wow, You are really driven on this aren't you?

How do You know I am not just bored today, and started a post to amuse myself?

Done that before to, with A Domme from Monreal. We used to have fun like this.

Have a great day!

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:55:09 PM

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You want to pay for a girl to have sex with you?
She is going to extract a large price out of you.

If you are prepared to pay you will be like every other married guy.
You will have a contract.
You give her money for sex.
She gives you sex for money.

Fair and square.

Normanlly she can get that from any guy and nmormally she picks a guy somewhat around her age.
So you are out of her normal range.

But hey they all do it.
So go for it.

Just remember what I said.
She extracts her price and there is a contract which will eventuelly be broken in 90% of the situations.

So be prepaired for the price when the contract is broken.
Which for married guys is basically half of what you own today.

Diveide that by the number of times you had sex and it comes out to many thouusands of dollars per sex act.

Then think about how cheap a hooker findomme is by way of comparison.
No contract!

Are you single?

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:56:07 PM

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How do You know I am not just bored today, and started a post to amuse myself?

How do you know I am not just bored and am replying to your thread just to amuse myself?

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