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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 2:59:25 PM   
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If you are prepared to pay you will be like every other married guy.


Are you single?



Yes I am!

Have to push girls off me at the boat club around fourth of July!



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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:00:57 PM   
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How do You know I am not just bored today, and started a post to amuse myself?

How do you know I am not just bored and am replying to your thread just to amuse myself?



GREAT COMBACK, Dizzy Chick!

That one is precious!

Have a great day!

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:01:21 PM   
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How do You know I am not just bored today, and started a post to amuse myself?





You could be...but then I'd question if you enjoy being humiliated.

Again, what Dizzy and I are stating: We're not denying that it exists. What we are questioning is your repeated use of 'a lot' and "popular" with no statitics to back that up.

The reality is that YOU want it be "a lot" and be "popular", when it's really not.

Good luck in your endeavor and please keep us updated with her response.


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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:01:25 PM   
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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:05:36 PM   
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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:06:44 PM   
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How do You know I am not just bored today, and started a post to amuse myself?





You could be...but then I'd question if you enjoy being humiliated.

Again, what Dizzy and I are stating: We're not denying that it exists. What we are questioning is your repeated use of 'a lot' and "popular" with no statitics to back that up.

The reality is that YOU want it be "a lot" and be "popular", when it's really not.

Good luck in your endeavor and please keep us updated with her response.



Thanks, but it will be tough to keep you updated; as I was waiting for a storm to pass here.

And of course I have no statistics, but I bet it happens far more than you wish to accept.


Have a great holiday.

Plus thanks for responding!

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:07:14 PM   
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This is so creepy on so many levels.

And I feel bad for her, because she can't slap you across the face if you ask her this, or say, "Do you realize I would rather eat my own vomit than sleep with you?" -- or else she will lose her job and she obviously needs her job.

So it's especially UNFAIR to her that you, a customer, put her in that position, and she will be FORCED to be diplomatic (and I am sure you will assume her soft no is a "maybe" and keep pestering, and soon she'll be agonizing over how to shut you down without angering her bosses for pissing off a customer. Plus what if you retaliate?)

Do not put her in this position by even at hinting at such a thing. If you want that kind of thing, do one of the ads the article talks about and find a lady LOOKING FOR IT.

Oh, and by the way, of those thousands of women signing up for these arrangements, any guesses on how many are FAKE anyway -- either guys looking to get their rocks off by pretending to be a sugar baby negotiating with a dude, etc?

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:13:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		OP said this: Think she would love to spend a couple years with a caring and loving, older and mentoring man. A relationship that would be a stepping stone for her life,

That's why my question was framed the way it was.

There's nothing noble in an old man feigning concern in order to get his dick touched.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:21:00 PM   
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I'm far from out of touch. I have zero problems with financial arrangements or those who make them. I do take issue with duplicitous predatory types like yourself.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:32:06 PM   
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This is so creepy on so many levels.

And I feel bad for her, because she can't slap you across the face if you ask her this, or say, "Do you realize I would rather eat my own vomit than sleep with you?" -- or else she will lose her job and she obviously needs her job.

So it's especially UNFAIR to her that you, a customer, put her in that position, and she will be FORCED to be diplomatic (and I am sure you will assume her soft no is a "maybe" and keep pestering, and soon she'll be agonizing over how to shut you down without angering her bosses for pissing off a customer. Plus what if you retaliate?)

Do not put her in this position by even at hinting at such a thing. If you want that kind of thing, do one of the ads the article talks about and find a lady LOOKING FOR IT.

Oh, and by the way, of those thousands of women signing up for these arrangements, any guesses on how many are FAKE anyway -- either guys looking to get their rocks off by pretending to be a sugar baby negotiating with a dude, etc?

Akasha



Thanks AAkasha.

And after all these years You suggest I lack dignity and class?

That girl will never be put in a bad position by me. I am not even interested in any kind of a relationship with her.

Rather i am trying to decide between two wonderful Dommes in their late 40's who are exactly my type!

This topic just seemed like an interesting controversial conversation on a slow boring day with the rain falling.

Kind of like some of the short stories You have posted. After all, many say yours are creepy, too.

So You know, I did do an arrangement off that site a number of years ago with one girl from Flint.

She initiated the conversation. Then, in the end i paid her way through obtaining a degree and license in massage therapy.

Her parents were long gone, she was raised by her grandparents, and then, she had no one.

Honestly, I cared for her like she was my daughter; still do; even though I haven't seen her in a year and a half.

Didn't even want to have sex with here either. I just care for her in a special part of my heart.

Don't think that is creepy at all ...



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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:32:19 PM   
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And I feel bad for her, because she can't slap you across the face if you ask her this, or say, "Do you realize I would rather eat my own vomit than sleep with you?" -- or else she will lose her job and she obviously needs her job.

I am not so sure of that, seeing as what he would be doing is technically soliciting for prostitution, and therefore illegal as fuck in Michigan, she may well be able to get away with that, and might also manage to get him arrested and thrown in jail.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:45:36 PM   
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And I feel bad for her, because she can't slap you across the face if you ask her this, or say, "Do you realize I would rather eat my own vomit than sleep with you?" -- or else she will lose her job and she obviously needs her job.

I am not so sure of that, seeing as what he would be doing is technically soliciting for prostitution, and therefore illegal as fuck in Michigan, she may well be able to get away with that, and might also manage to get him arrested and thrown in jail.


A totally unlikely scenario.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 3:47:51 PM   
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And I feel bad for her, because she can't slap you across the face if you ask her this, or say, "Do you realize I would rather eat my own vomit than sleep with you?" -- or else she will lose her job and she obviously needs her job.

I am not so sure of that, seeing as what he would be doing is technically soliciting for prostitution, and therefore illegal as fuck in Michigan, she may well be able to get away with that, and might also manage to get him arrested and thrown in jail.



Yet if I can add, You are REALLY taken with this topic.

Or, is it raining there, too?



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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 4:00:01 PM   
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My personal motto is Quid Pro No but, anyway...

I'm far from out of touch. I have zero problems with financial arrangements or those who make them. I do take issue with duplicitous predatory types like yourself.


Then DO delete that last sentence of yours.

You know nothing about me; and in your delusionary state; assume I am predatory.

In a similar vein, I can easily say, you are a delusionary Trump supporter. No?

But honestly, How would I know?

Have a great day!

And here is a drink to Financial arrangements; and those who make them!

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 4:00:41 PM   
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A totally unlikely scenario.

And how many years have you spent tending bar being on the receiving end of creepy propositions from horny old men?
I'm at 15 years doing it.....you?

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 4:03:31 PM   
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A totally unlikely scenario.

And how many years have you spent tending bar being on the receiving end of creepy propositions from horny old men?
I'm at 15 years doing it.....you?


Oh, about 15 years being a creepy old man at the bar giving You Big Tips!

BTW, was it you who got on her knees for a boat ride last 4th of July?

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 4:04:56 PM   
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Or, is it raining there, too?

Nope, but I am a stay at home Mom with a new born, and it's not a holiday here, I did my errands earlier today, one Fella is out west trying to put out a wild fire, and the other one is flying around saving lives somewhere.
So yeah, I'm bored.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 4:10:11 PM   
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Have a great day, nonetheless!

And I hope your Fella's come home safe and sound!





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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 4:16:20 PM   
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She has no friends or family locally. So why not talk more with her about an arrangement?

My thoughts of course are: she could live with me for free and save the money she earns; we both would share some companionship and comfort; and i could get sex regularly.

Of course when she had every thing worked out in her life; she would be free to go.

Ya know, I kind of liked the idea ... so



Meh...

As somebody who has actually been in that type of arrangement before, and knows several other women who have as well, I'll tell you right now: she can do better than you.

Not only can she do younger than you, she can also get somebody who will make sure she has her own room, and who will throw in pocket money in addition to her 'saving on rent'.
Back in the day when I knew a couple of galls in this type of arrangement going rates for 'pocket money' started at 500 euros a month and went up to a couple thousands depending on the age of the dude (older men gotta pay far more, considering that there's various younger men willing to match lower rates).

Also, 'regular sex' is depending on definitions, and all the girls I know (including myself) had stipulations on how frequently sexual exchanges were required, with the maximum arrangement I know with being 5 times a week.

So yeah... if she's really interested in this, she can do better than you.

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RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? - 5/30/2016 4:20:42 PM   
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The only thing I can say is ... we use Dollars here.

Have a great day!



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