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General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 2:51:08 PM   
Lovelyness


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I seek advice

I am a 29 F submissive that has been on and off of collarme/collarspace for the last 9 years.
About 6 years ago I fell in love with a Master from this site our communication has continued on and off since then through daily emails, texting. We have met maybe 4 times in RL due to being multiple states away and both of is having relationships on and off throughout these years.
fast forward til now.
He seeks for me to sign a general power of attorney, and surrender all of my belonging to be sold, which he states the proceeds will be placed in a separate account only I have access to in the event we don't work out. I have been told his training he expects to be 4 to 5 months long.

and wants me to understand that if i agree to this deal that while i am tied up being punished that begging and pleading or stating that i do no want this Sir, will not work and he will continue.

I obviously have very very strong fears, and I certainly do not like pain.

I guess my question is.

Can this be real life and be safe?
Am I insane for considering it?

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 3:07:08 PM   
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Absolutely do NOT do this!!!!

And seriously, training?

What does being tied up and beaten teach you?

I'll also add, if you've only met him 4 times, he's pretty much a stranger to you.

I'm just flabbergasted that you would even consider this. I wonder how many others he has scammed like this?

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 3:12:33 PM   
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You're 29 and are even remotely considering this piece of idiocy???

You do realise that the probability of him selling all your stuff and never seeing you again is higher than things working out the way he says they will - right?

Would you consider doing anything like this with someone you met in your home town, that you had only met 4 times before?

And for the record, anyone who suggests such a thing given your limited time in real life is not someone you need to be tied up before, because he obviously doesn't have the sense god gave an ant!

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 3:37:19 PM   
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She's obviously not good with numbers, as she seems to lose count by the time she reaches the number four.

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 4:10:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lovelyness

I seek advice

I am a 29 F submissive that has been on and off of collarme/collarspace for the last 9 years.
About 6 years ago I fell in love with a Master from this site our communication has continued on and off since then through daily emails, texting. We have met maybe 4 times in RL due to being multiple states away and both of is having relationships on and off throughout these years.
fast forward til now.
He seeks for me to sign a general power of attorney, and surrender all of my belonging to be sold, which he states the proceeds will be placed in a separate account only I have access to in the event we don't work out. I have been told his training he expects to be 4 to 5 months long.

and wants me to understand that if i agree to this deal that while i am tied up being punished that begging and pleading or stating that i do no want this Sir, will not work and he will continue.

I obviously have very very strong fears, and I certainly do not like pain.

I guess my question is.

Can this be real life and be safe?
Am I insane for considering it?


Male or female....do NOT sign over......YOU.

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 4:40:22 PM   
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I'm shaking my head at part of the post

the other part of the post I'm with the rest don't do it, smells to me like he's some sort of user and or abuser

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 5:26:53 PM   
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He's not going to give you access to a dime. He may well force you to earn money by whoring you out. Beating and restraining are common among pimps.

If he really wanted a long term relationship with you he would suggest both of you job hunt and whoever first finds one would move to the other.

If you are going to be foolish enough to put yourself in the hands of someone who has been clear that what he wants is opposite of what you do, I urge you to fill out a new poa the day after, revoking the first one and giving it to someone who cares more about you than his dick. Like your mother, or an attorney.

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 7:58:30 PM   
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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 8:54:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lovelyness

I seek advice

I am a 29 F submissive that has been on and off of collarme/collarspace for the last 9 years.
About 6 years ago I fell in love with a Master from this site our communication has continued on and off since then through daily emails, texting. We have met maybe 4 times in RL due to being multiple states away and both of is having relationships on and off throughout these years.
fast forward til now.
He seeks for me to sign a general power of attorney, and surrender all of my belonging to be sold, which he states the proceeds will be placed in a separate account only I have access to in the event we don't work out. I have been told his training he expects to be 4 to 5 months long.

and wants me to understand that if i agree to this deal that while i am tied up being punished that begging and pleading or stating that i do no want this Sir, will not work and he will continue.

I obviously have very very strong fears, and I certainly do not like pain.

I guess my question is.

Can this be real life and be safe?



But if he holds a general power of attorney for you, he can access that supposed "secure" bank account any time he wants, without having you there. There are other things that a legal power of attorney can do, but take over finances is definitely one of them. He can sell any stocks or bonds you may have, I believe that he can even apply for credit cards under your name (not certain about that one, I will check with someone and get back to you on that).

A POA should be someone you know well best friend, family member, or the like. Not some dude you met 4 times regardless of how long you have known him online.

quote:

Am I insane for considering it?


Yes.

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 9:01:26 PM   
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A POA can make ALL financial decisions and depending on which type can make medical decisions too, including having someone institutionalized.

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 9/30/2016 9:09:53 PM >


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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 9:11:53 PM   
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If I'm not mistaken, a POA has to signed by a real attorney. I hope this is the case here and the attorney in this case will tell the OP that she is an idiot.

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 9:13:33 PM   
OsideGirl


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Nope. You can print out a form from the internet, both sign it and have it notorized. Baddabam!

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 9:23:23 PM   
Lucylastic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lovelyness

I seek advice

I am a 29 F submissive that has been on and off of collarme/collarspace for the last 9 years.
About 6 years ago I fell in love with a Master from this site our communication has continued on and off since then through daily emails, texting. We have met maybe 4 times in RL due to being multiple states away and both of is having relationships on and off throughout these years.
fast forward til now.
He seeks for me to sign a general power of attorney, and surrender all of my belonging to be sold, which he states the proceeds will be placed in a separate account only I have access to in the event we don't work out. I have been told his training he expects to be 4 to 5 months long.

and wants me to understand that if i agree to this deal that while i am tied up being punished that begging and pleading or stating that i do no want this Sir, will not work and he will continue.

I obviously have very very strong fears, and I certainly do not like pain.

I guess my question is.

Can this be real life and be safe?
Am I insane for considering it?



With POA he can access your "separate" account.
Why are you even considering this?
What brought you to this point, im curious...
apart from thinking yes, you are insane for considering it
And this comes from a woman who moved in with a man the day after she met him.


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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 9:23:57 PM   
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First of all, I am not an idiot. I am a real person, with real emotions, and thoughts like the rest of the world . To belittle someone in this lifestyle for being submissive in any form seems rude.

I posted my question, because I can easily see the possibilites of a bad outcome here. However, we love who we love and do not choose who we end up feeling submissive towards. His charm is beatiful, and I was torn between am i just not being submissive enough, am i not taking the scary leap, am I not submitting in a way I should, or is this crazy? Fear has kept us from forming a relationship all this time because his expectations have been higher than ...my fear could over come. The quilt I feel from not being submissive enough to be with the man I feel I love is a very real thing. When I postedt his I expected to hear that this isnt the first time anyone has heard of such. Obvouisly I am submissive and not a slave and I feel great guilt for not being able to endure the punishments and pain he expects. I ..just needed some advice.

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 9:29:07 PM   
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I know there are limited POAs so I thought perhaps his want of a POA might be more medically driven... but ofcourse I have not recieved a firm answer on his thoughts behind it yet. Am I crazy for considering it? Yes, I am 100 percent crazy or I probably would not want a man to tell me what to eat, and where to place my eyes. I have never ...in my life done the things I will do for this man. Is power exchange more than words? Yes, it would seem so...because I have lost my mind.

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 9:30:26 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Nope. You can print out a form from the internet, both sign it and have it notorized. Baddabam!

Really? I know nothing about it, I have never looked into it, or had experience with it, except thru a lawyer, it would seem to be an awfully dodgy way of doing things unless it was for a known incapacity or imminent death and sickness, "showing my ignorance"

another thing to research:)


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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 9:35:41 PM   
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1) You're not supposed to post on your own thread with a second account.

2) I've been at this for 25 years and I've been in a TPE relationship for 17 of them. The only time I have heard of this has been scams.

3) D/s is just a relationship. If it's something you wouldn't tolerate in a vaniilla relationship, you shouldn't do it in a D/s relationship.

Don't kid your self or guilt trip yourself (and he's probably helping with that guilt) into giving up your common sense.

Honestly, you really don't know each other and trust is earned. I'll also add that a good Dominant has enough sense to know where he shouldn't go.

This isn't about the so-called training - it's about your future.

So, I will say again. Don't do it.



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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 9:37:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RainbowsandUnico

Yes, it would seem so...because I have lost my mind.

I would consider that to be sub frenzy.

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 9:40:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucylastic


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Nope. You can print out a form from the internet, both sign it and have it notorized. Baddabam!

Really? I know nothing about it, I have never looked into it, or had experience with it, except thru a lawyer, it would seem to be an awfully dodgy way of doing things unless it was for a known incapacity or imminent death and sickness, "showing my ignorance"

another thing to research:)


Due to police profiling towards motorcycles in our area lately, some friends and I dd POAs that allows us to retrieve each others motorcycles, should they be impounded.

I also hold full POAs on both of my parents.

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RE: General Power of Attorney - 9/30/2016 9:47:25 PM   
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I feel that there is plenty of things I would not do in a vanillia relationship that I would submitted myself to in a BDSM relationship. After all I would allow someone to shave my head in a vanillia relationship. However here there is an expectation of power exchange...a give and take...a Dom and a sub. It only makes sense that ofcourse my mind here is a bit weaker than his...and yes he has the upper hand here...and I struggling to hear my logic over his wishes.

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