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LadyHugs -> RE: Menstrual cycle…. (7/26/2006 12:34:53 PM)
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Dear Master96, Ladies and Gentlemen;
I'll first say it is a bloody topic indeed! [Chuckles] --
In all seriousness, it depends on the women on the cycle. In my younger experiences in the scene, a female slave did not have the luxury of tampons or pads. So, everything slave was natural. The practice of sitting on a butt rag --the term of which goes back 'on the rag' as not to soil the furniture in the swinging community that was merged with BDSM sex and swinging at the time, were told to bring their own towels so nobody's furniture had menstrual fluids and or orgasm and or other body functional issues applied to the furniture.
Some women bleed more than others. Some women have short cycles and or long, with everything in between. Some are extremely irregular so, like Pearl Habor, we get sneak attacks suddenly, when it comes to menstration.
How it effects the 'play' can vary. If you wish to play around the genitals, it is a good idea to pad the area and or tampon the area, cover with suran wrap and or cling wrap and enjoy the toys on top of the barriers. Otherwise, use items that can be washed in a dish washer and or sterilized in a medical device, designed to sterilize.
Being mindful that the chemicals in women's body, scent, emotional and mental realms are changed, that in turn will effect the whole tone of the scene. Women are all different on how these 'cycles' go. Talking to them is so important. It has always been considered a 'dirty' topic that proper ladies don't talk about for generations. I cannot tell you how much it means to submissive/slave women to feel sexy, wanted and held during these periods. (No pun intended). If their body is in agony--the best scene is hugging and loving your slave with tenderness. Most women I've spoken to, feel that men will abandon them or find them repulsive when on these cycles. This is the time when women need a Master/Mistress the most.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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