Her profile had nothing vanilla. It was 3 lines requesting only deepthroating. I couldn't believe it either.
Well all I can say is, you should perhaps approach women with some vanilla stuffs in it to form a proper connection.
Such a profile, she will definitely 1000 responses to choose from and why would she choose yours you know? Put yourself in her shoes, and think about what other men might say. Others might even just invite her out for no obligation dinner and wanna pamper her and get to know her.
I tell you, online, women get alot of options. You really need to think about what will make you stand up.
Your inexperience in dominance is clear as night and day the way you spoke to her.
Dominance is about inspiring somebody to want to follow you and obey you. Because if you can't inspire someone, then you can't dominate over anybody since nobody will cooperate with you. And then you are just a self-proclaim dominant so far until you inspire one woman to voluntarily want to follow you.
Thank you for taking me at my word. I started offering to cook dinner. Salmon and broccoli. I also start with a nice hi,person, how are you? Oh, you guys will love this. I bought a BDSM book, and it says vanilla and no sex in the first message. I still don't see it working, but you guys are vindicated. And the book is written by a woman, if you think I have some problem with that gender. I am NOT afraid to admit when I am wrong. I just want a little proof. I'm not sure what to do about my profile. Most people don't get that far anyway. But all I can discern from your post is there's a lot of it, and it sucks. No clue how to improve it. I know. I did a search, and l EVERYBODY was on. Saying I am inexperienced is fair and politely put.