LotusSong
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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery quote:
ORIGINAL: cloudboy quote:
And would you still be interested in your girlfriend if she sprung the fact on you that she can only get aroused by wearing a padded belly under her flannel shirt with a painted on beard and plastic penis shoved down her baggy jeans? Frankly, I love women in Men's clothes --- and probably prefer them to conventional, feminine attire. She wouldn't wear a flannel shirt though, but if she wanted to wear a jock strap with a sock in it -- that might be fun, especially out in public. Nothing you've mentioned would stop me from taking her hand, looking into her eyes and kissing her. If, too, I could somehow validate and connect with her kink --- and this animated and aroused her --- well I see a lot of good in that. My point to you was that sissy scored a point off of you. It was a good one, too. No one else really seemed to pick up upon that. Sissy's main point, which is one I take well to heart, is try to see and have a curiosity in individuals --- as opposed to not seeing individuals because you are blinded by mass labels, generalizations, prejudices, and past experiences. I think CDs have it tough enough as it is, w/o a bunch of piling on. Furthermore, CDs tend to be especially vulnerable, isolated, lost, and unpartnered. So, seeing sissy, who had intelligence, backbone, wit --- holding up the flagstaff while under a femdom assault was a bit inspirational to me. Sorry, must have missed that. quote:
Her core desire to be loved, appreciated, and not exploited is really, really, really resonate with me. I'm 100% in her corner on that one. quote:
Nicely said cloudboy. And the point was missed. We are not talking "men's" clothing alone. If a Man liked to wear women's clothing, I have no problem with that, but they will also put on the amenities and their version of a female persona. Now with my said "girlfriend" example, he seemed to miss the painted (or glued) on facial hair and simulated potbelly.. add a deep voice to top it off. Not socks, prosthetic penis. Add that she insists you refer to her as SIR or He. Let's envision the whole nine yards as a surprise revelation... And be HONEST. And the more I read this thread, I'm not getting any more endeared to the practice.
< Message edited by LotusSong -- 9/19/2006 3:25:32 PM >
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