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Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 1:32:38 AM   
Princessacandy


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Status: offline 		        Im curious to hear the opnions out there on Pro Domina's... Like Myself...

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 1:55:24 AM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		i'm sure there will be someone that could direct You to the infinite forums here regarding "Pro Dommes", my own opinion is nearly legendary and is clearly posted on the other forums...i will not rehash them here.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 2:16:44 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		I have no problem with pro dominas as a whole.  There are quite a few I have a lot of respect for.  There are also quite a few who are an embarassment...just like the non pros.  Each person is different and I take them on their own merits.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 2:44:08 AM   
MistressSassy66


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Status: offline 		Opinions on Pros here are not very nice. But oh well...I have found way to many that fit what I want here,so I'm not leaving.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 3:06:18 AM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Princessacandy

       Im curious to hear the opnions out there on Pro Domina's... Like Myself...

Opinions on what about pro doms?  Please be a little bit more specific.  We've beaten this topic into the ground on more than one occasion......so I hope you're done a search first before inciting WW3.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 5:10:02 AM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		The key phrase here is "like you"

Ok.... what are you like?

If I were to form an opinion at this point, with the minimal information provided... my answer may not be what it could be if more information were provided.



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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 6:00:59 AM   
jeffman1234


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Status: offline 		I guess as long as they are up front about it. To each their own. 

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 6:21:40 AM   
MistressDolly


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ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

I have no problem with pro dominas as a whole.  There are quite a few I have a lot of respect for.  There are also quite a few who are an embarassment...just like the non pros.  Each person is different and I take them on their own merits.



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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 8:23:37 AM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		I'm with MsKat ... it entirely depends on the person. And that's the same in the local scene as it is here. Locally I have met some excellent pro-Dommes who are very knowledgeable, expert in their chosen preferences and who provide a necessary service for their clients, and also provide some level of aftercare. They are also very aware of how what they provide differs from lifestyle D/s. Some of them also live the lifestyle outside of their work. Unfortunately some of them have also suffered burnout, it is not easy money! I have also met one or two who are downright dangerous and not professional anything, except perhaps pro-idiots. However, I have also met lifestyle Dommes (and Doms I might add) that fit into both categories. The idiots of both ilks are a hazard to Us all, as if one of them seriously injures a sub (or worse!), the whole scene will pay the price with the media and police attention that would ensue. For Myself, I have no wish to earn money this way, I already have a profession and I'd rather stick with that. It's exactly the same reasoning for why I didn't become a professional musician or singer ... then the fun and spontaneity of My hobby would be supplanted by the requirement to perform whether I wanted to or not. No contest for Me!

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 8:35:06 AM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		I think there are two questions here, what do we think of pro dominas, and then the additional "like you".  I totally believe and support the rights of ProDominas, but my own personal opinion (and that is all it is) is the those that think of others like worms and say they will "banish you forever" and generally have the mindset that everyone else should be treated like garbage are not Pro Dommes.

*Disclaimer* This is my PERSONAL opinion only.  I also think that some "Pro Dominas" and their attitudes taint the perception towards other Pro Dommes, who I personally feel provide a valuable service. 

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 8:44:51 AM   
thetammyjo


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ORIGINAL: Princessacandy

Im curious to hear the opnions out there on Pro Domina's... Like Myself...


Well, I don't know you so I can't really make comments about you.

For me, I must confess that I don't like the idea of taking money for something I feel is a deep personal relationship that I spend a lot of time working on. I could never, ever take money for my Ds or SM that I do. I don't even like gifts unless there is a good reason for them. I figure the gift I get is someone who is sincere about his/her submission and desire to learn and serve me.

Of the professional dominants I've known I'd had mixed impressions. Some of them were caring women who had a lot of skill and really enjoyed their profession. Others had nasty atttitudes toward clients and didn't appear to have skills beyond what I'd expect a total newbie to have.

Those in the first group I liked; those in the second actually pissed me off because too often I've had folks assume that I as a dominant woman act like that second group just because of my sex, gender, and role. Even if they don't think they are part of the BDSM community what they do and how they act affect how vanillas and newbies see us.

Personally I think all sex work (yes, I do consider professional domination to part of sex work even if there is no direct sexual contact) should be legal. I think trying to outlaw what is clearly a desired business that as far as I know does not damage anyone involved is ridiculous. Whether you are engaging in vanilla sex, talking on the phone, writing a story, or swinging a whip I think it is a business that needs to be acknowledged as one of the oldest businesses arrangements in human history.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 8:48:06 AM   
PhDslave


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Status: offline 		ProDommes are fine, but don't appeal to me because I'm seeking a more committed relationship.

"Like you"....well, you're too young for me and I don't think of myself as a 'loser'.

I think you'd be very exciting for a sub/slave who is just seeking sessions.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 8:48:23 AM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Princessacandy

       Im curious to hear the opnions out there on Pro Domina's... Like Myself...

OK, since you've not been back to answer my question here......I went ahead and looked at your profile to find out what "your kind of pro dom" is.

*cough*  'Scuse me while I clear my throat.

Using the greeting "Hey losers" was quite a turn-off.
So was presuming that the male reader is "a wimp."
You stepped down into the gutter by calling people "dumb ass".
You've not even bothered to show a photo of who you are.
You're 22.  You've been on the site two days.

There are other ways of making an honest living as a pro dom by being sensitive to the honest seeker's needs and without being ignorant.  I hope you don't disrespect the clients who put food in your mouth like you imply you do.

You have quite a bit to learn before you morph into one of the credible, hardworking professional dominas like many who grace the pages of DDI.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 8:54:15 AM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		Thank you, Pandora!  You said it much more gracefully (and diplomatically) than I would have been able to! 

This young woman has a lot to learn.  I'd suggest that she be active in the lifestyle and interacting with both dominant and submissive lifestyle folks and learning the ropes, before hanging out her shingle.  I have nothing in particular against pro Dommes, but those who are Dominant by their lifestyle choice and offering their services; I don't have much use for women who see money to be made in BDSM and so don the latex or leather trappings and go into business.  First off, they give us real Dommes (pro or not) a bad name, and second off, they can really HURT somebody!  Some of these "toys" are not to be played with lightly!


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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 9:00:21 AM   
MisPandora


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ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

Thank you, Pandora!  You said it much more gracefully (and diplomatically) than I would have been able to! 

This young woman has a lot to learn.  I'd suggest that she be active in the lifestyle and interacting with both dominant and submissive lifestyle folks and learning the ropes, before hanging out her shingle.  I have nothing in particular against pro Dommes, but those who are Dominant by their lifestyle choice and offering their services; I don't have much use for women who see money to be made in BDSM and so don the latex or leather trappings and go into business.  First off, they give us real Dommes (pro or not) a bad name, and second off, they can really HURT somebody!  Some of these "toys" are not to be played with lightly!


Gosh, and here I thought I was laying a spike strip across the road and then sneaking into the bushes to watch the car that hit it flip over......hmpf.  Diplomatic?  I'll have to work on correcting that next time!

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 9:10:20 AM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		You should see what *I* had come up with originally!  Yours is a Masterpiece of diplomacy by comparison! LOL.

I'm sorry to say that as I get older my "idiot tolerance" level has dropped considerably, to almost nonexistent!  That could be from almost a year of fending off wannabe's and wankers while searching for my slave, which has resulted in a certain cynicism which I do try to keep leashed.  But it seeps through now and then, and profiles such as the OP's do set off a kind of mingled reaction of laughter and disgust.

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora
Gosh, and here I thought I was laying a spike strip across the road and then sneaking into the bushes to watch the car that hit it flip over......hmpf.  Diplomatic?  I'll have to work on correcting that next time!


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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 9:35:28 AM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		Same with me... I really wanted to post the profile & pick it apart line by line but I made a promise to myself about the boards recently. I want to stay on topic no matter how much I want to blurt out the first thing that comes to mind. I promise to keep my tone to be polite & focused. If my reply does hold a hint of antagonism I plan to state myself in as graceful a manner as possible.

I looked at the profile of the OP... I also went so far as to pull up the dozen posts she had at the time. None of which did much to offer a positive impression so I worded my reply very delicately & offered the OP the chance to come back & give fresh information to a direct question. My feelings are that the OP is already aware of the impression she has made & is only posing this question as bait for some type of foray.

Too often I have said that I am me & you are you & what I do is most likely not like what you do & thats fine. So when she comes back & actually addresses this thread I'd be happy to offer her my reply but I will say in advance... The Golden Rule will have to be ignored in the process if the tone of this one's post remains true to all examples already available.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 9:36:21 AM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		I'm addressing  this topic in general.  I'm not even going to look at the profile because it really wouldn't  matter to me anyway.  This way it's not personal- just a simple answer to a simple question :)
 
Men cannot differentiate a FemDomme from Adult Entertainment when money is involved.  THAT's the problem.
 
I have seen all too often a female new to the scene say "Hey, this looks like fun.  I think I'll go pro.. what do I need to know"  There is nothing more than a few tricks they do and then charge the sap.  The disappointed sap then tells his buddies of what a "slut/whore" she was or embellishes it so he doesn't look like SUCH a sap and then it becomes ALL Dommes painted with the same brush. 
 
What the guy bought was a bad show.  It has nothing to do with Domination.   It's a pity there is no form of a "certification" where the buyer can be guaranteed of a good session. But I still wish they would call it "Adult Entertainment Domination-style" or something. 
 
But on the positive side, it does serve a purpose for those that can't find a Domme to at least be able to play.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 9:40:21 AM   
MisPandora


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Status: offline 		Well now isn't that special, Passion?  LOL I just went and checked out the other posts myself.  I'm glad I just spit out what I needed to say.

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RE: Opnions On Pro Domme's - 9/26/2006 10:52:38 AM   
LaTigresse


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