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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 5:07:21 AM

Aileen68

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Actually no; it's written in the Great Book of All Things that the correct waiting period depends on the season. In the summer, when the blood is quick, it is permissible to wait only thirty (30) days, but in the winter, when the humors flow more slowly, a thirty-two (32) day interval is mandated.

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But most times it should be at least one(1)month.

What about Autumn?

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 7:19:38 AM

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Thirty-one (31), obviously.

Yeah, I know, we've violated the Great Book of All Things.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 7:28:13 AM

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30 days!!! Good grief....no wonder chastity belts were made. There is no way in hell i could wait that long if i want it.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 8:01:09 AM

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What a bunch of nonsense, if the woman is causing a pulsating throbbing swelling of my loin and she is besieges with a gushing wetness... regardless if it’s the first date or not, I will allow nature to take its natural course.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 9:11:44 AM

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I am horrendously busy at work, so I don't have alot of time to stalk this thread, but would someone send me a compiled listing of the girls that will do the nasty on the first date to my CM mail, please?

Hopefully,
Ron

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 9:18:40 AM

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I have arranged any number of first meetings where the woman is naked and we START by having sex.

The best one was where I was seeing this young girl who was a bit flakey and I wasn't as experienced as I am now ( I would have married her, she was a great woman but thats another story). I told her that I was going to end it because she wasn't showing me she was truly interested and if she wanted to keep seeing me she would have to show me she was serious.

I came home to my ex's home (I was watching it and boy was she pissed when she found out, although she never learned about this part) and here was this girl with the blinds slightly open. She was naked on the dining room table with her wrists and ankles tied to the corners. I never could figure out quite how she had worked that out, something about slip knots.

Sad thing is I was really tired or something and I don't have the clearest recollection of the evening but I did meet her at a bed and breakfast for our first time and she was naked, waxed, face down with those beautiful lips exposed and that nice tight little O.

God I love women and sex!

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 10:35:52 AM

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okay .. since the second situation is that the sex was agreed upon fo the meeting... how horrible is she for refusing if she feels there is no chemistry? (since chem is mentioned a couple of times in the responses)

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 10:54:27 AM

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Well, as far as I'm concerned, either partner can back off at any point, no matter what was agreed - but that may make for a lack of second dates, and maybe even for a reputation as a tease if it happens too often.

Drat! Ron - I've been browsing, and there's no easy chicks from our neck of the woods chiming in. If I see one, I'll let you know about it - but later, guy - much later.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 11:17:26 AM

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LOLOL,

I see we think alike in terms of our searching criteria, go from easiest to hardest.

LOL,

I am going to be down in MSP this weekend, but I doubt much time will be out and about.......I need to meet Bita and Himself sometime too.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 11:28:17 AM

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okay .. since the second situation is that the sex was agreed upon fo the meeting... how horrible is she for refusing if she feels there is no chemistry? (since chem is mentioned a couple of times in the responses)

She's not horrible at all. If she refuses for lack of chemistry, she's just going with what works for her.

I went through a phase where I more or less insisted on having sex the first meeting. That phase of my life is over now, but I had two relationships in a row (one was with my ex-husband) where sexual compatibility was an issue and I decided that I wasn't going to risk getting involved and then finding out it didn't work in that department. I had been supportive and understanding long enough and was hell bent on making sure it didn't happen again.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 1:56:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Thirty-one (31), obviously.

Yeah, I know, we've violated the Great Book of All Things.

Aha. That's my problem. I was never given The Great Book of All Things when I joined collarme. I've just been flying by the seat of my panties.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 1:57:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I am horrendously busy at work, so I don't have alot of time to stalk this thread, but would someone send me a compiled listing of the girls that will do the nasty on the first date to my CM mail, please?

Hopefully,
Ron

You've got mail.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 2:32:45 PM

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Do men actually respect women and want to see them again if they have sex on the first meeting? From what I've heard, relationships beginning that way are very rare. In fact, men that are interested in more than casual sex are very hard to find. This is the way it usually goes......if a woman has sex on the first date, she's an easy lay. If a woman doesn't have sex by the second meeting, she's leading him on. Unfortunately, there's not alot women can do about this catch 22.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 2:55:35 PM

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Do men actually respect women and want to see them again if they have sex on the first meeting?

You betcha.

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From what I've heard, relationships beginning that way are very rare.

Not everyone is looking for a relationship. I'm assuming you mean something longterm.

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if a woman has sex on the first date, she's an easy lay. If a woman doesn't have sex by the second meeting, she's leading him on.

That's your opinion. I view it as, I'm a grown adult and make adult choices.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 3:12:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68
I view it as, I'm a grown adult and make adult choices.

Isnt it great being a growed up!!!

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 3:35:01 PM

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Aileen you are my kinda a girl.... sex on the first date to some they think the girl is no good ....but who wants a guy like that .....Me sex on the first date is an added bonus of what must have been a nice evening for the lady concerned and then she invites you to to taste the intimate joys of her sexuality...... What a luscious night.
I would be happy to meet more ladies like this.......... and it would not effect how I looked upon her for a long term relationship....... kiss you babe .......hehehehee

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 4:20:22 PM

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Do men actually respect women and want to see them again if they have sex on the first meeting?

Lemme think... I haven't had much "first meeting" sex, but of all of the one-night stands I've had, 3 have turned into longer relationships, two didn't - they got *scary*.

Gads, only 5 one-night stands, and more than half of them weren't. Here, I'd been thinking of myself as a slut, too - but I'm really just an underachiever.

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From what I've heard, relationships beginning that way are very rare. In fact, men that are interested in more than casual sex are very hard to find.

Gee - I meet 'em all the time - far more often than guys who find a good, sexy woman and don't ever want to see her again.

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This is the way it usually goes......if a woman has sex on the first date, she's an easy lay. If a woman doesn't have sex by the second meeting, she's leading him on. Unfortunately, there's not alot women can do about this catch 22.

For me, a woman who is doing what she feels good about, and not worried about what her mother/girlfriends/social group are gonna think of it, is much more attractive than one who toes the line she thinks "everybody" is supposed to toe.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 4:24:31 PM

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Do men actually respect women and want to see them again if they have sex on the first meeting?

surprising enough, some men actually respect women enough not to expect sex on the first meeting...not to mention those who prefer to deny them sex on the first meeting...maybe that's just me though.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 4:32:34 PM

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surprising enough, some men actually respect women enough not to expect sex on the first meeting...not to mention those who prefer to deny them sex on the first meeting...maybe that's just me though.

Someone can be very respected even after she "puts out" on the first meet. Respect is based on much more than actions at times. It may be a first physical meet, but you may have talked to that person for quite a while before that. Or you may have just met that person an hour ago....thing is, if it's the right thing at the right time for two consenting adults then there's nothing wrong with it.

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RE: Sex on First Meeting.. - 10/26/2006 4:39:09 PM

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Have we decided if these sex on the first dates are one night stands? i have had some beautiful sex on the first night we met, both knowing it was just sex. sometimes the chemistry is there, but you just know the relationship isn't.

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