TheWord
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I never had sex with a woman before the first meeting! Telephone, cyber, all these silly games people play for mutual self completion never really interested me. What I don't understand is persons who say, "Hey yeah, what I stud I am. I knocked off two strange women last night before 10 p.m. and then scored an overnighter with a virgin. What kind of tramps are they, "putting out" on the first date?" This has nothing to do with morality, nor with respect, but rather with a double standard of behavior for men and women coupled with the christian fable than nice girls don't really want to have sex, they must be forced into it against their will for the sake of procreation. Any woman who lets the truth of her biological reality be known is either a tramp or a whore or a slut. African men have just as great a fear of female sexuality as western men, although they don't use a religious/moral argument against women's sexual urges. They simply cut off the women's clitoruses, and sew them up before they reach the age of puberty. Like the Vestal Virgins of "moral standards" in the west, many African women, who have suffered this indignity as children, demand that the tradition be carried on with their younger female relatives, lest they be tempted to become pariahs of society. During their fertile years as prospective child bearers, many women have much stronger urges and desires than most men. Not all unwed teenage mothers are excersing some thwarted Freudian urge to revenge themselves on a father who would not take them when they offered. Some, "Just want to have fun!" I never had the heart to refuse a beautiful woman who wanted to have vanilla recreational activity, and very few who wanted something more. Not only is it great fun, giving a feeling of intense pleasure and closeness, but it is a great way to stay in shape. My college professor older sister tried to convince me that the rules are the same for men and women. After I picked myseelf up off the floor, I asked her: "When was the last time you heard of some mother getting her shotgun and going over to some girl's house to tell that girl's mother, "Your daughter slept with my son. Now his honor has been destroyed! Your daughter will mayrry him or ...""
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