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Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 10:48:55 AM   
Mikida


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Status: offline 		I just have a simple little question:

As a Master how do you handle your slave when she is on her period? I know some people enjoy sex during this time and some don't. I'm just curious to everyone's different views to this subject.

THANKS!
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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 11:02:07 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Menstruation

Reposted:
I think for the majority of females in the world, if any adjustments need to be made, they can be made unobtrusively, taking a few pills, taking a longer shower, exercising a bit more, etc and require absolutely no change in day-to-day workings. It might be helpful to make your partner aware of your cycle so they can at least understand any crimps that come up, but I don't think it should be cause for any disruption or special accommodations.

For the FEW percentage who experience actual crippling emotional/physical effects from it, obviously it should be handled as any illness or dysfunction should.

To add:
I do get a bit annoyed when women spend so much time complaining and wasting energy about their cycle.  I wish more would celebrate it.  While there is a small percentage of women for whom menstruation IS an ordeal and difficult for them, I think the majority of problems are blown far out of proportion.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_606563/mpage_1/key_period/tm.htm#606939
Dealing with PMS as a sub

http://www.collarchat.com/m_502696/mpage_1/key_pms/tm.htm#502835
Menstrual Cycle...

http://www.collarchat.com/m_124443/mpage_1/key_period/tm.htm#124443
PMS and the submissive

http://www.collarchat.com/m_146172/mpage_1/key_period/tm.htm#146172
menstruation and sex

http://www.collarchat.com/m_222485/mpage_1/key_period/tm.htm#222485
should a sub be allowed

http://www.collarchat.com/m_420217/mpage_1/key_period/tm.htm#420217
period play?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_28039/mpage_1/key_pms/tm.htm#28039
serious question about pms

http://www.collarchat.com/m_366774/mpage_1/key_pms/tm.htm#366774
PMS from hell?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_166316/mpage_1/key_pms/tm.htm#166329
That time

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How do you like your dom/master treating you on your period?


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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 11:03:57 AM   
Mikida


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Status: offline 		well that just about answered it. thanks a lot. checking all that out will defintely keep my occupied the rest of today. appreciate it.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 12:30:27 PM   
emdoub


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Status: offline 		Actually, I've always thought of them as convenient.  They've never been a major issue for anyone I've ever been partnered with, and my favorite lube is Type O - it's just easier to get during that time of the month. 

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 1:27:49 PM   
julietsierra


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Status: offline 		My Master and I don't see each other when I'm in that phase of my cycle. We don't live together, so it's not as difficult as it might be if we were. And to tell the truth, most of the time, I'm happy about that. When I was a teen, migraines and cramps were the rule of thumb. As I got older, they all went away and I never even really paid it any mind.

These days however, I have good months and bad months. As I am getting older and entering a new phase of my life, I find the migraines are back and even worse, the mood swings are pretty stark. When I get down, I am teary and just wish and wish he'd be near. It can get pretty bad and my emotions can get the better of me. During that time, my imagination can be particularly cruel to me and he's just "horrible." (which he isn't)Afterwards, I'm so glad he wasn't near me to bear the brunt of all this. So, in the end, I suppose his decision that discretion is the better part of valor is pretty smart really.

For his part, he just says that I'm only proving what men have known for milleniums...that women are crazy. He says that men in their private moments actually give thanks to the man that discovered the power of the words "yes dear," while standing still waiting for us to blink. Because, in the millisecond it takes for us to blink, a good, strong man who is aware and sensitive to the feelings of his mate will have well learned how use the blink to his advantage and be 3 counties away before the end of the blink. (He was JOKING!!)

Oh, and since neither of us have any interest in sexual activity during this time, we plan for another weekend...

On the good side, by the time that next weekend arrives...I'm insatiable and he reaps the rewards of that.

juliet

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 1:48:06 PM   
TABSUB


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Status: offline 		Personally, I find the harder the play, the easier the cramps and the shorter the process. I actually ask my master to engage in some pretty rough hand action at that time.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 2:29:45 PM   
PONYSEEKER


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Status: offline 		She has a lot of problems with it and intimicy however I have been training her to ignore it so to speak so things are getting a lot better.  It use to really freak her out when I would play with her durring her period

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 7:36:56 PM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mikida

I just have a simple little question:

As a Master how do you handle your slave when she is on her period? I know some people enjoy sex during this time and some don't. I'm just curious to everyone's different views to this subject.

THANKS!


Anal sex and blow jobs.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 8:15:33 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Master enjoys my other bodily openings at that time. 

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 9:08:27 PM   
ChaOz


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Status: offline 		it helps with cramps and such if you can get her to orgasm during this time, just see what she is comftable with and go from there.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 10:06:07 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		My dominant will do everything that we do normally except he won't perform oral sex on me. He is very understanding of my cramps, which are sometimes bad enough that I have to rest and apply heating pads.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/16/2006 10:11:54 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		When I get my period I am in NO condition to play.. I suffer terrably from migrains and cramps all through the 4 days that Im bleeding and usualy a day or 2 befor I start, but while im bleeding I not only feel sick but I feel durty and gross and all sorts of things that would play havok with me emotionaly if he where demand to do things that were sexual in nature because i would be sooo self conscience about it.. I also get even more emotional and weepy then normal (im bipoler and am effeected A LOT by menstuation) I could never be with a Master that didnt understand this and take care of my well beeing by beeing understanding about it. It is not something i can controll so it is something that has to be exepted.. But its different for everyone I would hope most females arent effected nearly as badly as I am by their period!!

Magik's slave

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/17/2006 5:13:10 AM   
Caitriona


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Status: offline 		I am fortuante that my menstrual symptoms (pain wise) are fairly mild, but I am very easily exhausted at this time and often in no mood for play or sex of any kind.  Usually I will tide him over with my hands or mouth.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/17/2006 5:06:53 PM   
empresschaos


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Status: offline 		I get really, really creative and productive when I'm bleeding. I haven't had cramps, pms, or cravings for chocolate, but I do consider it "my time with my body" and I get really irritated if someone pushes for sexual contact, even blow jobs. It gets me outta my groove. :)

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/17/2006 5:50:04 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		I think it all comes down to respect and weather the Master respects the fact the he owns a woman and there is nothing she can do she gets her period its just how life is... I think all men need to respect woman and the fact that getting your period sucks instead of teasing or pushing at them for things they arent up to it isnt just a BDSM thing. Just because I am owned doesnt mean Master is gunna do something just because he can and pushing me to be sexual during my period would be detramental and well... you need to play nice with your toys!! toys arent nearly as much fun if they are broken!!!

Magik's slave

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/17/2006 6:01:27 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		Actually that's not true, Periods can and are quite often stoped prolonged or ended all together. My birthcontrol shot has ended any periods I would of been having, but it has downsides and eventually potential health risks to stop a period.

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave
and there is nothing she can do she gets her period its just how life is...Magik's slave

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/17/2006 6:13:48 PM   
MagiksSlave


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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

Actually that's not true, Periods can and are quite often stoped prolonged or ended all together. My birthcontrol shot has ended any periods I would of been having, but it has downsides and eventually potential health risks to stop a period.



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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave
and there is nothing she can do she gets her period its just how life is...Magik's slave



Exactly.. health risks in stoping something natral that is suposed to happen to you body who would have thunk!! Im not about to endanger my well beeing by stoping my period and Im sorry nothing that COMPLETLEY stops your period is healthy. Even regular birth controll is risky.


Nope nope Im not about to endanger myself just so my period doesnt get in the way of Masters fun (jees) And I wouldnt ever even consider someone that would want me too... Sorry I dont want a Master who will indanger me just for his own fun of not haveing to deal with not beeing able to play during my period!!

Magik's slave

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/17/2006 6:16:27 PM   
classykindasassy


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Status: offline 		We take it easy as I am oversensitive as it's coming on, but as a medic he has seen plenty of blood and as such, this does not bother him except that oral sex is out.

Other than that there is this really cool invention called "beach towels" which we have amassed a collection of as I am a squirter too.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/17/2006 7:00:08 PM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

I think it all comes down to respect and weather the Master respects the fact the he owns a woman and there is nothing she can do she gets her period its just how life is... I think all men need to respect woman and the fact that getting your period sucks instead of teasing or pushing at them for things they arent up to it isnt just a BDSM thing. Just because I am owned doesnt mean Master is gunna do something just because he can and pushing me to be sexual during my period would be detramental and well... you need to play nice with your toys!! toys arent nearly as much fun if they are broken!!!

Magik's slave


I disagree with you.  Master can do whatever he wants to me, whenever he wants, however he wants - period or no period.  I get debilitating cramps - there are times when I become dizzy, vomit, and need heating pads.  I have called in sick to work because of my cramps.  But I'll tell you, if Master wants to use me, it's going to happen.  I will take Midol, drink lots of water, and use all the energy I have to completely shift my focus so that it is on him and not me.  Sometimes during these times, I have had to take a break just to...um...clean up since bleeding can be very heavy the first day or two.  I will give him my all, always.  Frankly, when he's flogging the hell out of me and then using my ass roughly for his enjoyment, the last thing I'm thinking about is my cramps.

In my case, it's not about respect or lack of respect at all.  I want and need to be used by him, and any time I have been too ill for use, I was sad to not be available to him.  I'll push through what I can push through.  He knows this, and thererfore he determines when I may or may not be too sick to use.

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RE: Your slave and her menestration - 11/17/2006 8:42:42 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		I'm just stating your statement that nothing can stop periods is inaccurate, not that we'd be expected to stop it for his amusement or fun lol. Me personaly I enjoy not having periods.  I'd play any way on them though, just use gloves and no oral.

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