Focus50
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Joined: 12/28/2004 From: Newcastle, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: SirGordonslil just wondering... i have a Master, but often i find that when others contact me, because im submissive they expect me to be submissive to them also, ive found this in real time meetings also. i have respect for other Dom/mme's dont get me wrong but why do alot of Dom/mme's (yes i may be generalising and i appologise for doing so, am just making a point) expect you to submit to them when you dont even know them.. it tends to lose my respect for them as i feel its a lack of respect for my own Master as most times they dont even approach my Master first.. what are other Master's/Dom's opinions? To most fem/subs, I usually advise what should be the obvious - that no-one has any right to treat you with any less respect than that of which any adult is deserving. In your specific case, ie you have a Master, you should seek his guidance on this as it's obviously bugging you. I don't address *anyone* as Sir; Lord; Master; Mistress; whatever! Anyone who introduces themselves in such a manner usually gets the obvious sarcastic reply - is that what you were christened? Consequently, I also expect the girl to be well-mannered and polite etc, but only respond to a person's name, not any self indulgent titles. If that's a problem for said Dom/me, I'll either step in or if I'm not actually present, I expect her to excuse herself and come find me. No-one needs my permission to have a conversation with my girl as I've only ever owned mature, intelligent fem/subs who are quite capable of functioning without me. But I do expect everyone to respect what's mine once that's made clear. Focus.
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