starshineowned
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Anyone can be obedient whether it be for an hour, an day or a lifetime -- that's a matter of how you were raised and what you think you should do. Tell someone what to do and they do it, that happens all the time in the big old vanilla world.
Exactly..Being obedient All the time is what makes a slave. Being obedient for an hour or a day or when ever you feel like it..does not. Being obedient and the person actually liking what it is or not liking what it is is merely a offshoot, and doesn't matter. What matters is that they are obedient All the time to whatever the owner has setup as rules..guidelines..and you agreed to those when became owned. One of those rules might very well of been that you will be obedient regardless. If she/he agreed to that..then if you abide to that..then all is well. If you need alittle prompting or push to abide to that, and do..then all is well. If despite what the owner says or has layed out and you agreed upon (which generally for most is as a slave you are putting your trust in that person to guide your life, and obey their will above yours) you still make your own decision or out right defy..then your not a slave.
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think being a slave is being focused on another person first and foremost at all times and to making their life easier even if it makes your life harder or it means doing things that are unpleasant for you. It also means having foresight and a drive to actively make the owner's life easier without orders thus without the need to obey.
This is generally not possible in completeness unless that slave is obedient. They are obedient because in being so it causes those other things to happen..ie the Owner first and foremost above themeselves and their own happiness..which often only seems to apply to maybe not happy briefly in a acute situation but over all happiness remains because they are doing exactly what they must to be a slave..which is what they felt they required in life to feel alive and live.
Doing things in foresight as a slave because you think the Owner will like or enjoy it? Okay but as a slave you should be ready to accept that this very well might not fly, and doing such does not have diddly to do with being a slave. I would never go out and spend money without Masters approval to do so just because I saw this really cool neato thing that I perceived would make his life more comfortable or easier. Oh yeah you can do it..but don't expect as a slave to get that ..ohhh how thoughtful of you..hugs..etc. because it isn't always going to be the case. Having foresight within sight of what you already know the Owners wants, likes, desires, needs, and doing them..i.e. knowing to keep toilet paper on the roll, knowing what his favorite foods are and making them..knowing he prefers his coffee taste a certain way or likes to have it or soda or milk with certain meals. Thats one thing but it's within the scope of what the owner wants. You just going out on a limb on your own because you think it will make the owner happy or whatever..again, as a slave will not most likely be met with such fan faire as you think.
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Also stopping and thinking is NOT the same as not complying or balking at an order. I'd prefer that any slave of mine ask a question before they ran off to do something than have them return with something that is incorrect This is what you prefer. Not all agree with you, and might prefer that the slave do what they were told, and if it's wrong..the owner will figure it out then. This is very individual, and part of those ground rules..guidelines..preferences that are setup. If the Owner wants the slave to ask if unsure, and the slave just goes and does, and it was wrong..the owner most probably will rectify the situation and state..from now on..if my words are unclear in meaning..come ask. Or the owner might very well say..despite the fact that this wasn't what I really wanted..the fact that you did as you were told is what I wanted, and expected from a slave, and then the slave can be shown..the situation corrected, and the slave knows from that point on when the owners says that..this is what they mean.
If it is something that has already been discussed and established as to what will be the process if xy or z happens..then there is no need to balk, stop, think, whatever you want to call it because It is already known. If a person agreed to abide to the owners will regardless of whatever may arise..then thats that. If it was more detailed i.e...should you become pregnant..you will be required to get abortions, and she agreed to that? Then is no need to balk, stop, think, whatever you want to call it because she knows.
Well Wishes
starshine
Happy slave of Master Delvin
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