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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/10/2006 7:15:17 PM

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My house was like that. It wasn't just myself, but my parents also. They saved an awful lot of of my friends from getting pregnant. Angered some parents but hey, which was worse, you know?

I guess the reason some don't think to have those discussions is they had the parents who felt the same and just ignored an issue whenever they felt like it didn't need to be talked about, shame really.

Ah well, in the end happy that your scare was just that and nothing more

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/10/2006 7:29:43 PM

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Thanks *grins* He was really happy this morning to have me call out "Honey, I've got good news!" from the bathroom. We were starting to doubt the test.

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/10/2006 7:31:01 PM

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You should always doubt a negative reading. Home pregnancy tests can have false negatives.

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/10/2006 7:31:34 PM

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As one who has chosen against motherhood, and one who is insanely squeamish about blood...have to say, after a scare, that dab of red is the sweetest sight in the world Lol

Congrats, it's great you were both happy about the scare being over

Edited: Oh, maybe that's what you meant, a test like KatyL mentioned -- I immediately thought of my own experienced where nothing short of blood and a doctor's confirmation set me at ease

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/10/2006 7:48:54 PM

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I'm speaking mainly from personal experience on this one, where I was just floored that people are willing to sleep together without ever even posing the question, "What would you want to do if we got pregnant?"

If I'm just fucking someone for the fuck, then I take complete responsibility for it. I assume they understand the possible risk they are undertaking by fucking me and accept my choice in the matter.

A sticky issue legally perhaps if they somehow ever found out I was pregnant and somehow again found out they were indeed the father (trust me, HIGHLY improbably given me and one night fucks), but something I'm willing to take that risk on.

I discuss pregnancy issues with long term partners and the ones who would feel and accept a commitment towards the consequences of pregnancy itself.

Sort of the same on STDs- I don't care what someone tells me about tests or numbers of partners. I simply keep to MY rules and THEY will follow them or NOT have sex with me. I don't base my safety on someone else's rules- I base them on my own.

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/10/2006 8:22:40 PM

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You should always doubt a negative reading. Home pregnancy tests can have false negatives.

For me it's something in life I have to trust. If I don't trust them at least somewhat then I'll go insane. You can be pregnant and have your period all through your term. You can take the test and it will tell you it could tell you a negative. The only way to be sure is to get your blood tested once a month and I'm really not up for that.

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/10/2006 8:24:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: timeoutgurlie

As one who has chosen against motherhood, and one who is insanely squeamish about blood...have to say, after a scare, that dab of red is the sweetest sight in the world Lol

Congrats, it's great you were both happy about the scare being over

Edited: Oh, maybe that's what you meant, a test like KatyL mentioned -- I immediately thought of my own experienced where nothing short of blood and a doctor's confirmation set me at ease

I took the test, which is 99 percent accurate and I got my period. So far my period has never lied to me so I won't get a blood test.

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 12:56:21 AM

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I wasn't suggesting anything of any particular person; it was merely a general statement. :)

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 2:31:37 AM

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Not me who is pregnant, so not for me to decide what to do about it

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 2:35:45 AM

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greetings auq. sub

the quote you have one your reply it is so touching and kind , and strong who wrote this piece did you or you master it is so touching beautiful i do adore it

mons and hello

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 4:07:23 AM

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greetings auq. sub

the quote you have one your reply it is so touching and kind , and strong who wrote this piece did you or you master it is so touching beautiful i do adore it

mons and hello

My dominant was the founder of that quote. It was his way of explaining how he saw our relationship, and why he does not allow me to give capital letters to master and dominant (part of the reason anyway). I polished the phrase a little and put it here because I felt it was the thing most appropriate for my quote.

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 4:23:45 AM

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Aquatic - Every month you do the tests? Wow, I don't have that kind of commitment lol I go with the pill and condoms whenever I get any "strange feeling" as a backup. So far it's worked

LuckyA - That makes a lot of sense. The problem arises when the woman has all kinds of expectations in the event she does get pregnant, and then it's imposed on the man...imposed may be the wrong choice of words, but hopefully you get what I'm saying. It just doesn't make sense for me that there are those who aren't prepared to handle the situation on their own, yet they don't feel any need to feel out the waters before they dive right in.

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 4:40:47 AM

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If you are taking pregnancy tests every month you may want to consider another form of birth control.
And you should read up on the false negatives regarding pregnancy tests. They usually happen because people take them too soon.

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 6:11:07 AM

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might be a good place to point out that last i heard, taking antibiotics can render oral contraceptive pills ineffective... a LOT of accidental pregnancies associated with antibiotics and Docs failing to inform female patients..

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 6:33:33 AM

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Aquatic - Every month you do the tests? Wow, I don't have that kind of commitment lol I go with the pill and condoms whenever I get any "strange feeling" as a backup. So far it's worked

*laughs* No I meant to say I won't get my blood tested every month to see if I'm preggers. It's only sure way because the tests and lie and you can still get your period while pregnant. Slim chance, but you can. The woman I know didn't know she was pregnant until two days before she gave birth and she only found out because she was in a car wreck and they had to do a blood test on her! She went into labor during her first pre-natal exam afterwards.

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 6:35:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

If you are taking pregnancy tests every month you may want to consider another form of birth control.
And you should read up on the false negatives regarding pregnancy tests. They usually happen because people take them too soon.

I'm not taking the tests every month. I was saying the only to be sure is to get your blood tested every month. I'm on Nuva ring so I'm good. My first pregnancy scare in over a year.

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 6:36:14 AM

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might be a good place to point out that last i heard, taking antibiotics can render oral contraceptive pills ineffective... a LOT of accidental pregnancies associated with antibiotics and Docs failing to inform female patients..

I was never on the oral meds. I was put on the patch first and now the ring, but I was never told about the antibiotics thing. Want to know where I learned it? *drumroll* Family Guy!

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 6:57:04 AM

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Had to come back to this.. i could see a good Master/slave convo here:

"Master, by the way, "Your" womb has been sub-let. One of Your spermies took it over for a few months. Womb will be returned as soon as the swelling and explusion stage is completed... Would Master like to begin decorating Your spermies nursery now?" teeheehee

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 7:34:30 AM

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Creative Sir... does that make me less of a slave becuase I have these issues??

Magik's slave

Sorry I did not get back to this before now...the weekend happened.

Actually, I never said anything about whether or not you were "less" of a slave because you have these issues. What I stated is that it has been interesting to note the dichotomy of perspectives from two slaves. Perhaps I should have used the word 'disparity' to more fully express the difference in opinions and viewpoints. In continuing to read this thread before I posted a reply to this, I continue to note differing variations on the "what is slavery" theme.

Its' often been noted on here that people have the right to define their own relationships without outside interference and I agree that it is true. If you go back and look at my posts, you will find that I have rarely told someone that they are/are not what they proclaim to be unless it was blatantly obvious. That being said, that doesn't stop me or anyone else from wondering about the ideas that are brought up (if it did, there would be no need or use of these forums) nor does it stop me from having my own view on whether something is-or-is-not just because someone else tells me it is-or-is-not. This line of thinking is even more in my head after the "Abuse..." thread of last week. Is it abuse...or is it not? Is he/she a slave...or are they not?

Now that I have, hopefully, answered your question...I hereby apologize for the hijack, if the OP sees my posts as being hijacks.

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RE: Does he own my womb? - 12/11/2006 8:43:05 AM

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and when you disobey..are you then prompted/disciplined/punished what have you in order to correct that which you disobeyed? Does this then correct it so that you don't go and do it again or even want to? If it does..then all is well. If you defiantly go and do it again knowing it is against the wishes/will of your owner..well then think it's obvious what I think.

Slaves will be disobedient to things they do not know until they are taught. Once they are taught however, if they continue to be disobedient in that same area..well then think it is obvious what I think.

So if the part about :" If you need alittle prompting or push to abide to that, and do..then all is well" was not missed in the previous post..What you are then telling me is that you can be a slave and do whatever it is you want..when you want..regardless of what the Owners will would be. Does that about sum it up? If that is the case..whats your purpose of saying you are owned or a slave? Really because the only thing I understand that if I willfully go against the Owner..then it's not going to be a pretty sight, and there is no doubt that if I went and did it again after correction that I'd no longer be his slave..period. That no longer being his slave=living death in my eyes because I didn't come to be a slave because I thought it was a fun, nifty, coolies thing to just run out and do. It is most definetely only my idea of what the word "slave" means and it is most definetely Not based off of bdsm, or the Gor fiction books.

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You describe your slavery very clearly.

Funnily enough, I didn't choose to be a slave because it seemed a fun thing to do that day, either.

Not everyone chooses to live this way because they have a deep desire to please or is submissive. I am not submissive and don't think of my master first.........most often I think of myself first. He doesn't *need* me to do that but if he did, you can bet your life he'd make it happen, eventually, one way or another.

My situation is different to yours but I am nevertheless, still an owned slave. There is no *purpose* in saying I'm owned, it's just a fact.

He has the right and the authority to force me to live exactly how he chooses. If I'm disobedient.....then he owns a disobedient slave at that moment. He still owns me. I am still his slave. And I WILL regret disobedience. I find it quite a challenge to live this way..........but it's the still the best way for me to live.

He accepted me AS me, he knew every facet of my nature and personality..........he's strong enough, confident enough and skilled enough to manage someone that isn't submissive.

It's not everyone's cup of tea.........but it's obviously his.

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