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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/17/2007 11:34:56 PM

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"Why submit if you're not going to get the kind of submitting that you think you want? " For me it's a matter of dreaming of a feeling. Those special moments in time when i was sure i was where i belonged. What gave me those feelings? Was it Her? Or was it the panties i had on? Orgasim takes us to a wonderful place we must leave. Can my Mistress take me beyond that and let me stay always? Can i trust Her enough to find out? What i seek Ms holds for me. If she wants the dress, it was already Hers.

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/18/2007 2:09:25 AM

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i think you all scared him / her away formt here

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/18/2007 4:28:21 AM

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What's a poor lil' skirtboy to do?
Skirtboy

Quit whining for starters, then you might want to consider a new screen name and a new attitude, then hope no one remembers all the things you've said in this thread.

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/18/2007 7:59:47 AM

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You're missing the point, boi. This is his way of showing how "sissy" he is, behaving like a silly, giggling teenage girl. He's revelling in it.

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What's a poor lil' skirtboy to do?
Skirtboy

Quit whining for starters, then you might want to consider a new screen name and a new attitude, then hope no one remembers all the things you've said in this thread.

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/18/2007 9:28:55 AM

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You're still not getting it. There ARE people out there who are looking for what I am offering. Just because YOU don't want it, doesn't make it invalid, nor unrealistic.

Yes, I don't get it. To me, you sound like Linus in the pumkin patch during Halloween.

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And... I STILL fail to see how this has ANY bearing at all on the topic under discussion, and why you felt it necessary to bring it up here (or at all)???

Its a credibility thing.

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/18/2007 10:08:53 AM

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Right. So I have no credibility because you are unable to comprehend the complexities and nuances of a deep Owner/slave relationship. And because you don't agree with my philosophy, your job is to bring that up no matter the subject under discussion, no matter how unrelated?

Wow.

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And... I STILL fail to see how this has ANY bearing at all on the topic under discussion, and why you felt it necessary to bring it up here (or at all)???

Its a credibility thing.

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/18/2007 11:09:07 AM

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LadyMorgynn, just smile that he took the time to write to YOU. it just tells you he is somehow moved and easily affected by ya.!

Just hollar laughter at the trash slinging coons. Some guysgo outta their way to bag people and aint happy until they feel they "got ya". It's fastinating to see how many you can effect. And how many will actually take their time to write you. Like puppets influenced so easily.

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/18/2007 11:33:40 AM

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Hah! good point! maybe it's a "sour grapes" kinda deal ;)

Okay, so instead of snarkily irritated, now I'm just flattered! Love it! Thanks :)

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LadyMorgynn, just smile that he took the time to write to YOU. it just tells you he is somehow moved and easily affected by ya.!

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/18/2007 7:31:21 PM

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Right. So I have no credibility because you are unable to comprehend the complexities and nuances of a deep Owner/slave relationship. And because you don't agree with my philosophy, your job is to bring that up no matter the subject under discussion, no matter how unrelated?

Wow.

I'll promise only to do it biannually, if that. Hopefully, six months from now, your kingdom will be established.

Also, its not you're philosophy that I "disagree" with. I wouldn't disagree with "the philosophy" of someone who bought lottery tickets, but knowing the odds I would never encourage them to think they'd actually win.

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/18/2007 8:20:46 PM

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I wouldn't disagree with "the philosophy" of someone who bought lottery tickets, but knowing the odds I would never encourage them to think they'd actually win.

WHAT????? You mean I'm NOT going to win the $X-million?

Why didn't you tell me?!?!?!? *sniffles & starts to cry* I thought clouds were to encourage flights of fancy.... *sniff*... now you've destroyed all my illusions.

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/18/2007 9:04:44 PM

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Also, its not you're philosophy that I "disagree" with. I wouldn't disagree with "the philosophy" of someone who bought lottery tickets, but knowing the odds I would never encourage them to think they'd actually win.

But wait, I've won several times ... the most was $2, but still, I actually won ...

=^_^=

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/19/2007 1:47:39 PM

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LadyMorgynn Quote: Hah! good point! maybe it's a "sour grapes" kinda deal ;)

Okay, so instead of snarkily irritated, now I'm just flattered! Love it! Thanks :)

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Yay he dukes it out with the innocent populace all the time. He wants to convert people into what he and its like what they say misery loves company. The weasel is a sour grape alright with a sour mouth, sour life and a make believe mistress. :::Aha::: The knob couldnt even get a pro mistress.

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/19/2007 2:04:30 PM

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OT, Making quotes is easy.

[ q ] Text to quote [ /q ]

No space inside the bracket, and it looks like

[q]Text[/q]

Stephan

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/19/2007 6:25:47 PM

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I am probbaly just making the same point as everyone else, but here's advice for genuine cross dressers looking for love:

If you asked me to speculate whether in theory I would like sissies, then the answer was NO. Men in dresses are not a turn on. They are not as pretty as women and I am not a lesbian anyway.

I have even gone so far as to say in my past profiles that CDs are a hard limit - I don't do blokes in frocks. Frilly women's knickers are Ok but that;s where I draw the line.

BUT then......... I fell in love with someone who happened to adore dressing up, so I decided I could "tolerate" it

BUT then........he really needed help looking good (and was too polite to ask), so I decided I could participate a little. Slapping make-up on a guy and picking his clothes wasn't the turn off I expected.

BUT then.....when we got home from dinner with other Dommes and my sissy maid had made me really proud.......well its a funny thing ..... but having sex with a guy tied up in a maid's outfit and suspender stockings is actually bl**dy good fun!!!

So there you go. In life, kinks that you think will never appeal to you, can turn out to be wonderful with the right person. And equally your favorite kinks can fall flat if the other person is just not into it.

It took a while, and I swore I would never, ever end up with a cross dresser, but one finally got under the radar. It can be done if you are SUBTLE about it. Big blokes in frocks is not an immediately appealing kink.

Moral: its not your dress or your kink that matters, its your personality. Are you an appealing, grateful, loving sissy or an unappealing, selfish drama queen??

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/19/2007 8:09:08 PM

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So there you go. In life, kinks that you think will never appeal to you, can turn out to be wonderful with the right person. And equally your favorite kinks can fall flat if the other person is just not into it.

My Mistress feels the same way, that its important to keep an open mind about KINKS. When you feel connected to someone, you open up to them and what they are about --- and there can be a fusion of interests and a broadening of limits.

But.... if you are closed to kinks apriori --- and so dismiss another person out of hand for "wrong kinks" --- you may miss out on a pot of gold in the process.

Your anectdote is wise and pointed.

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/21/2007 11:10:51 PM

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Oh LadyMorgynn,
You understand me so well - "May the Gods Feed you Honey!"

Love,
Skirt (actually, I closed my account several days ago, but I keep getting e-mail - if I wasn't such a...let me reduce the windew so I can see the words you used..."silly giggling teenage girls" - You, & offered with complete respect (someone got pissed off with me the other day for referring to her thus), DARLING are one wise human being! With nothing but love, Skirt

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/21/2007 11:12:47 PM

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If I had a new "screen name and a new attitude (yikes)" how could you possibly know that I was...me?
Skirt (greeting you from the...rational side)

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/21/2007 11:21:11 PM

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Ah yes!
What am I? I don't know yet, but oddly, perhaps even as oddly as you ending up with a crossdresser (egads!), amid all the people who, for some unknown reason, get pissed-off and, in some fashion, behave like complete asses there are people like you who give me pause.
Happy Thursday,
Skirt.

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/22/2007 6:57:32 AM

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G'morning all:

I've given this topic further consideration and have decided to add a conclusion I came to. As I see it, sissies dress and act they way they do because it draws and focuses attention upon themselves. It all screams "Look at me! LOOK AT ME!".

Most female dominants don't particularly care to be involved with sissies, cross dressers, etc. because they want to be the primary focus, not the submissive. Most women like to adored, pampered, catered to. If a submissive is too busy prancing about in their satins and heels, how can they focus their energies on the dominant? Those pretty clothes don't stand up very well to harsh cleaning solutions when they get splashed.

It has been my experience that sissies and their ilk tend to focus on the softer sides of BDSM. This does little for me as I enjoy heavy corporal play. I'm a sadist in the extreme. Someone worrying about his wig and nails is not going to be able to concentrate on what I want.

Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...

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RE: Why don't doms like sissies? - 2/22/2007 5:43:26 PM

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Consistent with your posting history, you offer the narrowest of narrow views on this subject.

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