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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/8/2005 4:23:58 PM

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I've had a little experience with it. A friend of mine on this site could attest to the comment 'the only thing your nigger body is good for is to give birth to a white man's baby' On the other hand, you have the same sort of racial play with white women and black men, white men and asian women, etc etc etc in every combination. I don't think there's anything new about 'race' or 'ethnicity' play, and more often then not, the people who enjoy it seem to be more likely to be free of prejudice. It's like an old thought, that I only feel comfortable making racial slurs because in reality I have nothing against the people in question. I think all humiliation play starts with this.

"I am hard, but I am fair! There is no racial bigotry here! I do not look down on niggers, kikes, whops or greasers! Here you are ALL equally worthless! And my orders are to weed out all non-hackers who do not pack the gear to SERVE in my beloved Corp. Do you maggots understand that? "

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/8/2005 6:55:57 PM

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A friend of mine on this site could attest to the comment 'the only thing your nigger body is good for is to give birth to a white man's baby'

I attest.
*blush*

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/8/2005 11:02:35 PM

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well well the cat's back to play. Did you miss us? It's good to see you again.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/9/2005 12:57:02 AM

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this discussion reminds me of a hilarious shirt...please, try not to be too offended. ^_^

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/9/2005 5:20:17 AM

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this discussion reminds me of a hilarious shirt...please, try not to be too offended. ^_^

What about the Irish, don't forget them

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/9/2005 5:02:40 PM

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What about the Irish, don't forget them

That does it. I wanna be a dom.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/10/2005 2:49:03 PM

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This is a heavy question. I really hate racists of every color. And I utterly detest southerners who apologize about being from the south or play into the utter lie that racism is a southern thing. I remember black families being burned out of their tenements in Philidelphia in the 80's and I knwo that Indiana is the capital for white supremacists.

With that out of the way, I have dated black girls but never even thought about using that word until I read the profile of a girl who asked for a white slave-owner. I don't know if I could get into that, although I've never been asked. Just thinkning about it I get a weird feeling in my gut that just says "no."

But that doesn't make you wrong for wanting it. If it makes you hot, tell him. Pick out an African name and he can use that for you, unless you have a distinctly African name already in which case he can call you "Betty" or something especially European. He could also hang a price tag around your neck and make you dress in the shed or something.

Off topic: I do love to hear girls describe what gets them hot no matter what it is. I love peering into the femenine mind

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/10/2005 4:16:33 PM

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Well, if that is what you are into......

Personally, if anyone spoke to me like that whether I was buying a pint of milk from them or I was their slave.... They would get the biggest smack in the mouth they've ever come across.

I never ever tolerate racism.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/10/2005 8:18:22 PM

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Well, if that is what you are into......

Personally, if anyone spoke to me like that whether I was buying a pint of milk from them or I was their slave.... They would get the biggest smack in the mouth they've ever come across.

I never ever tolerate racism.

Aw, c'mon. It isn't racism. It's racial play. If he was racist, he wouldn't have chosen me as his slave. Doy.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/10/2005 8:23:48 PM

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But that doesn't make you wrong for wanting it. If it makes you hot, tell him. Pick out an African name and he can use that for you, unless you have a distinctly African name already in which case he can call you "Betty" or something especially European. He could also hang a price tag around your neck and make you dress in the shed or something.

Price tag? Dress in the shed? HA! I love it. Too bad he doesn't have a shed.
And as far as the name thing goes, my name is Marshe (pronounced like Marcia Brady). Is it distinctly European? I suppose so. I like to be called by my name though, and being called some ridiculous "African" ghetto fab name like "LaKwanda" would make me roll my eyes, not turn me on.

You sure you think the racial thing is wrong? Sounds like you've put some thought into it to me...^_- *wink*

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/10/2005 8:43:47 PM

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Whatever........ its your thread.

If you want to accomodate that kind of thinking then that's your look out.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/10/2005 9:24:31 PM

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Whatever........ its your thread.

If you want to accomodate that kind of thinking then that's your look out.

Accomodate that type of thinking? I suppose having my Master call me a nigger is gonna make him love the word "nigger" soooooooo much, he's gonna become racist, and then join the Klan.

Whatever indeed.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/10/2005 9:47:12 PM

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You sure you think the racial thing is wrong? Sounds like you've put some thought into it to me...^_- *wink*

Of course it's wrong, dear. I am simply very imaginative when it comes to scening.

Yes, the ghetto names wouldn't work for me either: LaKwanda, Tyranasaurus, Bafreaka... nah. I must admit that I find a cute black chick who speaks standard English insanely erotic. VERY nice. Aisha Tyler is my dreamgirl. I would eat her pussy in the middle of main street in front of momma and her preacher.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/11/2005 10:31:40 AM

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Of course it's wrong, dear. I am simply very imaginative when it comes to scening.

Hee hee! ^_^ You're great. I still respectfully disagree, but you're hilarious.

BTW, have you ever met a girl name Tyranasaurus?

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/11/2005 2:49:07 PM

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BTW, have you ever met a girl name Tyranasaurus?

No, and I haven't met a "BaFreaka" either. :)

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/11/2005 3:24:57 PM

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I'm guessing here, but not completely in the dark. Your master is identified as white, and with a southern drawl, so I'll presume we have a bit in common there. It also seems safe to presume that he's non-racist, so we match again. So I'm going to assume that we're very much alike, and go from there.

Racism is stupid, ignorant, and just generally repulsive. And since we light-skinned southerners are continually demonised as a bunch of stupid, ignorant, repulsive racists, those of us with decent upbringings wind up compensating for that. We live our lives sensitive to avoid even the appearance of racism. It gets very deeply ingrained, and it can certainly go too far.

So when you ask him to call you that, you're asking him to go against one of his deepest instincts.

This is NOT a bad thing, don't get me wrong. I've gone through this, and I think it's very analogous to the earlier process I had to go through to reconcile the notion of being a gentleman and treating ladies properly with the whole dominant/master trip. Having a woman who adored this side of me, and gave me continuous support and reassurance that this was alright, that I wasn't just a bad person for enjoying it... that made a lot of difference.

And I think this is very much how you need to approach this. I'm guessing that he enjoyed it when you did this once - perhaps as much or more than you did. But there's this voice deep inside telling him that this was awful, and the fact he liked it is even worse. Talk to him. Let him know you liked it, and you hope he liked it too. Make it clear to him that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with him, or you. Don't push too hard, too quick - but definately don't 'let it slide' entirely either. Give him a little time to come to grips with it, and I predict you'll be shocked how much he really does like it, once he becomes comfortable with expressing it.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/12/2005 8:05:38 AM

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If that's the case I'll crack the whip while wearing a KKK outfit. you naughty girl you what would the NAALCP think?

In the words of Paris Hilton, "Now that's hot."

i may have to suggest that...

I think quoting paris hilton is more humiliation than racial slurs =)

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/12/2005 8:17:33 AM

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I think quoting paris hilton is more humiliation than racial slurs =)

LMAO~

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/12/2005 11:37:07 AM

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this discussion reminds me of a hilarious shirt...please, try not to be too offended. ^_^

Although you can't buy the T-shirt anymore.

A couple weeks ago tshirthell.com got rid of their "Worse than Hell" section. What a pity.

Oh, and I love your avatar. I'm "Lepid0ptera" on Gaia :D

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 5/20/2005 10:16:57 AM

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When I was younger I tended to get a bit kinky with guys5-10 years older than me and one of them (greatest spanker ever) always loved to pull my hair and make me squeal saying "I always wanted to fuck a 16-yr-old cunt like you" as he pounded the shit out of me. Now you can argue whatever you want, but in many cases teens are stereotyped, etc... which can be called discrimination. In short-I loved that my age turned him on more (well I usually love whatever about me that turns people on ;) ) I was abused my dad at a very young age and so one would think that being objectified as jailbait would frighten me (I wo't call anyone daddy and I have age limits). But for some reason nothing got me hotter than telling me I was one dirty, little, 16-yr-old whore.

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