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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/7/2006 3:53:46 PM

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I have only one thing to add:

http://www.abolishthenword.com/

As a Black male you can feel my point I'm sure. Maybe your master is deeper than you understand him to be.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/7/2006 4:01:33 PM

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That is an extremely powerful piece, BDS ...

I have honestly never understood why it would be "ok" for anyone to use that word ... Growing up there were two words/phrases that were guaranteed to get you a mouthful of soap and a tanned bottom ... To say that you hated another human being was one and using the n word for ANY reason was the other.

Thank you for sharing that link.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/7/2006 4:07:07 PM

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I thought you said you grew up in a racist household, darq.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/7/2006 4:11:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I thought you said you grew up in a racist household, darq.

I did ...

I was also often told, do as I say not as I do.

For some reason it was ok for my parents, my uncles, my aunts, pretty much every adult I knew to be racisit ... To this day my mother fears I'll marry a black man or adopt a black child.

However, the rule was still there. Those two words/phrases were strictly NOT allowed. Maybe thats why *I'm* not racist ...

What exactly was the point of bringing that up though, LnM?

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/7/2006 4:15:46 PM

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Trying to understand.

quote:

ORIGINAL: darq

What exactly was the point of bringing that up though, LnM?

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/7/2006 4:21:16 PM

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If you need any further explanations, feel free to message me on the other side. I don't want to detract from the forums by trying to post my entire life's story with every little nuance as a disclaimer for anything I may say.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/7/2006 4:24:01 PM

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Excuse me, who pissed in your Wheaties this morning? You're the one who made a point of saying that you grew up in a racist family. What I asked was a natural question after you what you just said here. I can't be the only person who thinks it's interesting that racist parents would have punished their children for using the N-word. In fact, I find that VERY interesting, and it's probably not hard to imagine the reasons why.

In any case, if you don't want people to ask questions about the things you say, don't say things publicly.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/7/2006 4:31:38 PM

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No one pissed in my wheaties ...

*sighs*

This is exactly what I wanted to avoid. If you needed further clarification you could have asked for it on the other side where it wouldnt have hijacked this thread ...

I cannot possibly be the only person on this entire site who's parents did strange things. I cannot possibly be the only person who has at times experienced things in her life that contradict other experiences.

My entire family is racist ... My mother knows this is wrong. She knows its wrong to hate people based on their color, sexual orientation, or whatever ... She *still* hates though. I guess maybe she didnt want that for me.

My upbringing, its contradictions and its consistencies, is NOT the point of this thread however so if you need further clarification, *please* take it to the other side ... Or start a whole new thread. Whichever. I don't care.

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/9/2006 4:50:27 PM

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i would only feel comfortable with racial humiliation...i would never serve a white boy...i love it when Black rules white

they are so good at it and so suit it

to understand it you should go check out this site..its the best site on the net

www.niggerworship.com

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/10/2006 11:26:37 PM

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in my humble opinion i applaud you on your self confidence and the confidence in your master to know the difference btwn saying the word nigger as a term of hate or play and i personally would love to see it in action

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/11/2006 9:02:56 AM

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I have had several romantic relationships with men who are from races different than my own. I was married to someone not of my race or religion for 12 years. I have children from that marriage who are bi-racial (not black and white tho, but mixed, none the less). I am currently in a relationship with Master for the past 3 years and He is black, and I am white. I don't really consider ethnicity as much as I do whether the person is someone I can just relate to. I don't use racial slurs as they just make me queasy. Master hates the "n" word in any type of usage.

However, if you and your Dom are ok with that type of play then it isn't for any of us to tell you not to bring up the subject with Him. It may just be that He has forgotten how juicy it makes you feel, or it may also be that He isn't really comfy with the word. If it were my Dom, I would very respectfully ask which reason applied since it is something that really turns my crank. However, if He doesn't like it... just love Him and respect the fact that He played that way with you the one time.

Be well...

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RE: are You uncomfortable using racial humiliation? - 6/12/2006 11:42:05 AM

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Thank you darq. Interesting screen name. What does it mean?

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