WillowRain
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ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav i am glad i have not met the "Doms" that dont care. but then i wouldn't be attracted to a selfish uncaring person. Edited for spelling why do you assume that a Dominant who didn't care about a submissive's arousal was a selfish or uncaring person? perhaps they understand that a submissive's pleasure is not all wrapped up in physical responses, or perhaps they just want a submissive who's sole sexual focus will be service....this does not make them an uncaring, unfeeling or selfish person in general. Dear pretty girl, For lots of us, consistant orgasm and release is as much a functional need for health as eating regularly or exercising. So a dominant who didn't care about that would be neglecting a whole section of his/her submissives health, balance and well being. I'm open to the idea that you and others might not need a lot of personal sexual expression, pleasure or orgasm to be healthy, whole and high functioning, but I think for a great number of folks it's not optional, it's a necessity. Regular orgasm, makes me calmer, more even, happier in life, not just in the moment of pleasure. It also is a highly bonding activity to me, and one that my body habituates to. My clit has very specific and happy opinions about folks that know it and make it happy. It tends to sing about them when they are close. Now I don't know about your clit, but mine is very loud and somewhat like a toddler, it does abundant joy, sometimes it sulks, on good days it sings. It is very hard not to be nice to someone, when part of your body starts singing goofy little songs of adoration every time you are close to them, loudly, and with enthusiasm. That said, still there is nothing wrong with you, you are perfect as you are and matched in a lovely way with your Master. We are all snowflakes, and your particular version of cut ice doesn't need orgasm to feel content and happy. From what you say, that suits your Master and you fine and that is all that matters. :) Wishing you only well, Master Jack's, Willow
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