daddysprop247
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Joined: 6/24/2005 From: DC Metro area Status: offline
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first i think that there are multiple ideas of "no limits" floating around, when it's really not that complicated of a concept imo. the way i was trained/taught, a slave was by definition "no limits" since she/he has given up all rights upon agreeing to become the property of another. and by no limits, that meant that the slave gave up all personal limits, and took on the limits of her/his Owner. some may take this to mean that there is no such thing as no limits, however if the limits are not your own and you have no control over them, i think that would qualify as no limits. so as a slave while i have no personal limits, my Master has limits which he places upon me. however these limits are subject to change at any time, and have absolutely nothing to do with shared values/desires/trust etc. there are certainly things my Master subjects me to that i would make limits if i were a free submissive. MadRabbit said: There is just a deep enough level of trust and understanding that the Master wont ask the slave to do something that would cross those limits. i would say that's true for some, but not for all. in my case, my Master does what he wills, which means that i cannot count on him not crossing certain lines or boundaries. actually it's quite the contrary, sometimes he crosses those lines just to make the point that he can, and sometimes he crosses them just because he wants to do what he wants to do, and the end result (damage to me) is not relevant. it can be immensely difficult at times, especially from an emotional standpoint as i can be a very sensitive person, however it's something i accepted when i came into this life. this is "no limits."
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