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ORIGINAL: DecadentDesire

Why, just the other day, I was feeling a little
randy and I went up to a woman and said...

"Baby, I am in the mood to pass on my genes and ensure the survival
of our species!"

She replied, "I'm not really in the mood. I have a headache!"

What was I to do? I couldn't let that pass. I have strong genes that need
to be shared and returned to the genetic pool! So I said...

"Woman, you are a goddamn failure in terms of genetics! What would Mother
Nature say about you and your selfish existence, hording all of your genes,
refusing to pass them on??"

She cried, but that's ok. We had great missionary style sex!

Oh, the joys of a life of "pure truth", devoid of any greater spiritual and deeper
meaning to my actions, living only to inseminate the females around me for the
sake of my specie's survival. It's so great to be enlightened and to see everything
for what it really is!

Good times....good times....

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ORIGINAL: ThatsMissBitch

I was talking to a vanilla friend the other day. She refers to my lifestyle choices as "kinky sex". I had to laugh and loved the confused look on her face when I explained for myself it has little to do with sex. For me it is about control, power, sensations, energy. I am sadistic and get high off causing pain to those who enjoy it. And sometimes to those that don't. I am also a masochist I get high from pain that most people can not even dream about.

So tell me is it really about sex for most people?

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ORIGINAL: Sakone

All I can do is answer for myself. For me its not all about sex. I still have a normal vanilla life, and do hope my sub/subs my take part in it. Going to the movies, dinners, or just camping. Sure I may make a kinky twist to it, however I am a sadisitc person like that. However for me, its more of knowing the person, what they like, dislike, what they may want to try, make them grow to be a better and confident person with themselves and everyone else.