Bhruic
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Joined: 4/11/2012 From: Toronto, Canada Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: budda1488 yes i do but I give for them and I would expect them to also give for me, at times when i need. I believe it is 2 sided i submit and by that I mean i go softer for them when they need it and i expect them to do the same when i need it. otherwise I look at it as greedy That you go softer than you like when they want does not mean that you can go harder than they like when you want. That is not quite how the dynamic works. It is your job to learn how to take them as far as they can go, and to teach them to be able to go farther if they can. You are right that the relationship, like every relationship, is a two way street, but in the master/slave scenario, you each have very different roles and different responsibilities.
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