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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/17/2007 4:23:01 PM

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why not and because you are 52 it shouldn't matter....

oh wait I get it, all of the Masters are hitting on the younger ones and your jelous...but wait a minuet your Owned or does your profile lie?

How
necessarywas THAT young lady ??

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/17/2007 5:57:15 PM

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I enjoy reading the paper and doing the crossword puzzles. When we are together, we do them together. We're both in our early 20's.

Although, I do get your point.

It's weird. I have never felt a jealous vibe from an older submissive in RL, but it does seem prevelant over the internet.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/18/2007 8:53:41 AM

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Shy is 52? Why the pic of the 18-25 yr old in your icon? Guess it really does pay to read someone's profile :-)
Perhaps that's why you've encountered so many older Doms looking for 18-25s.

We are more interested in younger subs because it supports the D/s dynamic. Being senior adds credibility to the dynamic and many who like to lead like having a lot to teach. One that already knows as much or more than I do about life would be less fun to mold. Of course there are older women that fit into that category but that usually means the learning has been slow so far and my job would likely be harder. Many Doms don't have that teaching/nurturing thing and so older is fine. In those cases the preference is more likely one of physical aesthetics.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/18/2007 9:10:30 AM

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Shy is 52? Why the pic of the 18-25 yr old in your icon? Guess it really does pay to read someone's profile :-)
Perhaps that's why you've encountered so many older Doms looking for 18-25s.

We are more interested in younger subs because it supports the D/s dynamic. Being senior adds credibility to the dynamic and many who like to lead like having a lot to teach. One that already knows as much or more than I do about life would be less fun to mold. Of course there are older women that fit into that category but that usually means the learning has been slow so far and my job would likely be harder. Many Doms don't have that teaching/nurturing thing and so older is fine. In those cases the preference is more likely one of physical aesthetics.

Leto

Avatars are not supposed to necessarily be an accurate depiction of who we are, many of them are cartoons for example, do you think that people are actually cartoons?

Most of the dominants on the other side do not read this forum, they state what they want in their profiles, and it is common for the older ones to want younger ones. I am still considered a "younger one" by dominants 10 years older than myself, so I have seen this quite a bit.

It does not bother me personally. If someone does not want me because of my age, well thats way cool. I want to be with someone that thinks that my age is attractive to them, not someone that would just be using me until someone younger came along...

I have also noticed A LOT of dominants that desire women contemporary to them. I think we notice what we focus upon. When I was looking I focused on men that were what I desired and vice versa... and that is what my reality reflected. I spent zero emotional energy bemoaning a 40 year old that wanted two 20s, I might think "Gosh, good luck dude!" but if they could find that..... go them!

Personally men that desire that turn me off. I want a man that is into more than fertilizing young holes, trying to make up for their lost youth.. etc. Not that all men that date younger women fall into that category, because they do not, but a lot of them do. It is about a trophy submissive.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/18/2007 9:24:33 AM

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[About the only advantage to the younger girls is that gravity and bearing kids haven't taken such a toll on their bodies, so there could be a trophy aspect to snagging one. Also, a dumb older guy may stand a chance of convincing a youngster he has gained wisdom over the years. So I suppose these could be some reasons for older guys to prefer them.

So happypervert, Is this like "if you want to look thinner, surround yourself with fat friends? If you want to appear as a smart, competent master, surround yourself with the young and inexperienced?

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/18/2007 1:34:48 PM

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why not and because you are 52 it shouldn't matter....

oh wait I get it, all of the Masters are hitting on the younger ones and your jelous...but wait a minuet your Owned or does your profile lie?

How
necessarywas THAT young lady ??

It was necessary and here is why.

I am a human like you, age to me means absolutely nothing it is just a number. my Owner is old enough to be my father but he is not my daddy Dom. Infact in real life He is my best friend, my advisor, and the reason I am where I am today.

Whether your 52 or 18 it doesn't matter, some on here will get whatever pussy they can find and others will go for what they personally seek in someone, whatever that may be. Unfortunately that means that yes an 18-25 year old may be considered and accepted over someone who is older than that. Some younger people are actually more mature than some of the elders on here (God I cant believe I just said elders...lol)

In all honesty it is making you jelous otherwise you wouldn't have posted it. The subject must be irritating you to some degree because it bothers you and that is ok, jelousy overtakes everyone at some point, or many points in there life, you may try to hide it, but inside you know the truth just like i do.

It's bugging the living hell out of you.........

I'm not a complete bitch but ya know i dont like being discriminated against due to my age either and honestly i did take your post as an offense because you do not know who i am and how i act in or out of the bedroom.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/18/2007 7:17:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: meticulousgirl

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ORIGINAL: shyinini

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ORIGINAL: meticulousgirl

why not and because you are 52 it shouldn't matter....

oh wait I get it, all of the Masters are hitting on the younger ones and your jelous...but wait a minuet your Owned or does your profile lie?

How
necessarywas THAT young lady ??

It was necessary and here is why.

In all honesty it is making you jelous otherwise you wouldn't have posted it.

Hold on there young un... and you have the right to say this WHY?

Oh that is right ~~~~ cause you are sooooo mature and get off belittling so you appear so mature than the "elders" do

The subject must be irritating you to some degree because it bothers you and that is ok, jelousy overtakes everyone at some point, or many points in there life, you may try to hide it, but inside you know the truth just like i do.

R O T F L M F A O !!
I still want to know how the hell you THINK you know who I am so well???

It's bugging the living hell out of you.........

R O T F L m F A o !!!!!

I'm not a complete bitch but ya know i dont like being discriminated against due to my age either and honestly i did take your post as an offense because you do not know who i am and how i act in or out of the bedroom.

YOU have taken this SO personally and attached some totally immature slant to this that it is friggin hilarious!
DO YOU know how mature this makes you look?

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/18/2007 8:05:04 PM

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In all honesty it is making you jelous otherwise you wouldn't have posted it. The subject must be irritating you to some degree because it bothers you and that is ok, jelousy overtakes everyone at some point, or many points in there life, you may try to hide it, but inside you know the truth just like i do.

I have seen several posts from you that seemed rather, shall we say, mean spirited, in the last few days. I do not necessarily think that you intend to sound this way, but you do (at least to me). I must have missed where shy insulted young submissives, or was derogatory toward them. Perhaps you could point out exactly where you got the impression that she is jealous? I just did not see that.

Perhaps you are interpreting her motivations based upon your own fears? Not all women want to be younger nor do we begrudge others their youth. being 18 to 25 years old was not the best time of my life personally, it has gotten better for me as I have gotten older. No little kids running around, I am almost to the point I can come and go as I please... freedom is right around the corner, freedom I did not have after I had a UM. And at 52 most women know who they are and where they are going and have been around long enough to enjoy what is left to them... 50 is not a terrible thing.... I know it is hard to imagine that most women do not sit around and lament our youths, but why? There is joy at every phase of life, if you embrace it.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/18/2007 8:11:34 PM

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Why do they prefer girls my age?

Older men have told me it was because young girls are easier to train. As the old saying goes, its hard to teach an old dog new tricks. We have little baggage. We're soft, warm, and cuddly. We laugh a lot. We aren't as "used" as an older woman.

Before I have to zip up my flame suit, these aren't my words. Just what I've been told by various Gentleman admirers.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/18/2007 8:29:01 PM

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Greetings Shyinini,

I read through your thread here and see a wide selection of responses. I guess it does just boil down to preference. I actually have a search winow, but don't limit myself to it exclusively. I find that it matters who the woman is and how she trips my trigger.

Younger women do tend to have less in the way of expectations and therefore as one female stated, can be easier to train, but that is only from the standpoint that they are open minded and eager to learn something new. They do tend to be smooth and shiny, but that again isn't their sole domain. They also have faults that the olders don't. But, as those thoughts may only be personal opinion I'll reserve the right to define at another time.

I think it's all a personal perference, not all men like younger slutlings, and what should it matter if those involved are rockin' the other's involved world, aren't we all just about getting a little love. Or alot of it.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/18/2007 8:52:57 PM

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Yes Bull, preference is one of the criteria

Thank you Julia...I noticed this too of meticulous and even commented on it after I went looking to find if this is typical posting of her..... I have never done this before and felt a bit weird about doing it... but you are correct, she has accused others of jealousy as well.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 12:48:57 AM

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I agree!!!! Prerence is 90-100% the reason for anyone chosen!!!
To each his/her own!!!!!!!
I tutor many college students and they tell me that they are more comfortable with me than friends their own age!!!!
So What!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 11:50:37 AM

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It ain't the years, it's the mileage...

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 12:28:49 PM

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I think a better question would be:

Why do 18-25 yo subs INSIST on preying on us older Doms?!?!?!? Why can't they just leave us alone? Who do they think they are? Anyway?

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 12:37:38 PM

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Because y'all are just so CUTE.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 12:45:25 PM

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In my brief experimental period as a sub, I dated a man 13 years my senior, and in retrospect, it was nightmarish. There was the everpresent dispute settler of "well, you're just too damn young"... as if I weren't chosen for that very reason!

Anymore, I'm a bit more realistic. I think as a submissive, it's kind of intriguing to be someone's nymphette fantasy girl, but it plays out in reality like real life Nabokov.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 12:55:16 PM

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Chaos, do you believe that ALL older Doms would have behaved as your one did? Or, does there exist the possibility (nay, PROBability) that your experiences were singular to your relationship with THAT one? Could you have had a different, more positive experience, with a different Dom? Maybe (click-->) THIS (<---click) will help you get over your Nabokovian hurdle.

My point is: 1000 relationships will have 1000 different dynamics. No ONE rule applies to ALL, except as defined by YOUR feelings and reactions to your other. I read somewhere that the ONE CONSTANT factor in ALL of our failed relationships is US.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 1:27:47 PM

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I think a better question would be:

Why do 18-25 yo subs INSIST on preying on us older Doms?!?!?!? Why can't they just leave us alone? Who do they think they are? Anyway?

It is the insistent praying to that strikes me as forward and somewhat unseemly... before proper introductions and formation in the noviate, anyway.

I guess my message to each of them would be: sure, chickie, The Older Dom is god, but that doesn't mean he's your god.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 2:46:57 PM

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I think it has somewhat to do with the youthworship that is so abundant in society. We are told by the society that young= better, hotter, sexier etc. So in that way having a young girl upon the arm like having a social trophy of some sorts.

However I know a couple of guys who only go after young girls because they are less likely to be mothers and they consider children to be a baggage they don't want included.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 2:50:30 PM

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It was necessary and here is why.

I am a human like you, age to me means absolutely nothing it is just a number. my Owner is old enough to be my father but he is not my daddy Dom. Infact in real life He is my best friend, my advisor, and the reason I am where I am today.

Whether your 52 or 18 it doesn't matter, some on here will get whatever pussy they can find and others will go for what they personally seek in someone, whatever that may be. Unfortunately that means that yes an 18-25 year old may be considered and accepted over someone who is older than that. Some younger people are actually more mature than some of the elders on here (God I cant believe I just said elders...lol)

In all honesty it is making you jelous otherwise you wouldn't have posted it. The subject must be irritating you to some degree because it bothers you and that is ok, jelousy overtakes everyone at some point, or many points in there life, you may try to hide it, but inside you know the truth just like i do.

It's bugging the living hell out of you.........

I'm not a complete bitch but ya know i dont like being discriminated against due to my age either and honestly i did take your post as an offense because you do not know who i am and how i act in or out of the bedroom.

This reply of yours is the absolute most immature way you could have possibly chosen to answer.
How noble your cause you may think it to be, you proved the exact opposite of what you were trying to argue.

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