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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 3:49:40 PM

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Chaos, do you believe that ALL older Doms would have behaved as your one did? Or, does there exist the possibility (nay, PROBability) that your experiences were singular to your relationship with THAT one? Could you have had a different, more positive experience, with a different Dom? Maybe (click-->) THIS (<---click) will help you get over your Nabokovian hurdle.

My point is: 1000 relationships will have 1000 different dynamics. No ONE rule applies to ALL, except as defined by YOUR feelings and reactions to your other. I read somewhere that the ONE CONSTANT factor in ALL of our failed relationships is US.

I got Ada Veen, go fig. I'm not stating a universal; I'm citing my experience. It takes an exceptional young woman to understand what she's getting herself into with someone much older, and it takes an exceptional man to understand what he's getting himself into with someone much younger.

It's kind of a "No shit" sort of premise; that you should evaluate *why* you want a particular relationship, but not all that many people do it before they pursue someone.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 5:55:58 PM

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Because y'all are just so CUTE.

Hey! I'm pretty! Not cute.......

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 5/19/2007 7:32:19 PM

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I got Ada Veen, go fig. I'm not stating a universal; I'm citing my experience. It takes an exceptional young woman to understand what she's getting herself into with someone much older, and it takes an exceptional man to understand what he's getting himself into with someone much younger.

It's kind of a "No shit" sort of premise; that you should evaluate *why* you want a particular relationship, but not all that many people do it before they pursue someone.

HEY! I got Ada Veen, too!!! Truthfully, I have NO IDEA what that means.

Me, personally, I'm not looking for any particular age group. I'm looking for a mind-set. An understanding, I suppose. One of those "I'll-know-it-when-I-see-it," I guess. I seriously doubt anyone 18-25 will truely understand, but, if I happen to run across one, I am open-minded enough to allow her to present her arguments, so to speak.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 3/31/2009 9:06:31 PM

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I like to work with a clean slate, and young girls are easier to mold and shape into what I find suitable. I can teach and train them to match my personal tastes. Plus, girls my age aren't as fertile as their young counterparts, and that makes reproducing more challenging.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 4/1/2009 5:47:55 AM

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If you were looking for a real answer....

The reasons for searching for a younger submissive are numerous. But I'll speak from my own experiences. I think in many cases they are just looking for a little girl. For some people, that age gap is essential to their Daddy/lg dynamic. I've met men who want to be a real father figure in a girl's life. They want to take her shopping, pay for college, protect her, give her fatherly advice. If a father walked into a daughter's life when she was 40, he would have missed all the experiences in between 18 and 40.

You are legal at 18, but are you really 'grown up' ? I'm still growing up and I've met many people who want to father me while I finish this stage of my life. You probably consider yourself a grown woman. I am twenty and don't consider myself 'grown' and I'm willing to bet many girls my age feel the same. Is it so horrible that a Dominant who wants to be a daddy would go after a girl in this stage?

Not to mention at 20, my life course is not set. I don't have children. I don't own a home. I haven't even decided on a major yet! I can understand why some men would be attracted to this lack of stability/permanence and want to be the person/thing that gives my life some stability and permanence.

This a actually a conversation that came up between my dom and I the other night I'm 19 and he's 41. Things have been more than a little hectic lately and I"ve been very emotional too. I asked him why he would go for someone so much younger when he could have looked for a sub closer to his age and more settled in his life. His response was a couple of things. Women his age especially in our area are generally just bored with their sex life or their partner they are interested, but they tend to be more set in their ways at the same time. With me being younger I'm just getting interested in the lifestyle it's been a thought for a couple of years, but I haven't explored it until now. He said that it's my curiosity and my openess. I don't have a huge amount of limits a few but they are mutual ones. At first I was very reserved about our age difference he's 6 years younger than my parents, but he dosen't seem like he's that age, and I know every 19 year old says it but I'm more mature than most people my age. I've been through a lot in life and I don't take things for granted. Anyway I think it all depends on the people.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 4/1/2009 5:18:02 PM

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I finally get it! The trend of resurrecting threads today must be some kind of April Fool's Day trick to get people to correspond with people who posted months, and even years ago.

Good prank.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 4/2/2009 1:27:26 AM

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Not overly excited about younger ones. In my experience with young subs they have a very short attention span and does not have the maturity to show respect, obedience, and submission. While most older subs are graceful and obedient. Young one is always good for play but I doubt them for longer term relationships. Just my view only.

Yet, I have met and played with some really nice young ladies.

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 4/6/2009 3:44:15 PM

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I was justing asking somone this today lol. I guess I get the whole paternal/maternal wanting to take care of someone bit and our society does throatfuck us with images of youth as beauty constantly, so I can understand some of it.
The thing I always wonder about is why do older men want to date college-aged girls. What are they going to do? Go to a metal show, hit a few bars, stop at an after-party and then wake up and wait til the E wears off to go to Home Depot? How do you answer "Daddy, why is your girlfriend closer to my age then mom's?" And don't they remember what girls that age are like? We're crazier than any other demographic by far.
I really, really hope that I'm at a different place in my life when I'm 40. Personally I like being around people who are at least near where I'm at, ya know?

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RE: 18-25 yr old subs - 4/6/2009 8:57:44 PM

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Hum I almost feel like I've chosen older just because I respond to a 2 year old thread!
Why do I Like younger subs? I will tell you if you read to the end. What draws me to a submissive is how her mind works, exploring the workings of a mind is totally facineting to me , because of that I seldom care about bodies. Ill admit to a preference for a cute face but beyond that I'm open. So sometimes I'm told I'm a chubby chaser. I cant deny it can I ? Since it doesn't mater I do enjoy chubby girls , their minds work ever bit a interestingly as a skinny girl .But I can like a skinny girl too, lack of size doesn't affect their minds does it? So in the end who cares?
Age is the same. I really don't care. A older girl will have more experiances and there might be deeper and richer workings but its not a given. She may have fell into a role and stagnated from 18 to 58. . So the 58 year old may be much the same as the 18.
A 18 year old might be curoius and exploreative, but its certainly not a rule.
So why do I like a younger sub? Because she has a mind I can explore.

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