shyinini
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ORIGINAL: Argentopal OK, well, here i will take a stabe at this one. I am soon to be 55 and Argent is 53. We would both like to fine a lady a good bit younger than us, in her 20's is good. Why? Because we want to make a difference in her life. Yes we want the Ds and the fun stuff and the kinky stuff, but any girl we have as a part of out home (live in, 3rd. poly ...) will be special and important to us. She will not be a casual play partner, she will be cherished and loved. We would want to help make a difference in all areas of her life. We would hope to help her grow and learn about her submissivness, her service oriented self and her pain loving self and her obdient self. We would hope to provide her a safe haven from which to learn about the bdsm world around her. We would hope to be a helpful influence to her in her "real life" as well, from choices about continuing her education if she so choose to a career path if she wanted to work outside our home. We know the fact that we are that much older leaves a real chance that we will pass on before she does, by a number of years possibly, so, if she was to remain ours for that long we would hope to instill in her the self reliance and confidence to stand on her own at that time, or to choose another to serve with the knowledge that she would choose safely and wisely. Does that help any? MsOpal MsOpal, I wish when I was young and in my 20's I could have found someone like the two of you. Yes! I love the sense it makes. My sister is in the Big/Lil sisters programand she went there for the same sort of reasons, to make a difference. And 13 yrs later, that lil sis is grown and a mom herself and still goes to my sis for guidance. After all that drama just above ~ I want to apologize to you and Argent for it cause all I really wanted was honest cool answers like this...not stuff like that. I thank you sincerely Ma'am.
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