earthycouple
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I have a very pissy attitude about this for one reason: the last live in I had.... he came to me "preaching" my submission is a gift I choose to give it. When he disagreed with me, he simply said "I don't have to do this. My submission is a gift" In the three months he was here, I heard this probaby once a week. It was "his card". And I'm not talking about things like limits...I mean when he would disagree with a topic of conversation he became very angry. When I would attempt to bring him back to his place by making him kneel in front of me he'd say "no my submission is a gift." I quickly learned MANY things about him, but the biggest his want to give was there as long as he only gave exactly what he wanted and on his terms and you best always agree with him lest he beat the crap out of you. He didn't stay long. Submission is a state of being, it is a type, it is a personality, it is a need, a want call it anything you like....it is no gift to me, nor will I consider it such. My Robert..... he's so beautiful. I've never felt so fulfilled in a BDSM realationship. The gift he gives to me is TRUST; Submission follows trust.
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