akbarbarian
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ORIGINAL: JerryInTampa If it's "no, outlawing bunny slippers was wrong", then she's welcome to her own opinion, as long as she's not insubordinate. Perhaps it's the brand of her expressing opinion that irks me most. She does it in incredibly insubordinate ways. I have asked her several times, "If you talked like that to the boss at work do you think you'd be able to continue to work there?" And that's just work which should be less D/s than in an M/s relationship so it's way off the mark from how I believe it should be. She has admitted that work wouldn't keep her on if she talked like that as well, but it hasn't corrected the problem for her to realize this. quote:
If she always thought what you thought and wanted what you wanted, then what would be her submission? Um yeah that's pretty sexy, sorry, what was the question? It's hard to think when I'm that turned on. If You truly want someone who thinks exactly what You think, and wants exactly what You want, I'm afraid You're in for a lot of disappointment. I agree with many of the posters who stated it isn't respectful to be argumentative, to me, it's counterproductive, and more destructive than anything else. But that isn't to say two people can't agree to disagree and let it go. The thing is, there are no two people in the world who think about things exactly the same and have exactly the same desires. If You do succeed in turning someone into a mini s-type version of Yourself, do You think that would truly make her happy? Further, could You convince Yourself that she's being sincere in her agreement, and wouldn't You wonder where her head truly was? Just some things to think about... -a I realize there is a limit to what's practical and reasonable, however it is a turn on to have that as much as she has it to give. The opposite, shouting her views repeatedly in opposition to mine however, is very harsh and stressful. I would like somthing inbetween, somthing real and also pleasant.
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