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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

i was raised a Lutheran which i've always considered "Catholic Lite - 60% fewer guilts than your regular Catholic"  but i continue to hold the belief that all 'sin' is in the motives not the acts themselves.  50 year old man with an 18 year old girl... what is the motive?  sex with a niave young hard-body?  to find someone young enough to still believe the lies?  OR to be with someone they can nurture, protect and cherish, not as easily found in cynical, bitter or emotionally jaded older females?  What is the motive?  That's the key to in regardless of age or any other factor.

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

What is too young to be a submissive?
I wonder about men in their 40's/50's/60's taking up with these tender young
women in their early 20's.
They are so young and impressionable, especially if they are only 18.
Would you want your daughter 19, moving in and becoming a slave to a man of 50?
Let's hear it.

HELL... I don't want my daughters to move in with anyone..... Yes  PROTECTIVE FATHER SYNDROME HERE!!!

NO ONE IS GOOD ENOUGH FOR MY DAUGHTERS!!!!!!

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If a girl is sexually active and an older man takes her under his wing and teaches her that sex doesn't equal love and that sex can be beautiful, I have no problem with that.

If a dominant uses his powers of persuasion to seduce a woman and talk her into doing things using manipulation, even if she agrees, I don't like that regardless of age.

Anyone who tries to take a young person and form a long term bond with them is fooling themselves.  The chances of that succeeding are slim (before the four people on CM who pulled it off post, remember your unique experience doesn't undermine the average, people live to 115 to but most of us won't) as kids tend to change and grow a lot in those early years.

Personally, other than their nice little bodies, few young women hold much interest for me, never quite understood the attraction to having a long term relationship with them.

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I agree, caitlyn. I also want to mention a possibility that's been lightly touched upon in this thread and amplify it a bit. Some of the 18-through- twenty-something, sweet, tender things could take an older man, turn him upside down, spin him around, and get him to forget his own name. Think of the dynamic mechanism described in Nabokov's Lolita, but raise the girl's age to 18+.  I realize this is a broad generalization, but I think on a site like this it's okay to generalize about broads.

Bob

Be careful about what you wish for.

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"Personally, other than their nice little bodies, few young women hold much interest for me, never quite understood the attraction to having a long term relationship with them."

OHHHHHHH but those nice young tight bodys are such a comfort on a cold winters night, at that time I am not exploring their brain but their warm sweet bodys smiles,I leave the 40"s brainics to the rest of you,,bounty

Hello BOUNTYHUNTER. Thank you, thank you, thank you....thank you! If I see some young hot bods looking for "wicked", they will properly be refered to you! Just send me the dirty minded braniacs! yes, yes!.RL.

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Reading this, one might get the impression that neither of you think young women have brains...  I haven't seen much evidence that a 20 year old girl without much upstairs will become a 40 year old 'brainiac'.  Age can bring maturity, but it doesn't make people smarter, and I've known some brilliant young women.  I've also met mature, centered, civilized, polite women in their twenties, and crabby, bitchy, whiny, paranoid, passive-aggressive women in their forties- not really seeing a strict corelation of age and maturity either. And, just to be fair, I've a met a few 40-year olds with incredibly tight little bodies....  Age just isn't a reliable indicator of any of the things I find interesting or attractive about women.

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Very well stated IrishMist, character and integrity is what counts
on both sides of the D/s coin.
It is hard to often tell, who is the cat and who is the mouse?

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have to agree that a May/December relationship with an older man may have it's advantages for a younger woman. It did for me in my 20's. The chances of it lasting as the female evolves and matures is unlikely.

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"Hello BOUNTY HUNTER. Thank you, thank you, thank you....thank you! If I see some young hot bods looking for "wicked", they will properly be refered to you! Just send me the dirty minded braniacs! yes, yes!.RL.

OF course and refer those young tight body's to me...IT seems as tho I am a magnet can't beat them off with a stick,don't even try smiles...Now back to reality...there are slaves 50 60 with tight small  nice body's,I have own a few,its just some thing about 18 to 30 that turns my crank,,,REAL life 24-7 is the only way...bounty

will think is my son!

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have to agree that a May/December relationship with an older man may have it's advantages for a younger woman. It did for me in my 20's. The chances of it lasting as the female evolves and matures is unlikely.

really? I happen to disagree. I know quite a few women who have been with men 15 to 25 years older than them for their/their partners lifespan. You seem to think that females are pretty fickle. Shame. I have met more men who could not stay in a relationship long term, than I have women.