Mercnbeth
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1. That we (in general sense) do not carry Sadism into death of the masochist and or person receiving sadistic acts. Reasonable - finding and training new slaves is much too bothersome and quote:
2. That we (in a general sense) do not carry Sadism into critical and or severe injuries, that cannot be reversed and or restore a person to a functional life. Broken arms and legs aren't part of my activities, neither is smashing out teeth; however they aren't critical or severe and with time can be reversed, concentuality not withstanding. People without arms and legs can function very well so the 'chainsaw challenge' to test limits would be okay as long as afterward you got them a wheelchair to maintain their "functional life". quote:
2.a. Although accidental injuries occur, all efforts to prevent them are made. Like safe-words? How does the use of them prevent accidents? quote:
3. That we (in general sense) prepare as to have skill, training, judgment, sound equipment as to make every effort to not damage/injure the other person/masochist beyond what is understood as 'personal control/mastery or art' of applications of stimulations as to cause a response and or responses. Are certificates of achievement given? quote:
3.a. We (in a general sense) understand the need for skills, knowledge , training, judgment and sound equipment as to prevent collateral damage/injury or unattended damage/injury. Ex. removing any items that will cause injury/death around the scene play space that a person in the act/behavior of struggling may hit and or come in contact with. Using equipment that won't fail in a struggle, e.g. cuffs, rope, affixed furniture as to hold the person/masochist under certain torque recommendations. Is an engineering degree required? In the US - OSHA would be the overseeing agency. Which one inspects, supervises, and insures all your activities and equipment are safe? For instance, rope loses its strength in continued use. Do you have an independent outside source test it prior to use?quote:
3.b. We (in general) have ready, means to apply first aid and or promptly respond to medical concerns--regardless if the person/masochist is able to raise the alarm or not; of their medical situation/concerns Similar to #1 reasonable, but no reason to boast.quote:
3.c. We (in general) may/can if it applies to a relationship/negotiation/understanding --after care. People can call you if they don't feel like giving "after care" and you come to provide it? quote:
The authority comes from our peers and what is the line in that community, society, group and or organization of what reasonable expectations of what S&M are in the modern/current sense. Well then good for you! It sounds like you have an offshoot group of the 'Ancient Royal Order of the Old Swiss Chard'. The group we were with last week was considering a US chapter of 'Collard' members. Each novitiate will be given a collard seed and only those who grow a collard from this seed into a plant which can be used as a neck wrap, or a 'collard-collar' if you will, will be granted entrance. WE have our standards and no splinter group advocating the benefits of fringe players such as the 'slaves of spinach' will be considered 'true' BDSM 'collards'. As ridiculous as that sounds it is no more/less than your representation. If it works for you and your group of 2, 2 dozen, 2 hundred, or 2 million; it by no means represents any "standard" that anyone should take as dogma or even a guide. That is compares favorably to Nazi torture, Medieval torture, or the torture of Saddam Hussein is totally immaterial. So WHAT? I doubt anyone subject to those atrocities on either side of the flogger, or shredder in the case of Saddam, thought a second about consent in the grand scale or in the minutia. Your representation of absolutes presents is much more dangerous philosophy than anything two consenting people can think up to do to each other. quote:
We (in a general sense) do have standards that we (in general sense) use in what we (in general sense) do in modern/current S&M. As Tonto replied to the Lone Ranger's statement; "There are 1,000 Indian warriors down there looking to kill us. We're in trouble Tonto." Tonto said; "What 'WE' are you talking about, white man?"
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