daddysprop247
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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247 BeingChewsie, you are correct, what makes one a slave is being owned. my comment was emotional and poorly worded...i should not have said "...what is it that makes them a slave at all?"...but rather "then what is it that makes one feel and know they are owned?" because imo, if a slave's life is all peaches and buttercups, completely devoid of any struggle, any hardship, any sacrifice...then while the slavery may be real (they are owned), it has not been tested and it has not been proven (to those within the union, not speaking of any outsiders). This statement makes no sense either their enslavement is real or it isn't. There is enough crap that normal life throws into a relationship without having to make shit up. Live long enough and life will provide the struggle, the hardship, the sacrifice for both people in the relationship. She doesn't know she is truly owned unless her life is hell and she wants to get out? Hogwash. How about if he creates and maintains an enviroment for her that is so incredible, wonderful and represents her best path through life, so much so that leaving him is unthinkable...and never lets that environment or that belief change in her..she is a literal slave of his making. I know its is boring so not the story of O ...but it is slavery and ownership. quote:
and it may be true that some Masters and slaves have no such need to test or prove their ownership or slavery...but i would ask of these people, where is the mark of ownership, and more importantly, where is the growth? I don't know what you mean by "mark of ownership" in the above, please explain "Where is the growth?"....What if she learn to cook gourmet meals? or learns to love and know wine? or gets a degree or three? Writes a book? Loses 100lbs? Learns to Invest in real estate and becomes a milionaire with his help? or takes a up sewing and makes all the kids clothes?..and on and on and..the possiblities are endless. all of the above...learning to be a gourmet cook...losing incredible amounts of weight...acquiring financial wealth, all done under his control and for his benefit are wonderful, beautiful...such learning is likely a part of most successful M/s dynamics. however such things cannot compare to the internal growth and self-awareness that can be brought about by great trials, imposed by the Master. yes of course life has its own trials, for the both of you, that is somthing different. also, i am not referring to anything "artificial" or contrived, as in some Master saying, "i want to prove that you are my property, therefore you must do this difficult thing," no, nothing that deliberate. it's more going about daily life, during the course of which the Master makes demands of and subjects his slaves to whatever he wills. sometimes these things are easy...buttering his toast in a particular way for instance. sometimes these things are difficult, like out of the blue being told that in a few minutes he will be dropping you off at the home of a sadistic Dominant (total stranger to you the slave), and you must serve him well, for the next 3, 4, 5 hours or so, without your Master's presence. the Master demands the same unhesitating obedience and acceptance in either situation. it is a sign of growth when the slave is able to achieve this, and a symbol (this is what i meant earlier by "mark") of his ownership that he can demand one as easily as the other. again, by no means am i saying that hardships and suffering are a necessity for slavery. we're already established that ownership is the only necessity for slavery. however for some (like myself) an environment of slavery where there is never any struggle or sacrifice can be extremely detrimental to the fabric of the dynamic, leading to complacency, selfishness, and other traits which are not complementary to slavery.
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