BitaTruble
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ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty Are you really a slave if all you are ever forced to do is stuff you enjoy? Well, I don't have to be forced to do stuff I enjoy. However, in the spirit of the thread and question, being 'forced' to do stuff I don't like or which effects my squick factor just makes me hot. You know, hot like horny, drippy pussy hot. Sounds more like a slut than a slave but there it is. Basically, what I'm saying is that it isn't what I 'do' which determines what I am although it can certainly affect my ability to be in a relationship. If I don't 'do' what I'm supposed to do, I can be booted out the front door with a one way bus ticket and I really, truly don't want that to happen so I obey his will as I have agreed and as he expects. quote:
As evidenced by the replies to the "sharing" question, many people believe that slavery or ownership is simply a state of mind. I think of it as a state of being, but I get what you're saying. quote:
All it takes to be a slave is the feeling that one is a slave. All it takes to be owned is the acknowledgment that one is owned. Is that really all there is to it? I know it all sounds like it should be so complex and have all these dark, sadistic overtones or perhaps be all romantic and captive-like, (I'm all for hot pirate, kidnap me fantasy's!) but in reality, it really is simple if you desire it to be that way. There's no reason you can't twist it up to suit your own style and desires though and if you like doing 'proof' go for it. You're TallDarkAndWitty.. I wouldn't say no to that. For me, submission is like falling off a log. It's not something I have to think about it just happens. If Himself thinks he's proving something by having me do things I don't like.. pretty much all he's gonna prove is he knows how to push my buttons and get me wet. I am what I am already and that's actually pretty well documented in our big book of relationships. quote:
Ownership is one of my major kinks. I like knowing, in some real and objectvie way, that I actually do own my slave. Things like collars and brands turn me on to know end because they exist outside of my feelings and outside of any bond forged between myself and my slave. I like to share my slaves because it makes tangible the fact that they are property. As I said in the "sharing" thread, I can not loan what I do not own. Sure one can own something and not use it in the ways one uses real property (real in the sense of real estate), and sure there are other ways to highlight that one owns someone else. However, there is no question about the concept of ownership when a Master gives his slave away for a few hours. I hear you and see no problem at all if you want to do that. If Himself wants to loan me out for some reason (although he's not very good about sharing his toys.. 1st born alpha child and all that), he certainly can and I would do so without question and just hope he lets me take a towel so I don't drip on the carpet. There's something to be said for having joy in your heart and absolutely loving what you are, embracing it and being the best you can be because of it. quote:
The question of "suffering" is an interesting one as well. Whenever I begin negotiations with a slave, I make it very clear the "slavery is not always fun." I'm glad that Himself doesn't think like that actually. Slavery is not always 'easy', but for me it's almost always fun in some way and when it's not particularly fun, it's damn sure to be educational. Win-win.. works really well for me. quote:
For me, again, I like tangible evidence that the relationship I have with my property is Master/slave. This means that only forcing them to do things they want to do just won't cut it. I have to re-enforce the idea that they are slaves by throwing in some unpleasantness...otherwise, it is purely a subjective and theoretic Master/slave relationship. Your point comes across loud and clear but I do have a question for you.. what do you do when you run across a slave who doesn't find much in life to be unpleasant or when faced with something unpleasant it turns them into a pile of goo? Celeste
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"Oh, so it's just like Rock, paper, scissors." He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."
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