mistoferin
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defiantbadgirl, for someone who claims such superior intelligence you sure do seem to have an issue with comprehension. Just take into consideration how many people on THIS THREAD ALONE have attempted to tell you what the problem is, not to mention all of the people who have tried REPEATEDLY on all of your other 1111 posts. But you still just don't get it. So I will tell you, it's not your body, it's not bad doms, it's not bad "personal trainers", it's YOU. YOU are unattractive because you are whiny, stubborn, can't see your own faults, blame everyone else for you situation and won't listen to a damn thing anyone (or EVERYONE!!!) is trying to say to you. All of your threads are the SAME....poor me, poor me...it's "their" fault, not mine....and everyone is sick to death of hearing it and trying to get you to understand because you simply DO NOT, CAN NOT OR WILL NOT LISTEN. It would not matter how much you weighed or what you looked like because it is NOT the OUTSIDE of you that is the PROBLEM. Get it? quote:
LuckyAlbatross Defiant how many threads are you going to start about how it sucks to be you and how you can't find a decent man? quote:
Domiguy Oh by the way, there are some women that do not have a perfect body but still attract men....It's cause they gots lots of interesting stuff twix their ears.....You might want to think about this fact in relation to your own failures. quote:
Stephann Defiant Bad Girl, This will come off as harsh; rest assured it's not intended to. I've never seen you; but your lack of self-confidence is probably the most unsexy thing about you. Address THAT flaw, first and foremost, and you'll be miles ahead of where you are now. quote:
Ailleen68 dbg...there is so much to be said about confidence and the vibes that it sends off. Just this thread shows that you have none in yourself. Others will pick up on that. If you aren't happy with yourself then change. Change the way you think. Change the way you look. Change the way your see yourself. Think of how you want to be and then do it. quote:
HisSongstress quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 ...there is so much to be said about confidence and the vibes that it sends off. ..... Others will pick up on that. If you aren't happy with yourself then change. Change the way you think. Change the way you look. Change the way your see yourself. Think of how you want to be and then do it. YES!!!! quote:
DocRudy quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 dbg...there is so much to be said about confidence and the vibes that it sends off. Just this thread shows that you have none in yourself. Others will pick up on that. If you aren't happy with yourself then change. Change the way you think. Change the way you look. Change the way your see yourself. Think of how you want to be and then do it. Bingo. quote:
SwitchSubCouple To me it is more of a self confidence and what we project out to people that enables them to see the beauty we have to offer. If i always complain about how a Mistress does this or that than other Mistress will not be attracted to me and that has nothing to do with looks or age rather it is a mere principal... What we soe is what we reap. Be more positive and you will attract the positive to you. quote:
OsideGirl I think your issue is that you're hung up on finding someone that will accept you when you should be trying to find someone that is acceptable to you quote:
MadRabbit I have read quite a few of your posts and they generally seem to fall under the scope of "I am never going to find anyone!", ranging from reasons regarding your weight, physical appearance, or super intellgience. Hey, it sucks trying to find a life partner and I promise you that a lot of other people have it a lot worse than you, because of circumstances that dont center around personal flaws. This constant Blues song of self pity, how your sob story is so much worse than everyone elses, and how it is so horrible to be you that sings between the notes of your posts is probably the most unattractive thing about you. quote:
LaTigresse Get off your pity pot and start working on improving yourself......until then it's going to be the same old shit over and over. And quite frankly it becomes rather like the boy that cried wolf. No one really wants to listen or care. quote:
RRafe Angst and negativity is unnapealing in any shape or form.
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Peace and light, ~erin~ There are no victims here...only volunteers. When you make a habit of playing on the tracks, you thereby forfeit the right to bitch when you get hit by a train. "I did it! I admit it and I'm gonna do it again!"
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