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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit Fast Reply to No One in Particular. It would be interesting if someone would post, supporting this ludicrious notion that there is some kind of special set of traits that distinquish the slave from the sub, without using the silly conjecture as a way to make themselves seem more "special" than everyone else who is abusing the terms. Of course, there are differences between different submissives and different slaves, just like there are differences between everyone. But, as for me, i have been a submissive and i am now a slave and, there's no difference in me now, that i am a slave. i have been in 5 different long-term D/s relationships, several vanilla relationships and, now i am in a Master/slave relationship. And, the only difference for me is how the Men have treated me. i am the same. i just do things differently. The only reason i do anything differently is because my Master has me do things differently. He has me call Him "Sir" or "Master" and none of the Doms, i was with, ever did. They never had me call them any name other than their birth name. If any of them had told me to call them "Sir" or, anything else, i would have. my Master changed my name and took ownership of me and took control of decision-making for me. If any of the Doms had told me that they were going to change my name and be in complete control of me, i would have been very happy to hear that and, i would have taken whatever name they gave me and i would have deferred all decisions to them. If they had told me that i was going to be their property and be their slave, i would have been thrilled and, i would have gladly accepted that role. i have always done everything i was told to do and, i have always given as much as was taken. But, none of the Doms ever did tell me that i would be their slave and, so, i wasn't. They took less than my Master takes. i served them just as i serve my Master but, He requires more from me and so, He gets more from me. They had no interest in having a slave and, so i wasn't a slave to them, even though i was ready, willing and, able to be a slave to them and, i ached inside for that level of control over me from them, which is why those relationships didn't last. i didn't get the slave treatment that i needed. Thankfully, i get it now. slave joyOwned property of Master David Hi Joy Your post is thought-provoking.. ( as usual) so...I can read this 3 ways ~ you are a slave, who was in relationships that didn't utilize your slave nature and full potential until now.. ~ you were submissive but then became slave because of the dominant ( master) man and his desires, life-style preferences and demands of you.. ~ you feel, there is no difference between a slave and a submissive..the difference lies in the type of relationship and the structure of what goes on between the people(s) in that relationship.. do you feel one of these interpretations is closer to your thoughts/experience/meaning of your post? or a 4th that I'm not reading??
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Cyndi .."There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it. " Edith Wharton
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