I whole heartedly agree with BotanicalMiss. I also consider Myself a switch, but I don't go and seek Dominants. If it's ment to happen, it will happen, and no way else. I'm stated as a Dominant, and switching with My sub is a No no.. Been there done that.. didn't like it. The other thing I get with switches, and try to train them is that they are the most difficultest of them all. When they submit they can be great, but for example I love My subs to be in chastity, and then when the switch feels like it It will go off and do thier own thing, in which ever role.. so I can never get far, untill now, this is My experiance. They did tend to top from the bottom allot too.. So I'll have to think very hard, and 3 times before I would ever take on another switch. Because of what My experiances are. So why not write Yourself as a Dominant, and tell the once whom You want to let them know You're a switch? Also because it seems that loads don't take you seriously. Maybe that's an option. I wish You enough & a Merry Xmas Warm Greetingz GoddezzT`
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