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Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 8:28:11 AM   
pr5sa1


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Hi,

I am potentially considering Kaylana for my slave.  I would like to give her an OL collar first.  Is there any advise anyone can give me on how to do this.  I will be seeing her in 2 weeks in person.  But I would still would like to pursue an OL collar for her.

I am open to any advice,

Thank you.
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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 8:40:15 AM   
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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 8:42:39 AM   
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Most of us dont put any stock in online collars. If it makes you happy, then do it. It only cosists of telling her "Ok, your collared, say so in your profile".  There is no online collaring rituals, and no real significance to it other than what it means to you. Most of us view it as a velcro collar which can be given and taken away very easily. 

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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 8:46:50 AM   
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It's fake not real and means nothing IMHO.  Until you have meet the person in real life and spent some time with them, a collar of any type is out of the question.

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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 8:50:34 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: pr5sa1

Hi,

I am potentially considering Kaylana for my slave.  I would like to give her an OL collar first.  Is there any advise anyone can give me on how to do this.  I will be seeing her in 2 weeks in person.  But I would still would like to pursue an OL collar for her.

I am open to any advice,

Thank you.



Why?

What does a collar mean to you?

Would you marry someone you had not spent a great deal of time with?

Personally, I take both very seriously. I am never going to get married again and I have no idea if any woman will ever be able to stick it out long enough to earn a collar.




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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 8:51:11 AM   
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A week ago you said this:
Right now I do have a slave that does not know if she if she wants to be a slave or sub.  She has a collar and I have meet her master, but have not played out anything with her yet.  She also has a vanilla.  I just need a slave or subs advice on what to do with her.  Keep in mind she is "Owned"


So what's the real deal here?

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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 8:51:53 AM   
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Oh lord have mercy.

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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 9:00:37 AM   
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OH wait, this is that guy, isnt it?



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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 9:24:38 AM   
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Is there any male doms that can give me their point of view?

A fem Doms POV is really different, and while I thank them for there advice I am looking for a male masters response.

Thnk you.

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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 9:31:10 AM   
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A females point of view isnt much fdifferent. You just arent heading what you want to  hear.
SirMike is male, and he told you the sae thing we females are... online is a fake collar.


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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 9:38:44 AM   
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Greetings All/all,

It seems to Me "on-line collar" is an oxymoron.

Besides, if she really IS Owned already, then:
1) she already wears her Master's collar, and
2) her Master would not want someone else's collar on His slave!

So, My advice has to be: Get the slave, THEN get the collar. [Kind of obvious, but...]

The weirdness here is reaching political proportions.

Sincerely,
Master Dave




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< Message edited by SlaveOwnerDave -- 6/27/2008 9:51:34 AM >


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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 9:41:58 AM   
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A Dominant is a Dominant, regardless of gender. What you are looking for is someone to validate your online collaring. Many here do not do online collarings and have personal preferences for real time collars only. People I have known online that have done online collarings have done it anywhere from "here, bitch, your collar" in a text message to elaborate, flowery online ceremonies in chat rooms. Reality? There was no real collar unless the girl went out and bought herself one or the dom sent her one (very rare - I've never seen that actually happen...)

So, since you have asked for specifically MALE dominants in an online situation, have you thought about perhaps asking in the Gor forums? In all sarcasm, I'm a lowly female submissive who used to be a Domme.....   What would I know since I don't have dangly bits?

ETA - this is a  ~ FAST RESPONSE ~ to the OP and not DV.......


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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 9:56:14 AM   
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Online collars dont work....................... i met a dom once from New Zealand once. i live in Ireland... we talked twice a day on the phone ( Big big phone bills) Said He loved me ( yea yea) He did send me a gold chain as a promise and He flew all the way over here to Ireland.... Only to meet in person and say " oops no chemistry"

So no they dont work... How can they...

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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 9:59:38 AM   
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Two questions you should always ask prior to even considering giving a collar. Are you "the slave" owned in any way, shape, or form "given that some pagans consider a hand-over a type of marriage" by or to anyone? Second question. Are you "the slave' completely free from consideration or obligation to any other in any way, shape, or form. If you get any answer other than "no", BIG RED FLAG. The first question secures that they are not owned. The second question secures that they are not looking into being collared by anyone else. But then again, if you had invested the time most would into getting to know a sub/slave up to that point, you would know the answers to these question. And just because a sub isnt wearing a collar, or trying to shed the one they have right now, doesnt mean yours will stay on any longer than the last one.

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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 10:07:40 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterDragon1963

Two questions you should always ask prior to even considering giving a collar. Are you "the slave" owned in any way, shape, or form "given that some pagans consider a hand-over a type of marriage" by or to anyone?

Master Dragon


sorry the pagan in me has to respond, sorry for the 'jack: it's a hand-fasting, not a hand-over. and i'm not sure i see the connection between the two. you can be collared to one person and married to another.


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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 10:12:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterDragon1963
The first question secures that they are not owned. The second question secures that they are not looking into being collared by anyone else.
Master Dragon


He already knows she is owned and collared by someone else though. This whole thing is some wierd construct youd need to read a bunch of backstory for. She is someone elses slave he is collaring, and he want st do it online. And he isnt sure why we arent tossing tons of positive advice at him for it, it seems.


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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 11:54:55 AM   
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did you ask for her Master's permissoin if you could collar her ...again?

are you sure she's not confused whether or not she's slave or submissive?

why collar online if you're meeting her in 2 weeks?


curious mind wants to know....




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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 11:55:41 AM   
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Yes please read the whole story before answering this.  There are some on here that are reading nd responding but haven't read a response I had posted about that slave/sub.  I am sure it will become clearer to them not to spek without knowing the whole story first.  GO BACK AND READ MY RESPONSE FROM YESTERDAY.  Then give advise.

Thank you.

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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 11:59:50 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: pr5sa1
GO BACK AND READ MY RESPONSE FROM YESTERDAY.  Then give advise.

Thank you.





Don't need a backstory.  Get off the computer, find a local group and meet real people.

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RE: Putting an OL collar on a slave - 6/27/2008 12:02:41 PM   
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I find you a bit scary -- your posts rarely make any sense at all.

But I do note one or two people with penises showed up, so you have the same answers from them. 

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