CallaFirestormBW
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ORIGINAL: kolekorin Hey Everyone, I'm wondering why you are attracted to a d/s or polyamourous relationship. I decided to put this in health section because I consider this discussion to be along the lines of mental health. Questions: Were you raped, molested, beaten, raised in the lifestyle or had otherwise weird things happen to them growing up? Or is it your culture or background? My "damage" has nothing to do with my poly or my bdsm activities, as far as anyone can tell. I have always been poly -- my first romantic relationships were shared relationships. I have also always been dominant. Expression in BDSM didn't happen until I was able to hook in to the community (only because there -were- no groups like the munch groups, etc., that one could go to when I first recognized my interests). If you're interested in more of my story, you can find it in this thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_2049544/mpage_1/tm.htm CFB
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