Ialdabaoth
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Joined: 5/4/2008 From: Tempe, AZ Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: KneelforAnne For me, relocation is almost absolutely out of the question, as i have spent many years developing the career i have now--and i am at an awesome place in my life-- with only this one part missing! i don't really know if i am "set in my ways yet", but i want what i want...and not settling is key. i have worked hard to become who i am, and i think that settling for less than i need will make me end up resenting Him. (Perhaps?) Actually, this same process is going on with most 30-year-old Doms, too. For the most part, they're going to be in the middle of their careers/mortgages/marriages/child-rearing processes and be really, really loathe to change anything. I know I was somewhat of an exception to this rule, but as a result I just lost my 6-year-long 24/7 TPE live-in, my 3-year poly partner, and just about every aspect of my life I cared about - which, the more I think about it, is a good thing. Now I get to go back to college and perv over 18 year old freshmen girls! I finally get to legally date girls nearly half my age! ...ahem. Anyway. I guess the point is, where we are in our lives right now does somewhat skew the demographics. You may want to set your age range either higher or lower, as best fits your aesthetic. I know for me, all the mid twenty-somethings are generally in the middle of settling down with their first really long relationship, and don't want to fuck it up.
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