porcelain26
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ORIGINAL: Aszhrae How do you deal as a sub/slave with the emptiness inside you as a result of being ignored by your dominant, before it becomes depression? Also, would like to ask how you might deal with the anxiety that some times arises when you find our self concerned about the well-being of your dominant? I wish I could say that this wasn't an issue for me, but it is. I think the only thing that stops me from getting full on depressed is the knowledge that my Owner adores me. Regardless of how often I talk with Him. Regardless of how often He is around...I know He adores me; that He wants the best for me, and wants me to be happy. My Owner is gone a lot. I rarely get to speak to Him, especially lately, and it's very, very difficult. Quite frankly, it sucks,a nd I hate it. But I knew what I was signing up for. I knew what I was getting involved with. And despite everything, I know He is the One for me. I'm concerned about my Owner all the time. I think that's really the nature of being submissive and being owned. I worry about His happiness, about His comfort, about His peace of mind...about everything. My top priority is making sure that He feels happy and satisfied, and I worry about those things on a daily basis. However, to keep myself sane, I remind myself daily that He is a grown man. He is fully capable of making Himself happy. He is fully capable of taking care of His own needs. And He is fully capable of telling me what He needs from me to help insure His satisfaction. Master doesn't want me to fail at pleasing Him. He wants me to be happy also; keeping that in mind, it's much easier to realize that He's going to want to give me all the tools I needs to make sure that I'm serving Him in the best way that I possibly can. I'm sorry if this is rambling and incoherent....I'm incrediblhy intoxicated from New Years!!! I hope yours was great!!!!!!!
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