PeonForHer
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Why do men see performing simple tasks for a woman as humiliating? Lateralist, My first reaction to that question is, "what does it matter, so long as he enjoys the humiliating feeling?" The flip side of such a question, for me, would be, "Why does a woman feel powerful and in control if she does X or Y to me, or orders me to do X or Y for her?" It'd be fascinating to find out, but ultimately, I've concluded, such questions don't matter for my own purposes. Another, admittedly half-formed thought I have on this relates to that word "humiliation". It's changed, of course, over the years. I'm not at-all suggesting that anyone see their D/s relationship in terms of God(dess)/worshipper - but there was (and still is, in a religious context) a much deeper sense of the word "humility" than is commonly used in the context of BDSM. I have a feeling that other sense of the word 'humility' is worth investigating especially, as seems to be the case with you, that D/s relationships imply something somewhat deeper and more embracing than is usual.
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