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RE: Looks and weight - 3/9/2009 9:35:26 PM   
ApathyRomance


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Looks matter too.

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RE: Looks and weight - 3/9/2009 9:54:16 PM   
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RE: Looks and weight - 3/9/2009 11:32:32 PM   
SailingBum


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RE: Looks and weight - 3/14/2009 1:55:53 AM   
babygurlrides


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Great tits and a hot ass is all i need.


Even that is open to interpretation! I hate my arse... I think its huge and looks like a package of dry curd cottage cheese! However, my Daddy loves it, and actually gets aroused whenever he sees it. Go figure!

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RE: Looks and weight - 3/14/2009 11:56:21 AM   
apple2


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ORIGINAL: MARAA

Hello, i would like to ask you about weight and looks. How important is looks and weight for you?
What are you looking after,if any particular?
"The stereotype" girl with long hair, small or not so big body and angelface how important is that?
How many of you would accept larger women? or opposite?
How much do you also look for the inside?
Thank you


My partner has a saying "I try to see people for who they are- that is their beauty". I agree with her.

Attractiveness has little to do with physical appearance, and everything to do with physical appearance. Which is to say that some people are *hot* and some people are not (but another person's eyes will produce another conclusion).

For us, it's not about size, but being clean, well groomed, and generally caring for yourself and smelling nice will go a long way. Combine that with a compatible personality- and the sparks fly.

We think that in general, people have two choices regarding stigmatized issues (such as weight). A person must either accept and embrace who/what they are, or seek to change themselves into what they want to be. This is personal work- and most likely not something to be worked out in a relationship (although we've seen it done).

Our experience: People we've met over the years seem to care more about this issue than we do, because they are struggling with accepting themselves or making the decision to change.

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RE: Looks and weight - 3/14/2009 1:52:05 PM   
sblady


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Status: offline 		Beauty is certainly in the eye of the beholder.  So are body types. 

I met my Sir online, however, as I was seeking friends only, that's all we were.  We'd exchanged pictures, had great chats and then he invited me to lunch.  When I met him in person, the same "chemistry" we had online was prevalent.  I was totally at ease with him and had none of the first meet jitters as we were only "friends".

I was surprised and a bit thrown off when later that evening he expressed interest in a relationship.  I'd always gone for big, burly guys who could make me feel petite as I'm not a small lady (not huge, but not small either).  I outweigh him, however, my weight obviously doesn't bother him.  He knows I strive to be healthy regardless of a few medical issues.....none of these issues are caused by being overweight.  We've been together over a year (if you don't count that month or two when I lost my mind a bit). 

I shared my little tale to tell you to be true to yourself.  Don't let anyone negatively affect your self-esteem.  Don't accept just "anyone" into your life because you're grateful for acceptance. Whatever you perceive to be an "issue" or if there are things you dislike about you, change them for "yourself".  

As I stated on another site, people are often judged by looks.  I wonder how many people hooked up with a drop dead gorgeous, hwp person who turned into psycho babe/hunk when they really got to know them? 


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RE: Looks and weight - 3/14/2009 7:06:12 PM   
servantheart


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ORIGINAL: apple2

quote:

ORIGINAL: MARAA

Hello, i would like to ask you about weight and looks. How important is looks and weight for you?
What are you looking after,if any particular?
"The stereotype" girl with long hair, small or not so big body and angelface how important is that?
How many of you would accept larger women? or opposite?
How much do you also look for the inside?
Thank you


My partner has a saying "I try to see people for who they are- that is their beauty". I agree with her.

Attractiveness has little to do with physical appearance, and everything to do with physical appearance. Which is to say that some people are *hot* and some people are not (but another person's eyes will produce another conclusion).

For us, it's not about size, but being clean, well groomed, and generally caring for yourself and smelling nice will go a long way. Combine that with a compatible personality- and the sparks fly.

We think that in general, people have two choices regarding stigmatized issues (such as weight). A person must either accept and embrace who/what they are, or seek to change themselves into what they want to be. This is personal work- and most likely not something to be worked out in a relationship (although we've seen it done).

Our experience: People we've met over the years seem to care more about this issue than we do, because they are struggling with accepting themselves or making the decision to change.



Exactly.

Nothing wrong with appreciating beauty/good looks, but these do not sustain a relationship.  Definitely have to second the part about hygiene!  Wouldn't do to have folks' eyes watering before they even lay eyes on 'em


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RE: Looks and weight - 3/15/2009 5:53:20 PM   
Sir Daddy


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ORIGINAL: MARAA

Hello, i would like to ask you about weight and looks. How important is looks and weight for you?
What are you looking after,if any particular?
"The stereotype" girl with long hair, small or not so big body and angelface how important is that?
How many of you would accept larger women? or opposite?
How much do you also look for the inside?
Thank you


I have lots of preferences and some hard standards when it comes to both personality and physical characteristics.  For instance, I have a preference for smaller breasted women. I don't particularly like large breasts.  But I can tolerate large breasts on the right person if they have enough other qualities to my liking.  That's a preference, not a standard.  I have a standard when it comes to excessive body fat.  I have nothing against BBW personally...they're just not for me.  It's more than just not being attracted to them.  Excessive body fat turns me off...to the point that precludes the possibility of sexual arousal.  That's a standard.

For an example of a personality standard - I don't do republicans or religious zealots.  I'm not domming them 24/7..and I have to find conversing with them tolerable. =)



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RE: Looks and weight - 3/15/2009 8:43:35 PM   
asianchloe


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ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom
I will take a less attractive, dare I say ugly, woman with a great mind over a smoking hot bimbo any day.


I would too, but I'd have sex with the smoking hot bimbo! 


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RE: Looks and weight - 3/15/2009 9:43:15 PM   
ChelseaNY


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Status: offline 		Oh yayyyy i love this topic ! lol

Being a big gurl i can seriously see both sides of this.  I am comfortable with myself, I am secure and confident, and i am one sexy bitch.  But not all men are attracted to a big gurl, eh so be it.  Well all have our personal preferences and i would not call someone shallow because they preferred thinner people.  I love men, almost all shapes and sizes, skinny to husky.  However i find 2 um large people might have some issues with certain positions or penetration, so this can cause a problem.  So even tho i am a BIG gurl, i tend to not go for guys who are rather large themselves.  Husky yes, i have to admit a little paunch can be very sexy on a guy.  As far as looks, eh i don't judge right away on how a guy looks, and i probably have some rather eclectic tastes when it comes to looks, so the normal handsome is not always the one i would go for anyway. 

No one should feel shallow or conceited or whatever just because they have a preference.

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RE: Looks and weight - 3/15/2009 9:55:49 PM   
masterlink65


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Status: offline 		it is one of the first things i look for in a slave.

i like him to be in his 50's or older. slave should also be somewhat overweight but not too obese. and trainable.

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RE: Looks and weight - 3/16/2009 1:04:17 PM   
ChelseaNY


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ORIGINAL: asianchloe

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ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom
I will take a less attractive, dare I say ugly, woman with a great mind over a smoking hot bimbo any day.


I would too, but I'd have sex with the smoking hot bimbo! 




LOL I like the way you think Chloe :) no sense in turning down the hottie just to take a higher moral ground.  At least not if you are single.

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RE: Looks and weight - 3/16/2009 5:35:23 PM   
greeneyedreamer


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Status: offline 		Cracks me up.. it's all in the chemistry... I wouldn't find a guy with long hair hot, like he wouldn't find me hot it's just the way life is.. CHEMISTRY!


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RE: Looks and weight - 3/16/2009 7:00:11 PM   
asianchloe


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Status: offline 		Ugly people with great minds have great potential...as friends!  There's no rule that says we must have sex with people we find physically unnattractive just as there is no rule that says we need to discuss quantum physics with brainless beauties.  I would choose intellect over beauty, and moral character over intellect but I would absolutely not turn down a dumb hottie as long as she has a pleasing personality.

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RE: Looks and weight - 3/16/2009 7:02:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MARAA
Hello, i would like to ask you about weight and looks. How important is looks and weight for you?


I find less attractive women are easier to abuse, so I like them better.

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RE: Looks and weight - 3/16/2009 7:10:22 PM   
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RE: Looks and weight - 3/16/2009 7:26:06 PM   
Lordandmaster


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(Try measuring a woman's worth in Zimbabwean dollars!)

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ORIGINAL: jakelogan01

each woman is different, inside and outside. and what matters in her cannot be measured in pounds


< Message edited by Lordandmaster -- 3/16/2009 7:29:50 PM >

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RE: Looks and weight - 3/16/2009 9:18:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

ehhh  I'm  a Tit and Ass man myself.  Great tits and a hot ass is all i need.

BadOne



I am sure momma is proud.

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RE: Looks and weight - 3/16/2009 9:20:19 PM   
AsweAre


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ORIGINAL: Loxosceles

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ORIGINAL: MARAA
Hello, i would like to ask you about weight and looks. How important is looks and weight for you?


I find less attractive women are easier to abuse, so I like them better.


I find the challenge of tying down an attractive woman more entertaining.  At least all the ugly girls know who to message now.

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RE: Looks and weight - 3/16/2009 10:59:52 PM   
asianchloe


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ORIGINAL: Loxosceles

I find less attractive women are easier to abuse, so I like them better.



Why do you feel the need to abuse women? You do have low feelings of self-worth?

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