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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 6:03:53 AM

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Just like all women should find the 5'6", 130 pound guy hot and sexy, right?

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 7:47:16 AM

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everyone has there own personal preferences! what bothers me is in my case the men ..that obviously do not take care of their selves physically have the nerve to make woman fell bad for our imperfections...so look in the mirror before you set your expectations!
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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 7:49:34 AM

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Just like all women should find the 5'6", 130 pound guy hot and sexy, right?

Orion, we don't often agree but I SO agree here!

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 8:00:47 AM

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Exactly.

How many times have we seen threads where the women wax poetic about wanting their big burly men that can "wrap me in his big strong arms, toss me around, make me feel all safe and protected, over power me"......yada yada yada, puke puke puke.

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 8:08:27 AM

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I can say I have a preference in men, being taller than me, muscular, the type who can throw me around. Physically, that would be my ideal. However, I never ruled anyone out because of them not meeting this criteria. I actually don't like blond men either. But that doesnt mean I wouldn't consider one. I have submitted to One who was 2 inches shorter than me and probably at least 30 pounds lighter. He was the exact opposite of what I would define as my ideal. But I lusted for him just fine. And I actually am pretty particular. I like to have an open mind and look for the proper balance of attraction and intelligence.

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 9:20:02 AM

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Yes, it IS okay with preferences-for sounding like a damn parrot- but I dont think,if you dont do anything out of yourself, that will say do the best with what you have got and then go and absolutely demand a totally perfect barbie or ken, that is in my eyes totally skew. And out of balance. sometimes,looking through profiles and you see ppl with sky high demands,and do they live up to them themselves? hell no,they just let them self go. fine,if thats what you want but then you also have the odds against you. and like its been said you dont know if you actually will turn on that person anyway,despite they might not answer your perfect standards.

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 9:22:15 AM

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I once knew a man in his 40íes, never married,no kids, no sexual experience,looking like shit,short said he did. But he was the most sweetest kindest man, but he rejected all girls that didnt fit into his barbie ideal. sad,dont you think. He ended up with a mailorderbride from russia that screwed him for money. all because of his skewed standards.

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 9:48:08 AM

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I think it's perfectly fine to be attracted to someone for whatever reason you have. I also think it's good to keep your mind open that the one for you might not be in the body you have pictured.

My M isn't like most I dated before him. He is right around my height, with a smaller build. I can tell you honestly though, when he wraps me in his arms..I feel every bit as safe as I would if he were 100lbs more, with biceps the size of logs.

I could have just passed him by, but there was something there I was able to see beyond that.

I don't judge anyone for liking what they like though, that's pretty much just a human thing to do.

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 10:02:40 AM

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Uh, I like women who are brunettes with long hair, exactly 5'7" in height, and weigh 125-135 lbs. Conveniently enough for me, that would exactly describe Carol.

Heh, given the nature of what I look for in a submissive though, that description other than the height part, would match any woman I got involved with after about a year or so. Honestly, almost any woman who submitted to me as thoroughly as Carol has would automatically look very nice to me... blank canvas and all that. How could I not like the results of my own painting?

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 10:44:24 AM

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You should probably look inward and find out why. Seems that there being those that prefer smaller and petite, has hit some kind of nerve in you.

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Yes, it IS okay with preferences-for sounding like a damn parrot-

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 11:09:37 AM

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I have a term for women who's company I enjoy without being physically attracted to them. I call them my "friends".

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 11:31:26 AM

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Hey you, back off the salad hating, some salads are REALLY tasty, and I'd order one of those kind any time.

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I love a woman that I can take out to a good dinner and know that it wont be wasted by her ordering a salad :)
I truly adore almost all sizes and shapes of women, that is just the way I am

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 11:37:22 AM

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I perfer women.

As to the Height and Weight. Eh... Not that big an issue.

I have been with girls who were bones and skin and I have been with ..... women of Great Size.

They all have positives and Negatives.

I have seen women beyond beautiful who were pushing 250 and 300 pounds.

I have seen people look at Models who they drool and masturbate over and thought they were grotesque.

As long as I am attracted to them who the fuck cares what anyone else thinks.

If anyone is actually confused how someone can find a heavy person attractive they need to address the issue with themselves. Because there is no way to explain attraction.

If you ever watch Eli Stone. I like the Black Secretary she is a Heavy woman and I would do some nasty things to that woman. God is she sexy.

But there is no Archetype to what I find attractive.

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 11:38:27 AM

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That's fine, but are you as good natured about being rejected because you're not HER idea of attraction? I bet you are, but not all guys are. Some really have a problem with if he can reject her for not being his ideal SHE can reject him for the same reasons:)

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 11:47:20 AM

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I would quite happily take your money and then tell you I felt like shit every time I went to the gym . I did. I was going 3 times a week( sometimes more) Pysichally I looked beat red tired out of breath like I was going to pass out any minute now, and I never felt fantastic after leaving. I felt tired and crappy and ran down and my feet swelled from being on them so long, and then I was one big ball of walking PAIN. everything hurt my legs my knee's my feet my ankles my joints, And nothing would touch that pain, no amount of pain killers or anti inflammatory or nothing would help.

Not only that but those stupid full length mirrors to me just emphasized how stupid and dowdy, you looked in your outfit to go to the gym.

And for some people, I never had this problem but for some, being a fatty in a gym makes them feel worse about themselves, and more self contious, because of all the thin and slender and perfectly in shape people, and Why would you want to go some place where EVERYONE but YOU is in perfect shape?

Now I will admit maybe things would be diffrent for me if I was different, but I NEVER enjoyed the gym and never came out feeling fantastic.

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30 mins - 1 hour in the gym 2 or 3 times a week is not that hard, and I will put money on it that it will make you feel fantastic.

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 11:57:24 AM

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So based on your theory my outer shell and my weight, would it tell you I am a fun loving easy going , down to earth, sweet kind loyal, devoted, honest, have a huge sense of integrity, am an animal lover, am an inner child, am a Daddies girl, and I would bend over backwards and turn inside out to make you happy, and if it was in my powers to do so would do anything to make you happy( you being the general you, not you the LD86* That I cry at sad movies, and I am naive in thinking the world should be fair, and that I am idealistic

No I don't think it would.

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"Looks" in and of themselves are quite empty to me. Having said that, however, one's state of health and well-being says volumes about who a person is inside, and for that reason I do not find myself drawn to women who have let their weight get out of hand. Not for the shallow, physical reason, but for the reflection it makes on the mind and heart. We need to take care of ourselves before being a part of someone else's life. Though I completely respect and appreciate the differing tastes out there.

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 12:10:54 PM

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"Looks" in and of themselves are quite empty to me. Having said that, however, one's state of health and well-being says volumes about who a person is inside, and for that reason I do not find myself drawn to women who have let their weight get out of hand. Not for the shallow, physical reason, but for the reflection it makes on the mind and heart. We need to take care of ourselves before being a part of someone else's life. Though I completely respect and appreciate the differing tastes out there.

i tend to feel this way as well

ETA...but it is not weight alone that speaks of health and self esteem...it is also the way the person presents themselves. Have they taken care with the way they look (and i do not mean a designer wardrobe, etc)? Neat, clean, head held high, a smile, etc. It all matters.

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 12:13:56 PM

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I prefer slender and/or petite women, but in general believe that weight should be proportional. Although myself and so many others are criticized becuase we are not attracted to obese women, please bear in mind that everyone has preferences. Let us admire who we want!

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 2:01:57 PM

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Hello, i would like to ask you about weight and looks. How important is looks and weight for you?
What are you looking after,if any particular?
"The stereotype" girl with long hair, small or not so big body and angelface how important is that?
How many of you would accept larger women? or opposite?
How much do you also look for the inside?
Thank you

I suppose, when it comes to looks, I'm what most people woud call "shallow". I have reasons that I use to justify this to myself, but we all know how far that goes in public.

I need someone that will look good (to me) in the sort of outfits I design. I need someone who will be capable of pulling off some of the weirder physical stunts and scenes I come up with. I need someone who will turn heads, both in the community and out.

Basically, I need someone that I KNOW other people want. A good deal of my kink involves putting on a good show, so what I need are good performers, which includes having "the look". I sometimes wonder if I'm looking for a romantic partner or holding auditions for an in-progress theatrical production of my life.

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RE: Looks and weight - 6/25/2009 2:18:49 PM

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