SteelofUtah
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Joined: 10/2/2007 From: St George Utah Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 You handled that improperly. You should have called authorities. Or better yet, get him to stop hitting her without resorting to the same tactics as him . Its sad when what you mention happens but I dont think the rest of the women should be unprotected because you ar no longer willing to get involved. I hope if you saw something happen to me you woud step in and deem me worthy to save. No Cell Phone, Girl is Screaming Bloody Murder, No Pay Phone in Sight. I did what I thought would stop the problem. For it I got Scratched and bitten but the woman who was scared I was going to hurt the man who a few minutes earlier was ramming his finger in her face and had her by the throat and balling his fist like he was hitting her. In the Police Report she addmitted that they were having an Argument but that he never touched her and that the only damage she sustained was from her falling down with I put the guy in a Headlock and Wrestled him to the ground and ramming my Forarm into his throat missing the first time and giving him a bloody nose with my elbow. How about this one from last month. I Called the authorities on a Neighbor who likes to beat his wife and the police officer who came to find out what the matter was TOLD the guy that I had called them, Even though I did not give a name or my address. The guy came down and confronted me and my wife about calling the cops on him. He took a swing at me and again wrestled him to the ground his wife called the police and when they came and took he statement I started the fight and I got a trip to the police department and the police asked me to "Find another place to go for the night, so as not to cause any more aggrevation" The Manager got wind and evicted the couple in question and so he is no longer a problem. When I have tried to talk to women about their abusive partners I am the bad guy for speaking ill of the person they love. Seriously I am done playing Captain Save-A-Hoe, Just done. The reward has NEVER been worth the effort. NEVER! Lushy, if you were in an abusive relationship (Which I want to believe you are too smart to ever let happen) I would tell you how I felt and if you choose to remain with that person then I would start to fade into the back ground. I won't stand around and WATCH you be abused, but once I have told you how I feel I will leave it to you as an adult to find the right path. If you were with someone in a Kink Club and you were having a problem if your eyes met mine and I saw that you were afraid I would ask "Lush are you okay, is it too much?" and then I would expect you to do the right thing. If you said "I'm Fine" then I did my part you didn't do yours. If someone is Suffering from Cat Calls, Get a Thicker Skin, If you know my wife is Cheating on me, keep your fucking mouth shut as far as I am concerned, There may be a reason I don't know, like maybe I don't want to know. Anyone who cheats is a worthless excuse for a human being but just because they are worthless doesn't mean that the person they are with doesn't think the world of them and who am I to destroy that fantasy for them. I have told friends after the fact that I knew and for how long and I explain to them that it wasn't my place to tell them and that if I was able to figure it out and they weren't then there was a bigger problem in the relationship than that. Some of them understand some of them it ends the friendship. My Moral Compass tells me that getting involved in the drama is not worth the reward. It is not MY job to protect anyone, even andi, she is a big girl and she makes her own decisions and she knows that I expect her to deal with them. She is my slave and as such I take a little more notice to the things that are bothering her, but if she starts something I expect her to be a big enough girl to take care of it. Steel
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