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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:25:31 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

ok...i perved the op's profile.

Dude...you are 50? You sound like a whiny 18 yr old.


Oh good grief!!! I seriously thought we were talking to some stupid youngster still green behind the ears.

Grandma used to say you cannot argue with a drunk or stupid people. Now the only question that remains............which applies here?


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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:25:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Oh and lilboycaught.........you realize of course that this is just another variation on the same old whine don't you?

Hey LeeAnn....

If he is right and weal twue Dommes do not exist without charging...does this mean you are just a figment of my imagination?

LeeAnn?

yoohoo.......

LeeAnn????????


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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:27:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lilboycaught


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Actually, the male dominants don't ask for money because they wouldn't get it.....period. Female dominant profiles asking for money exist because men will pay.


Oh, you're certainly right there. But don't you see? Male dominants exist even though there is no money involved.

See? Which begs the question, would female dominants even exist without money?


You've already answered that question in your initial post! Quit your damned whining already.



For God's sake I'm NOT whining. You're wining. I asked a question. Is the female domination lifestyle a failure. Haven't had a single answer yet.



Why thank you. Though I didn't know it was any sort of competition.

And NO, given the large number of dominant women living this life, definitely not a failure. Except perhaps, for you.


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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:28:28 AM   
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Is the female domination lifestyle a failure. Haven't had a single answer yet.
Here ya go hun...

It is a failure for you cause you aren't getting laid (and your charming personality may be a factor in that)


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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:29:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lilboycaught

For God's sake I'm NOT whining. You're wining. I asked a question. Is the female domination lifestyle a failure. Haven't had a single answer yet.



Then you didn't read my response, which stated that if it failed you personally, that doesn't mean that it is a failure.  It does not exist solely for you.

OP, your contention is that because YOU are not able to find a Domme right away using YOUR searching techniques, you claim that the entire dynamic is a failure.  Personally, I'd change my searching strategy.

And just to give you perspective, I'm a Dom man looking for a sub woman and my search has been going on for about a year.


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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:30:46 AM   
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You know what's happening here? We have defensive women who, rather tha address my question, have taken offense to my post and have decided to insult me.

Absolutely pointless discussion about the OP.

Avoid the OP at all costs.

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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:31:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

Hey LeeAnn....

If he is right and weal twue Dommes do not exist without charging...does this mean you are just a figment of my imagination?

LeeAnn?

yoohoo.......

LeeAnn????????



For God's sake, holly, so you really expect her to answer you for free?!?!?!


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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:32:04 AM   
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Perhaps next time you wish to whine about your failures, do a search through recent threads. You will find alllllllllllll the answers to the universe hidden within.

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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:32:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lilboycaught

You know what's happening here? We have defensive women who, rather tha address my question, have taken offense to my post and have decided to insult me.

Absolutely pointless discussion about the OP.

Avoid the OP at all costs.


Am I chopped liver?  I posted two responses to you directly, and you have ignored both.  I even threw in two digs at holly for free.


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:33:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lilboycaught

You know what's happening here? We have defensive women who, rather tha address my question, have taken offense to my post and have decided to insult me.

Absolutely pointless discussion about the OP.

Avoid the OP at all costs.
your question WAS answered...just not the way you wanted.


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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:34:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Oh and lilboycaught.........you realize of course that this is just another variation on the same old whine don't you?

Hey LeeAnn....

If he is right and weal twue Dommes do not exist without charging...does this mean you are just a figment of my imagination?

LeeAnn?

yoohoo.......

LeeAnn????????



Yessssssssssssssssss?

(that will be $ 99.99 please)


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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:34:33 AM   
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Perhaps because you don't pay attention to the answers given?

Ironic but as a male dominant, I know a lot of femdominants that don't expect nor ask for tribute.  They are seeking a LTR with a submissive.  Now, if I can find and know these women...and they don't want me because I am not what they seek but are still friends with me... why can't you?

So...to answer your original question, I believe I just did...even while sitting here laughing at the idea of holly being a dominant (chokes, coughs).  The lifestyle of a femdominant/male submissive isn't dying out.  However, if you choose to put your own, very narrowly-defined parameter of "tribute" on it while not taking the time to read what I or others have had to say about the differing forms of tribute nor take the time to suck it up and do the work of finding them, then yes...for you, it is dying out.

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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:37:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: lilboycaught

You know what's happening here? We have defensive women who, rather tha address my question, have taken offense to my post and have decided to insult me.

Absolutely pointless discussion about the OP.

Avoid the OP at all costs.


Am I chopped liver?  I posted two responses to you directly, and you have ignored both.  I even threw in two digs at holly for free.

Hey Liverwurst....if you charged for every dig at me you would be terribly wealthy


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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:38:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lilboycaught

You know what's happening here? We have defensive women who, rather tha address my question, have taken offense to my post and have decided to insult me.

Absolutely pointless discussion about the OP.

Avoid the OP at all costs.


Yes, all right, I'll answer your question.  Lifestyle dominas exist.  I'm one of them.  And you know what?  I closed my account on the CM main site yesterday, because I'm sick to death of sad-assed, whiny men like you.  How do you like that answer?

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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:39:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Perhaps next time you wish to whine about your failures, do a search through recent threads. You will find alllllllllllll the answers to the universe hidden within.


Look, I'm sorry. I'm everything you said. I'm whiny. I'm juvenile. Any other adjective you want. Any other label, any other insult, any other ridicule, any other distortion...they're all true.

Look, I didn't really want intelligent discussion. The reason I wrote the post was actually to see if anyone could figure out whether I was whining juvenile asshole. And some of you guys did. You incisiveness amazes me. You figured out the post was BS, so was I, so was everything I said.

And I'm glad nobody was on the defensive.

I gotta go to work.

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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:40:45 AM   
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.even while sitting here laughing at the idea of holly being a dominant (chokes, coughs).
oh CEEDEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!! Cum here, Sweetie...and bring yer wallet

(seriously...i owe LaT a c note and i do NOT want her pissed at me!)

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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:41:24 AM   
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Dammit Holly, LaT, Steven, Creative,
ya took all the good answers



manxy





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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:41:42 AM   
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Hey Liverwurst....if you charged for every dig at me you would be terribly wealthy



But that would cheapen the special relationship we have.  Besides, someone would go through all the holly-digging posts and conclude that since the majority of the digs were for monetary gain, that insulting holly wasn't a true part of this lifestyle.

And just think of how pissed off rain would get if she found out that I got paid twice as much per dig as she did.  Mine would be worth more than hers, of course.

< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 8/17/2009 7:42:44 AM >


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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:42:48 AM   
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The reason I wrote the post was actually to see if anyone could figure out whether I was whining juvenile asshole.
it was not much of a challenge 

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RE: Is the Female Domination Lifestyle a Failure? - 8/17/2009 7:43:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

Hey Liverwurst....if you charged for every dig at me you would be terribly wealthy



But that would cheapen the special relationship we have.  Besides, someone would go through all the holly-digging posts and conclude that since the majority of the digs were for monetary gain, that insulting holly wasn't a true part of this lifestyle.

And just think of how pissed off rain would get if she found out that I got paid twice as much per dig as she did.  Mine would be worth more than hers, of course.


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