NearlyAcquiesced
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Joined: 1/21/2009 Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex It is, in fact, very hard to find partners, and yes, we are all frustrated at times; Submissive women find their email boxes clogged with a thousand cock pics, one word emails ("Hi!"), or rambling posts from weirdos who seem to be auditioning for the next Saw movie. Dominant Men scan in vain for women who are not emotionally damaged, petulant brats, or couch potatoes looking for a free ride. And of course, "send me money for the priviledge of my services" is not a new profession. The Op and Tigresse make pretty much the same point- that women charge money for what men want, regardless of the orientation, for no other reason than they can. Sorry, you have to argue with God about that; it has been this way since time began. Despite all that negativity- despite the odds, there ARE good people to be found, and the only way to deal with it is to acknowledge that we are all looking for the needle in a field of haystacks. As a submissive, I was entrenched with emails from older men who wanted to display how wealthy they were, as well. They would boast about their home, their cars, how much they travel and "wouldn't I just LOVE to have that lifestyle?". I felt like they were trying to "pay" me to be their sub. Yuck. At some point I changed my profile (my other profile) to Domme, and was clear it was all about the money. It was a joke.. my inbox was full AGAIN. Eventually I decided to just go with it, put up the rules, (I don't do tributes, no illegal, I did real life sessions) and things went pretty well. I still weeded the whiners (and crazy people) out because I don't have to to even be PAID for that nonsense, but the market is there, they aren't decieved, and it's win/win. As far as lifestyle Dommes being on the site? With the supply and demand, maybe there's just no need for many of them to put up a profile. quote:
ORIGINAL: lilboycaught If this, what we have now, is what it’s supposed to be, then it’s obvious that female domination is vastly inferior to male domination. Men seek a person and a relationship. Women mostly just want money. And this is why you can't find a Dominant woman that fits *your* needs (amused). You are clueless. Have you tried other outlets such as.. oh, I don't know.. local bdsm events?
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