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Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 4:59:06 AM

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This is really a question for sub/slave females, though the thread is obviously open to all.

How would you feel about your Dominant/Master being bi ?

Would you not get involved if you read that he was bi on his profile?

Would it make a difference to your relationship if you were suddenly told he was bi?

Are there any females that ended a relationship after finding there partner was bi?

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 5:00:16 AM

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Straight male only. Bi is an absolute hard limit.

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 5:07:46 AM

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I think a lot of women find this abhorrent. I was chatting to a sub fem friend at the weekend who is incredibly diverse and yet she said the thought of a male bi Dominant was abhorrent to her.

Perhaps I should of also asked the question...... if this is a hard limit.... why?

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 5:08:18 AM

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I'd have to agree. There is absolutely nothing wrong with men being bi at all, it's just something that doesn't appeal to me personally. Therefore, no I would not be in a relationship with a bi male............luci

Edit: Just read the OP's second post asking "why:" I really can't explain that anymore than anyone else can explain their "hardwired" preferences nor should anyone really have to. It's just a very strong preference that I would say stems from the fact that two men having sex does nothing to turn me on in any way. It probably comes from that

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 5:13:49 AM

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I wouldn't have a problem with it provided he filled the other criterior on my profile.

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

This is really a question for sub/slave females, though the thread is obviously open to all.

How would you feel about your Dominant/Master being bi ?

Would you not get involved if you read that he was bi on his profile?

Would it make a difference to your relationship if you were suddenly told he was bi?

Are there any females that ended a relationship after finding there partner was bi?

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 5:56:08 AM

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I'd have to agree. There is absolutely nothing wrong with men being bi at all, it's just something that doesn't appeal to me personally. Therefore, no I would not be in a relationship with a bi male............luci

Edit: Just read the OP's second post asking "why:" I really can't explain that anymore than anyone else can explain their "hardwired" preferences nor should anyone really have to. It's just a very strong preference that I would say stems from the fact that two men having sex does nothing to turn me on in any way. It probably comes from that

luci

I know what you mean about the 'hardwired' part. I for example would find it hard to explain why I wouldn't/couldn't pick a partner that was into age play other than its just not a turn on to me.

I have to add that I am extremely turned on by power exchange between two bi or gay men.... though my preference is always towards the Dominant of those two men. I have had a few opportunities to watch a male Dominant with a male submissive and its hugely powerful and much more ruthless than anything I have ever witnessed with a male and female.

goes away drooling

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 6:16:27 AM

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...two men having sex does nothing to turn me on in any way.

To each his own but you would have no right to complain after being called hypocrite if you would be bisexual yourself and share this view. It reminds me of submissive females who insist upon being lend out when having poly masters as a hard limit.

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 6:21:09 AM

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...two men having sex does nothing to turn me on in any way.

To each his own but you would have no right to complain after being called hypocrite if you would be bisexual yourself and share this view. It reminds me of submissive females who insist upon being lend out when having poly masters as a hard limit.

I disagree. There is many out there like her. Im one of them. I support your need to be bisexual and you and I could be great friends. However, you would be out of who I would consider as I dont think of bisexuality as dominant and I just dont want a bi guy. Now you may feel I am wrong, but I have a right to my preferances just as you have a right to be attracted to anyone you want. I would in no way impede you of living your dreams or deny you your rights to it. But I will not be labeled a hypocrite just as i should not be labeled one for likeing men with blue eyes if I have brown eyes.

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 6:22:03 AM

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It's a hard limit because his dick in another guy is the biggest turn off in my mind ever.

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 6:22:47 AM

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A dominant being bi or having bi experiences is a non issue to me. Monogamy however, is a deal breaker.

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 6:30:18 AM

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A dominant being bi or having bi experiences is a non issue to me. Monogamy however, is a deal breaker.

the.dark.

Waves to the.dark :)

and agrees. It all has to be upfront.... out in the open without being alfresco!

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 6:44:52 AM

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There are two aspects to this. One is whether the idea of hi with another man squicks you out or not. The other is, if you yourself are female and he's bi, will that mean he will need a man as well, and create a poly situation?

Eigenaar, your post is confusing to me. I know of some poly families - straight Dom man, and two bi women under him. I wouldn't call those women hypocrites.

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 6:59:36 AM

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There are two aspects to this. One is whether the idea of hi with another man squicks you out or not. The other is, if you yourself are female and he's bi, will that mean he will need a man as well, and create a poly situation?

Eigenaar, your post is confusing to me. I know of some poly families - straight Dom man, and two bi women under him. I wouldn't call those women hypocrites.

You did not read my post right. It does not say a thing about the situation you describe.

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 7:01:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

...two men having sex does nothing to turn me on in any way.

To each his own but you would have no right to complain after being called hypocrite if you would be bisexual yourself and share this view. It reminds me of submissive females who insist upon being lend out when having poly masters as a hard limit.

I disagree. There is many out there like her. Im one of them. I support your need to be bisexual and you and I could be great friends. However, you would be out of who I would consider as I dont think of bisexuality as dominant and I just dont want a bi guy. Now you may feel I am wrong, but I have a right to my preferances just as you have a right to be attracted to anyone you want. I would in no way impede you of living your dreams or deny you your rights to it. But I will not be labeled a hypocrite just as i should not be labeled one for likeing men with blue eyes if I have brown eyes.

I never even suggested you have no right to your preferences, like I said ''to each his own'', but this does not mean you are not hypocrite. You are even biased since I did not mention being bisexual myself, yet you would not consider me for being this (bisexual).

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 7:17:10 AM

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...How would you feel about your Dominant/Master being bi ?...

happy for Him.

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...Would you not get involved if you read that he was bi on his profile?...

it would not be a deal-breaker.

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...Would it make a difference to your relationship if you were suddenly told he was bi?...

nope.

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...Are there any females that ended a relationship after finding there partner was bi?...

not this one.

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 7:48:36 AM

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I disagree. There is many out there like her. Im one of them. I support your need to be bisexual and you and I could be great friends. However, you would be out of who I would consider as I dont think of bisexuality as dominant and I just dont want a bi guy. Now you may feel I am wrong, but I have a right to my preferances just as you have a right to be attracted to anyone you want. I would in no way impede you of living your dreams or deny you your rights to it. But I will not be labeled a hypocrite just as i should not be labeled one for likeing men with blue eyes if I have brown eyes.

This kind of baffles me. Why would you be any less dominant for being bi or is it only bi men you feel this about?

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 8:19:52 AM

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If he's monogamous then yes - I don't submit to men but that's another story.

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 9:59:09 AM

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FR, after read thru

I prefer bisexual men.

(Oh. You probably wanna know some 'why' stuff, Maria -- giganto-generalizations to follow . . . . Um. Cannot stand homophobes & bi men are somewhat less likely to indulge in homophobia, in my experience . . .. . I think men-with-men is hot-hot-hot . . . . . . I'm bi & I feel more connected to other bi persons than I generally do to the strictly-straight types, especially in an intimate relationship . . . .. & I just don't get along as well with straight guys as I do with everyone else in the universe (again, more true of intimate relationships than more ordinary socializing) .... . )

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 10:20:42 AM

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Does it count if he once swatted the ass of a teammate who just made a touchdown? What if he experimented in college? Stranded on a desert isle?

Where do you draw the line?

If a man were to tell me he had experienced same sex contact at some point in his life, I would feel happy to know he trusted me enough to be open about this experience.

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RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? - 9/15/2009 10:27:07 AM

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Master is Bi.

The only reason I wouldn't consider dating someone because of their sexuality would be if they were gay.......as someone who is pansexual, it really makes no difference to me if they are bi or straight or f2m or m2f.....

We wont be dating if you dont want to put your tab into one of my slots....(no, dosent even matter if that tab is natural, or a strap on)

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