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RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? - 1/4/2010 7:33:53 AM

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Finally a easy question.Younger submissives or slaves are much more likely to be a blank canvas and can more easily be trained or molded to suit that Dom.Its unforchunate but far to many girls have been played abused phycially and mentally who have been in the lifestyle for say years and that is much harder to undo for a Dom who is trying to do it right.I hoped that helped.

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RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? - 1/4/2010 7:38:47 AM

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Finally a easy question.Younger submissives or slaves are much more likely to be a blank canvas and can more easily be trained or molded to suit that Dom.Its unforchunate but far to many girls have been played abused phycially and mentally who have been in the lifestyle for say years and that is much harder to undo for a Dom who is trying to do it right.I hoped that helped.

yes

plus the young ones bounce back more readly instead of breaking when you in a fit of romantic passion slap them to the floor

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RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? - 1/12/2010 11:47:40 PM

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It's rare for me to post, but I couldn't resist this one. I have recently turned 30 and I've noticed more than a few emails from men twice my age. The best was from a 75yr old. Oh dear. I had a horrible vision of him going into cardiac arrest upon meeting me. I also think that spanking would be bad for arthritus, put perhaps he could use a cane? When he isn't walking with it......LOL. A certain degree of age gap isn't very significant. A 27yr old and a 38yr old are equally appealing, really. However, I have a few points to make: 1. When I meet a man who is over 40 and has never been even close to married, I find it a bit alarming. 2. Older men are usually a bit rigid and set in their own ways, at least this has been my experience. 3. Many attractive "qualities" don't come with (and hopefully don't diminish) with age (Intelligence, humor, kindness). 4. "Baggage" is just as unsavory in a man. 5. Don't get me started on looks. There is no double standard in ageing. Lastly, I think the younger ones have a lot to offer from my experience. So there it is! One Sub who does NOT prefer older men.

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RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? - 1/13/2010 12:04:40 AM

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Finally a easy question.Younger submissives or slaves are much more likely to be a blank canvas and can more easily be trained or molded to suit that Dom.Its unforchunate but far to many girls have been played abused phycially and mentally who have been in the lifestyle for say years and that is much harder to undo for a Dom who is trying to do it right.I hoped that helped.

Funny, i would think it would make them MORE appreciative of someone trying to "do it right" But what do i know...i'm just an old s-type, so its harder for me to be trained, or molded(learn)

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RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? - 1/13/2010 7:24:53 AM

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Finally a easy question.Younger submissives or slaves are much more likely to be a blank canvas and can more easily be trained or molded to suit that Dom.Its unforchunate but far to many girls have been played abused phycially and mentally who have been in the lifestyle for say years and that is much harder to undo for a Dom who is trying to do it right.I hoped that helped.

Funny, i would think it would make them MORE appreciative of someone trying to "do it right" But what do i know...i'm just an old s-type, so its harder for me to be trained, or molded(learn)

As someone who's been through a few horrible relationships right out of the cage, i do appreciate my Daddy more.

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RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? - 1/13/2010 8:11:08 AM

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Finally a easy question.Younger submissives or slaves are much more likely to be a blank canvas and can more easily be trained or molded to suit that Dom.Its unforchunate but far to many girls have been played abused phycially and mentally who have been in the lifestyle for say years and that is much harder to undo for a Dom who is trying to do it right.I hoped that helped.

Funny, i would think it would make them MORE appreciative of someone trying to "do it right" But what do i know...i'm just an old s-type, so its harder for me to be trained, or molded(learn)

As someone who's been through a few horrible relationships right out of the cage, i do appreciate my Daddy more.

Yeah see, thats what i'm sayin....

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RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? - 1/13/2010 3:38:31 PM

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Well gotta say I aint shocked about the responses, us young innocent types are just so dumb and naive, we make easy targets seriously, it was just the other day this bloke walked up to me and told me he was brad pitt, now dont get me wrong I was dubious at first what with his ginger hair, pot belly and hump back but I aint seen all that much of the big bad world out there so I said "oh brad, I love you in fight club, please please let me suck your cock, I mean if good ol' ange won't mind, and she won't will she oddball that she is" we had three heaven filled nights together until I realised his name was barry and he worked behind the counter of my local garage.

Ok sarcasum aside, some people do think like that, age means all these things, but let me dispel a few illusions right here right now (at least until the next thread on this topic comes up) I have never in my live been firm and pert, I do not nor never will bend like a pretzel, I am exhausted half the time, so cynical it hurts and I sure as hell don't sit back and take shit from people. Most of the women in my life are the same, and many of the women in my life are younger than me. We are not all precious little flowers the only real true difference between me and someone who is 40 hanging off an older mans arm is perception, the men will clap the man on the back, the women will stare daggers at the woman.

As to the actual OP its for that reason, the perception and idea behind a younger woman that draws older men to them, it is the status symbol nothing more. It boosts their self worth, I mean this is a general sense, a bit like why do men like blonds. There are, have been and will continue to be relationships between younger and older people that are based on mutual attraction and respect, but to the outside world it is all of the above, and most of what the rest of posters in this thread said.

Rant over.

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RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? - 1/13/2010 4:10:54 PM

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I have read so many answers to this thread... and it made me reflect on a new friend in my life.

She and I are the same age. She married at 17 and her hubby was 40. She is now 41. She has chronic female problems and will not have sex with her hubby who is now 65. She has not been attracted to him through most of their marriage. She has his grown children and she wishes she could leave him, but she fears it would kill him to lose her as his health is not the greatest...

She feels guilty...

And when she related all of this to me my response was.... "where was his guilt for marrying a 17 year old when he was a middle aged man?"

You know, life is fairly complicated, and I do not pass judgment on people for ignoring age differences... lord knows I have had my own Spring/Fall romances when I was a younger version of myself. I have been asked out lately by a few young men, one only 18! I guess this cougar craze has caught on! I could never in a million years go for a very young man, especially if it were a long term relationship. I would wonder what I was depriving that young person of, the ability to live a life with someone that has yet to experience all there is to do, like having wee ones for the first time, etc etc etc... I have been there and done that...

Now the name of this thread is about young subs and old doms... I am neither a young sub nor an old dom. I am sure old and young will continue to connect and have relationships and I have no problem with that, but the above story that I related is not the only sad one I know of when it comes to May /December relationships... I was good friends through high school with a girl who married someone 30 years younger and was a widow before she was 40. I hope people think about these issues before they get too deeply involved with the very young as more than just a passing experience.

Something strange has happened to me in the last few years, I feel much more parental toward younger women than I ever have, like protective or something... so excuse me if I sound like a judgmental old biddy.. I don't mean to.

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