RedMagic1
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Also, Simon.... If a woman says, "Thanks, but I'm looking for someone older, no offense," what she often means is, "I'm looking for someone who acts older than you are acting." Going the other direction, I had a relationship in 2008 with a sub I met on Alt who was 26 (I was 40), and posted on her profile that she didn't want to hear from anyone over the age of 30, no matter what. I wrote her anyway, and explained why she interested me. She responded by saying how much she had been fantasizing about being with a creative man. We started dating. I don't act old and stodgy, so she overlooked the age difference, and started flirting. People say you're only as old as you feel. Maybe, but in the dating world, the babes tend to think you're only as old as you act.
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Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others. - 15th century Aztec
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