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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

Really? Maybe I'm just a lot more liberal with general nudity that most people.

I guess finding a gay guy who wouldn't mind being dominated verbally by a woman but who would play sexually solely with you isn't the easiest thing to run into. It is a small niche.

I do understand the issue of having to deal with guys that just want to focus on sex with her, though.

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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

The only gay guys that I've found who are willing to do what we're asking are not the kind of people I would want to do that sort of stuff with. My inbox has been stuffed with middle-age men asking if they can cheat on their wife and two kids with us, and I don't condone those sort of actions. Besides, I can't trust that those sort of people haven't been doing this for years on end, and that they don't have all sorts of nasty STDs.

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
Most 19 year olds haven't figured it out as much as you have. Would you consider playing with people a bit older? If you were in Quebec, there is a swinger's site that is BDSM friendly where you could find exactly that. I'm not sure where to refer you in Ohio. I'm not big on munches (meetings for BDSM people) but you might meet people there: http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/meetppl.html

Most imporantly, it might take a while to find the right person to do this with. Don't rush into this too fast or you might not like your first experience. When it will happen, if it's cool and happens naturally, pretty sure you'll have fun :-)

- LA

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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

Oh, and your current 2nd image should totally be your avatar instead of the current one. *nod*

Agreed! What a cutie pie :-)

- LA

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
I understand it. Here is what I hear from you and let me know if I got it wrong. You aren't gay. You probably don't want to be alone with a man. But the idea of a woman humiliating you by getting you (through persuasion) to suck a man's cock is a humiliation you are dying to experience, right?

This, yeah. I'm also into crossdressers and transvestites, but the idea of just being alone with them doesn't turn me on.

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
You say you have a girlfriend. Is she Domme? If so, maybe she shold be leading the search? She might have better results. And I say might hesitantly but I know I had more luck finding the men then my past boys did. I also used to turn to gay friends that didn't want to fuck me.

I have a girlfriend who is accepting of the idea, and wants to do it if I can find the right guy. However, it seems that every guy around my age group is only interested in banging her. I have no problem being with a gay guy, but I can't find any who are comfortable naked around a women.

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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

The only gay guys that I've found who are willing to do what we're asking are not the kind of people I would want to do that sort of stuff with. My inbox has been stuffed with middle-age men asking if they can cheat on their wife and two kids with us, and I don't condone those sort of actions. Besides, I can't trust that those sort of people haven't been doing this for years on end, and that they don't have all sorts of nasty STDs.

If you're speaking just of your experiences here, then give it time. Round out your profile a tad bit more. Switch your avatar (seriously! ). Specify what you're looking for.

I can't imagine that too many young single gay/bi guys would decline casual play just because it is at the command of your girlfriend or because they're shy about being naked.

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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

Have checked with us about this? Did you get a permission slip from your parents? How is this for the benefit of the community relationship at all?

You selfish bastard!

*cry*

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

NZ... I almost begged the Panda to hang around here more often. Imagine that, me, a Domme, begging the Panda. But I adore his insights. Maybe I could lure him with soup... and save my Domme diginity.

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
I understand it. Here is what I hear from you and let me know if I got it wrong. You aren't gay. You probably don't want to be alone with a man. But the idea of a woman humiliating you by getting you (through persuasion) to suck a man's cock is a humiliation you are dying to experience, right?

This, yeah. I'm also into crossdressers and transvestites, but the idea of just being alone with them doesn't turn me on.

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
You say you have a girlfriend. Is she Domme? If so, maybe she shold be leading the search? She might have better results. And I say might hesitantly but I know I had more luck finding the men then my past boys did. I also used to turn to gay friends that didn't want to fuck me.

I have a girlfriend who is accepting of the idea, and wants to do it if I can find the right guy. However, it seems that every guy around my age group is only interested in banging her. I have no problem being with a gay guy, but I can't find any who are comfortable naked around a women.

I'm just curious. If your g/f will allow you to suck and fuck on another guy, why can't she? To be honest I LOVE forced bi. But, it gets me quite aroused and often I want to tacklefuck both boys afterward, or during...lol. By limiting the other guy to 'just' you, you are making things far more difficult. Why not find a bi guy to participate and the 3 of you have a lovely evening of kinky fun?

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
Most 19 year olds haven't figured it out as much as you have. Would you consider playing with people a bit older? If you were in Quebec, there is a swinger's site that is BDSM friendly where you could find exactly that. I'm not sure where to refer you in Ohio. I'm not big on munches (meetings for BDSM people) but you might meet people there: http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/meetppl.html

Most imporantly, it might take a while to find the right person to do this with. Don't rush into this too fast or you might not like your first experience. When it will happen, if it's cool and happens naturally, pretty sure you'll have fun :-)

- LA

I have limits on age. I'd like to be attracted to the guy, and I'm really only attracted to young looking men. Not extremely young, mind you. A good example would be this man:

http://weblogs.cltv.com/entertainment/tv/metromix/beck22.jpg

He is extremely attractive to me.

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We're sort of in the closet about our sexual preferences, so I wouldn't be too keen on going to a munch.

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I sort of get the feeling that we'd be the oddballs there, most people that are into this sort of thing seem to be in their mid to late 20's, at the very least.

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I've been looking for about a year now, so I'm definitely not going to rush. Don't want to have one bad experience to ruin all the potential other ones. We're also looking for people who are into the same hobbies as we are, so we can enjoy our time with them, and it wouldn't purely be a sex thing.

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Also, thanks to all of you who have replied in a constructive way!

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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

I thought this one looked better? I messed up my haircut in the second picture. Plus enough people already ask me if I'm holding a ferret >.<

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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

The only gay guys that I've found who are willing to do what we're asking are not the kind of people I would want to do that sort of stuff with. My inbox has been stuffed with middle-age men asking if they can cheat on their wife and two kids with us, and I don't condone those sort of actions. Besides, I can't trust that those sort of people haven't been doing this for years on end, and that they don't have all sorts of nasty STDs.

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
I understand it. Here is what I hear from you and let me know if I got it wrong. You aren't gay. You probably don't want to be alone with a man. But the idea of a woman humiliating you by getting you (through persuasion) to suck a man's cock is a humiliation you are dying to experience, right?

This, yeah. I'm also into crossdressers and transvestites, but the idea of just being alone with them doesn't turn me on.

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
You say you have a girlfriend. Is she Domme? If so, maybe she shold be leading the search? She might have better results. And I say might hesitantly but I know I had more luck finding the men then my past boys did. I also used to turn to gay friends that didn't want to fuck me.

I have a girlfriend who is accepting of the idea, and wants to do it if I can find the right guy. However, it seems that every guy around my age group is only interested in banging her. I have no problem being with a gay guy, but I can't find any who are comfortable naked around a women.

I'm just curious. If your g/f will allow you to suck and fuck on another guy, why can't she? To be honest I LOVE forced bi. But, it gets me quite aroused and often I want to tacklefuck both boys afterward, or during...lol. By limiting the other guy to 'just' you, you are making things far more difficult. Why not find a bi guy to participate and the 3 of you have a lovely evening of kinky fun?

The only time that I think I'd be willing to do that is with either an extremely passable crossdresser, or a tranny. The idea of both of us going down on a tranny really turns me on, but a regular guy? I dunno... just a turn off. Hard to explain, sorry.

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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

I've actually not gotten a single message from anyone on this website that wasn't asking if I wanted to be their "cockslave" or "puppy". All the people I'm talking about are from a website that I really shouldn't be looking for people on, Craigslist. I actually didn't

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

By not letting your girlfriend involve herself with the other guy (in a way she chooses) what you are asking for is forced gay with a female leading the way. In either case, if the WOMAN is in charge darlin', she has the RIGHT to do whatever to whomever in that lil trio. Otherwise, you are just asking her to be a voyeur in your fantasy. How is that fair to her?

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

I didn't read where she said she didn't want to be touched, only where he said he didn't want her touched. If I missed that part, I apologize. I still believe that he is making it harder than necessary.

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

I didn't read where she said she didn't want to be touched, only where he said he didn't want her touched. If I missed that part, I apologize. I still believe that he is making it harder than necessary.