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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 4:23:38 PM

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I cast a wide net, darling!

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 4:37:41 PM

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See P, I disagree. If our Dominant Ladies cannot be human too, then we are all setting ourselves up for failure. They are going to have good days and bad, strength and weakness, wisdom and folly and we really -have- to give them that.

Otters, someone cmailed me recently to point out that there were hardly any submales left on this forum who spoke to the women here. Spoke to them as humans, I mean. 'The good ones are disappearing', so I was told. You should post more. I totally understand why you don't - recent nuptials, and all that - but let's face it: you're a lazy bastard. Poor show. The new Mrs Otters should give your arse a healthy kick into gear.

The older, straight men who've got married, that come here - zip in, then zip out - often make me think 'There but for the grace of God go I'. I could have been a vanilla husband, so, so easily. My last GF pressured like a bulldozer for marriage. It's only because I'm so in touch with my huge well of inner oddness that I backed away, then got out of the relationship. Yes, I think you're right: they're profoundly confused - they've discovered that their fantasies could have been real . . . but too late. It must be bloody awful, and I pity them.

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 4:40:01 PM

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And rightly so, Peon, you SHOULD pity them! But pity their wives, more.

It's also true that very few males here--sub OR dom--really speak to the women as people and peers. Nature of the beast, perhaps. Good thing I don't come here to associate with mens, eh!

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 4:42:53 PM

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And rightly so, Peon, you SHOULD pity them! But pity their wives, more.

It's also true that very few males here--sub OR dom--really speak to the women as people and peers. Nature of the beast, perhaps. Good thing I don't come here to associate with mens, eh!

So what do you do with me, if you're not associating with me, eh? Am I to take it that you trifle with me when you talk to me? Because I won't stand to be trifled with, Lady Hib, I tell you!

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 4:45:12 PM

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mmmmmmmtrifle!!

(Oh sorry, I am waiting for guests, who are keeping me from coconut cream pie!

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So, you were covering yourself in raspberry jam for me?

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 4:48:46 PM

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Now you take me for a tart! I won't have it!

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 4:50:28 PM

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Not at all, I just love to lick! Jam. Whipped cream. You know...

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 4:54:30 PM

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Not at all, I just love to lick! Jam. Whipped cream. You know...

He: [lecherous glint in his eyes] 'I want to cover you in jam, whipped cream and cake . . .'

She [face turned demurely away, eyes to the sky] 'I will not be trifled with!'

Stanley Baxter joke. He's not well-know outside the UK. Still makes me chuckle, that one, though.

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 4:54:48 PM

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No chocolate? There must be chocolate.

And to the OP, nope, I talk to your wife too so that I respect HER limits of what is to be done to you. If you want cane marks and she doesn't, I'm going to listen to her. (And if I can, I'll get her to see how fun this is, and then you'll have your very own domme.)

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 4:55:29 PM

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Not at all, I just love to lick! Jam. Whipped cream. You know...

He: [lecherous glint in his eyes] 'I want to cover you in jam, whipped cream and cake . . .'

She [face turned demurely away, eyes to the sky] 'I will not be trifled with!'

Stanley Baxter joke. He's not well-know outside the UK. Still makes me chuckle, that one, though.

Just send me the damned ticket> M y passport is ready!

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 5:04:45 PM

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Better yet! Both of you come to Thunder in the Mountains this year! Is in July you know...16th to the 18th...we would be happy to host and show you around Colorado!

One of the best BDSM conferences on the big-ball-o-dirt!

http://www.thunderinthemountains.com/main_frame.htm

You know you want to...

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 5:06:33 PM

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THIS year? SO not happening...... sigh... money trees don't grow well in SE Michigan.

Come to the Calibirthday in Florida!! Not until AFTER Thunder, perfect timing!!

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/17/2010 7:04:38 PM

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My femsub playpartner is married, but my then-Master and I met with her and her husband before she and I started playing, and discussed it. I've only met him in person one other time, but we talk on the phone occasionally, and are on good terms. Cheaters are generally considered undesirable as submissives, since they are viewed as dishonest, untrustworthy, and likely to generate a lot of drama.

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/18/2010 3:30:07 AM

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you are all special

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/18/2010 5:18:43 AM

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It's all work and weddings for me in July, I'm afraid. No trip to Stateside this summer, unfortunately. Damn, though, that event has intrigued me ever since I first heard of it.

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/18/2010 8:16:48 AM

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We go every year P, so consider it for next year! We simply have to get you on this side of the pond if nothing else than to give all the Ladies a chance to spank your ass for being such a cheeky monkey on these forums!

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/18/2010 8:20:25 AM

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Oh no, Otters. He is allllll mine!! Fuck that consent nonsense!

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/18/2010 8:33:11 AM

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Oh no, Otters. He is allllll mine!! Fuck that consent nonsense!

See P? They -love- you here...your coming would be like the Beatles arriving in 1964...only with paddles!

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/18/2010 9:01:41 AM

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*Cackle* I'm just trying to picture that, at the airport. A sea of women; silence everywhere except for a low-level growling, muted mumblings of the word 'bastard', and knuckles being cracked.

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RE: married subs finding Dommes to serve - 6/18/2010 9:03:08 AM

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Oh no, darling, NO ONE gets in front of me. I've been called "unstoppable" you know.

Srsly!

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