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RE: Have you noticed a prejudice against switches on CM? - 10/11/2012 10:34:12 AM   
orgasmdenial12


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I don't have any problem with switches as people - there are all kinds of sexualities and I like that - the more the merrier.

My problem is with people who feel that others *ought* to want to date / see / screw them or that by dishonesty they can get what they want.

I wouldn't date a switch, the role doesn't turn me on, I don't think that ought to be an issue. I wouldn't date a submissive either, but I don't see submissives claiming that this is prejudice. Moreover, I am getting kind of tired of talking to Doms who turn out to be switches - it's dishonest, and it isn't going to make me want to date them. You then have a big argument because you don't want to date a switch, and they're claiming they're not a switch, they just happened to have a 2 year locked and chastised relationship with a Domme as a 'learning experience' to make them a better Dominant. *shrugs* Maybe that's your definition of a Dominant, but it's not mine.

Even switches have certain groups of people they wouldn't date, everyone has their preferences. If it's not prejudice when it's a switch saying no, it's not prejudice when it's a submissive saying no either.

Be who you wanna be, date who you wanna date, be tolerant of everyone else's choices, as you expect them to be tolerant of yours.

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RE: Have you noticed a prejudice against switches on CM? - 10/27/2012 10:55:23 AM   
ServiceBoy89


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I'am proud that I'am switch and if someone don't like it can kiss my switchish ass :D

< Message edited by ServiceBoy89 -- 10/27/2012 10:56:08 AM >

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RE: Have you noticed a prejudice against switches on CM? - 11/4/2012 12:49:59 PM   
trelaford


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Prejudice is the wrong word. There are a lot of people who just don't believe that somebody who self-identifies as a switch could possibly be a good dom, or could possibly be a good sub.


They're wrong, but that's their right.


The obvious solution would be to create two profiles, one dom and one sub. Unfortunately the deep sense of integrity which is central to my personal Code of Honor prevents me from doing so.

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